Take a good look at your bedroom as it is now. Is your bedroom welcoming to new partners? Does your bedroom suggest that you are open to sharing your life? Is your bedroom depressing? No one is going to want to spend time in your bedroom with you if it is not pleasant. Use these simple strategies to encourage loving and healthy relationships:
* How big is your bed? This is an obvious, but often overlooked factor. Is your bed big enough to comfortably accommodate another? A tiny bed is telling others that you are not available emotionally to share your life. Make sure that your bed is big enough for you and your new soul mate. If you need to purchase a new bed, make sure that when you are selecting and assembling it that you are already envisioning the pleasant times you will be having in the bed with your new lover. It is important that you follow through with the thoughts as well as the actions. If you say to yourself "What's the use of having a big bed, I'll never find anyone to share it" then guess what? You won't. By thinking positive thoughts you are attracting positive actions.
* Bed linen. No one will want to share your bed if the linen is old, dirty and not fresh. Purchase new linen in patterns and colors that appeal to the romantic or sensual side of yourself. Picture you and your dream date in your bed together when you are making up your new bed.
* Ventilation. Good bedroom Feng Shui states that you need good ventilation. Keep a window ajar for fresh air. This also makes for excellent health. No one wants to be breathing in stale fumes.
* TV. Now a big TV in pride of place may have been comforting in your single days. However, that is all going to change and you need to be able to indicate to your dates that you will be concentrating on them in the bedroom and not the TV. Hide the TV in a cabinet, or move it to the spare room.
* Computer. Your bedroom is not for working or surfing the net. It is for sleeping and spending time with your new soul mate. Move the computer someplace else. Like the TV, it sends bad signals to potential lovers.
* Workout equipment. It is not considered good Feng Shui to have your workout equipment in your bedroom. If you are space challenged, store it in your garage, but don't keep it in the bedroom.
* Illumination. It is important to have several levels of illumination in your bedroom. Replace your light switch with a dimmer so that you have better control of your lighting. Various scenarios require different lighting to create the correct ambiance. When replacing the switch, visualize all the different activities that will soon be happening in this room.
* Color. The color of your bedroom is important. If you are able to repaint do so. Red is the color of passion. Perhaps you can have a feature wall, replace the curtains, or even set up a red mosquito net.
* Artwork. Any artwork depicting depressing, angry or lonely scenes should be banished immediately. What sort of message are you sending out? What sort of greeting are you giving yourself when you wake up every morning? Select artwork that is more romantic or cheerful.
* Candles. Candles are considered the best from of illumination for good Feng Shui. It doesn't hurt that most couples also find them highly romantic. Candles are available in a huge variety of perfumes, select ones that are romantically scented. Candles that are natural and contain no toxic substances are best. It goes without saying that you shouldn't leave burning candles unattended or fall asleep with them still flickering.
Combining Feng Shui and the law of attraction in your bedroom can have amazing results on your dating success. It is important that you just don't replace unhealthy items, but that you also visualize positive occurrences while doing so. Until your soul mate comes along, keep thinking about all the pleasurable activities that you will be able to enjoy with your new love. For more information on the law of attraction and how it can improve your life and dating ................
Our bedrooms are probably the most important rooms in the house. After all, we do spend the majority of our time in them! So it's little wonder why many people are now looking to improve the ambience of their bedroom with the ancient Chinese art of Feng Shui. As we continue to live in an ever stressful world which is forever changing and racing ahead, many people are looking for a spiritual break away from it all, and the Feng Shui Bedroom gives many the peace and tranquility they seek.
The decor of our bedroom along with the beds and bedding items can be responsible for quality sleep or lack or it depending on how we've organized our rooms. Restless nights or problems getting to sleep can be due to cluttered rooms with busy decoration. Many folks have found that by incorporating Feng Shui into their sleeping areas has resulted in a profound positive impact on the way they sleep at nights.
Although Feng Shui can seem like quite a learning curve for the novice, the basic principles are very easy to grasp. Based on the patterns of nature, Feng Shui is all about where to place every individual object in your bedroom. It's about the flow of energy in our lives and it's said to bring us good health and prosperity along with peace of mind and improved wellbeing, and let's face it, we could all do with a little bit of that!
I have personally adopted the principles of Feng Shui into my bedroom after suffering a couple of years of restless nights and shallow sleeping. I was a little skeptical at first but amazingly I now feel extremely restful in my bedroom plus considerably warmer and a lot more secure. I don't really understand it nor do I want to try to micro analyze it, all I know is that it's worked for me and countless others so I leave it at that.
Here are some simple tips on creating a Feng Shui bedroom:
* Position your bed so that you can see the door, but do not have your feet pointing towards it as dead people are supposedly carried out of the bedroom feet first and so it's bad for karma. Also try to keep you bed as far away from the door as the room will allow.
* Try not to sleep with you head under or too close to a window. Apparently, sleeping to close to a window means it's harder to wake up in the mornings as your 'chi' will dissipate.
* If you have an ensuite bathroom, shower room, or toilet, make sure that the toilet lid is down and the door is shut before you settle down for the night.
* Your bed should have a strong sturdy headboard. * Bedside tables should have rounded, not sharp, square edges. * Choose soft lighting wherever possible and avoid ceiling lamps. * Decorate with pastel shades. * You should not be able to see your own reflection in a mirror whilst in bed. * Have a beautiful ornament or plant positioned so that it's the first thing you see on awakening. * Rid the room of unwanted clutter, and this includes those items shoved into drawers and under the bed.
I've just touched on a few suggestions here. There are more and there are also some very interesting explanations as to why these thing work if you decide to dig a little deeper into the fascinating ancient Chinese art of Feng Shui.
This short piece should give you a little insight into the Feng Shui bedroom. It's completely transformed the atmosphere of my bedroom environment for the better, and coming from a skeptic, that's one heck of a statement.
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