This article is about attracting the right partner, but not in the sense that you were probably expecting. When trying to attract the right partner we spend so much time, money, energy, and effort on our boobs, our bellies, and our butts, but not on our brains, and it is our brain that controls all aspects of our lives.
I'll tell you the secrets?
It is only in the proper use of your brain will you attract the perfect partner for you. It is not how you look, how much money you have, or how lonely you are. It is not because all the good men or women are taken. They are not. It has nothing to do with how you look. Too many single people are still making excuses and looking for love in places that continue to lead to disappointment.
Are you aware of the Law of Attraction?
I learned about the Law of Attraction as a child and have been fascinated by it since then. I've studied it for over 30 years and I love it! It is my passion. I learned from the best. My mother was a master in the human potential movement and taught me how to use the Law of Attraction to get what I wanted. I want to teach you how to get what you want.
The Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe. It works just like a magnet. Our thoughts are energy and we attract and are attracted to the people who are in harmony with what we focus our attention on, regardless of whether that person is good for us or bad for us.
People wonder why they continue to attract the same kind of negative person repeatedly. The reason is they are consciously, or unconsciously, thinking about that kind of person, and doing things specifically that will attract them.
Even though you might be saying""this is not the kind of person I want, or I will never allow someone like that into my life again. When you speak the words, especially aloud, you give more power to what you "don't want"' and you continue to attract it.
On an unconscious level, it is the kind of person you want, or you would not attract it. There is something inside of you that still wants whatever this type of person gives you. There is a mechanism in your brain that searches out into the environment to attract what your mind believes you want. It never fails. The good news is, the minute you change your focus and keep your thoughts on the type of person you want to attract; you will begin the process of attracting it.
And it is a process so don't expect the results to happen overnight. What you experience in your relationships now is the result of your past programming, or thinking and behaving in a certain way that attracted what you didn't want.
It is a hard concept to understand, but once you do, it will change your life forever. You don't have to understand it, just know and believe that it works, because it is working whether you believe it or not. You don't understand electricity but you use it every day.
If you have read about the Law of Attraction and watched films like The Secret and you're still skeptical, just ask yourself "what if this stuff really does work"'? Just start using it. What can it hurt?
So, how do you attract the right partner using the Law of Attraction?
Here are the basic steps:
Have a Written Goal
Visualize Yourself With Your New Partner
Create A Vision Board
Create Powerful Affirmations
Ignite Your Passion
BE The Right Partner
Take Action
Look for Part Two of this article for the details on each of these steps to attracting the right partner using the Law of Attraction.
Aim High!
Copyright (c) 2007 LaVera J. Gaston
If you are attracting the same kind of person that you don't want, you are likely focusing your thoughts and energy on what you don't want, rather than on what you do want. Much of this is done unconsciously. You don't even know it's happening. If you repeatedly attract the wrong person that is your clue that you need to change your thoughts.
So, how do you change your mental programming and begin attracting your right and perfect partner? Here are the basic steps:
Have A Written Goal
"? Set the goal or intention. Write it down.
"? Write down the characteristics of your ideal partner (Age, education, economic level, height, hobbies, everything you want).
"? Read your list every day. Your mind must have repetition in order to change the neural connections.
"? Believe you can have it and that you deserve it.
Visualize Yourself With Your New Partner
"? Your mind thinks in pictures so make a mental movie.
"? Be sure to put yourself in the movie.
"? Think of what it feels like to be with your partner.
"? See yourself holding hands, cuddling, making love, doing things that you enjoy.
"? Do your visualization every morning and evening when your mind is most receptive.
Create A Vision Board
"? Find photo images of happy couples that seem to have the kind of relationship you want.
"? Include photos of the house you want to live in and doing things you want to do together.
"? Place your vision board where you can see it every day.
"? You can spice it up even more by using Feng Shui on your vision board. Put your photos in your relationship corner, which is the upper right corner of your board.
Create Powerful Affirmations
"? Make sure your affirmations are positive.
"? State your affirmations in the present tense.
"? Repeat your affirmations several times a day, especially in the morning and evening
"? Repeat your affirmations when you catch yourself thinking negatively about your relationship situation.
Ignite Your Passion
"? It is your feelings that attract things to you faster.
"? Feel it as you say your affirmations & do your visualization.
"? How does it feel to be with your partner?
BE The Right Partner
"? What specific qualities do you want your new partner to see in you? Make a list.
"? What do you need to change about yourself to prepare for your new partner?
"? What can you do to love yourself more?
"? What can you do to love your partner more?
"? Practice being the kind of person you want to become.
Take Action
"? What are your passions? Start doing things now that you are passionate about
"? Where can you meet people who share your passions?
"? Keep a gratitude journal. You get more of the things in which you are grateful.
"? Be grateful for all of the relationships you have right now.
"? Put yourself in places where you can meet new people.
"? Expect that you will meet the right person. Erase all doubts.
An important part of this process is you believing that you deserve the kind of person you want to attract. Some people have issues with self-worth. Maintaining a deeply held belief that you don't deserve a certain type of person will prevent you from attracting it regardless of how great you look, or any other physical attribute you might have.
The next time you're looking to attract your right and perfect partner, take a look inside your mind. That is exactly where you will find it.
Aim High!
Copyright (c) 2007 LaVera J. Gaston
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