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by Amit Kheterpal, Ami

If you are in love then you need ways to express your love to the other person. The expression of love should be such that you should be able to surprise the other person every time. It is the novelty of the idea which will bring something new into the relationship and inject some freshness into the relationship.

Now the expression of love can depend on the number of factors. For example if you are expressing your love to your girl friend for the first time then it has to something very special and very unique. That should give her a feeling she has never experienced before. You need to be very creative to express your love for her. Make sure that you can reflect the correct sentiments that you are feeling towards her. Girls usually like all things very romantic and in a make believe world so try a very special theme based setting for her.

If you are in a marriage and are trying to express your love to your wife then you definitely be very different as she knows almost all about you by now. Express your love to her by exposing her to a side she has rarely known about you. For example make sure that you change your way of dressing or hairstyle. This will give her something new and will surely appreciate the effort that you have taken to make her happy and feel wanted.

The other point to know is that it is generally females who would want to see from their male counterparts some expression of love. In general males are a lot less sensitive and hence do not place that much emphasis or importance on the expression of love.

That said if you are a female you should ignore the males but yes it takes a lot less effort to make your guy happy. Males generally would like to have their girlfriend or wife to be understanding of their moods. Men also want that the women they love should look beautiful and smart all the time. So make sure that you be dressed immaculately when you meet your guy.

Also another important thing to note is that in some relationships it is not the words that matter but the actions. So make sure that you understand the nature of the other person and act accordingly. Never try to emulate your best friend for what he did on the Valentine's Day for his girl friend. Your girl friend or fiance may not even like the idea of that. That is what is true love all about. It is about knowing in advance how your partner will feel in a given situation.

At times, Relationshipbetween Lovers may be under severe pressure. Such times are really painful andmay interrupt one's ability to perform his/ her day to day activities. It mayalso lead to psychological factors such as Stress and Depression. First theperson should identify the real cause that broke the Relationship. Studies showthat many a times, it is a petty problem that bursts out being a big problem.Hence it is advisable to resolve issues when it is relatively small.

Lovers should understand eachother and always share true information. Lies can lead to break-up in futurepoint of time in their Life. If you have any secrets, it is better to discloseit in the initial stages itself. Sharing some information may be a matter ofserious concern, but a true lover would always expect his/ her partner to behonest with him/ her.

Some of the leading causesthat lead to Relationship break-up can be listed as:

1. Ego problem/ Difference ofopinion.

2. Extra-marital affairs.

3. Being dishonest.

4. Financial factors.

Relationship break ups can beresolved by mutual understanding and resolving the issues in a positive way.Some of the factors that can aid in resolving Relationship issues are asfollows:

Tender Apologies

We all as a human beingcommit mistakes at one or other point of our life. To err is human and itapplies to Lovers as well. Accept your mistakes and apologize to your partner.But never keep this as a habit as your partner may lose confidence on you.

Forgiveness is great

As per the familiar quote byPaul Boese ?Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge thefuture?, lovers can resolve their Relationship issues by forgiving the mistakesof each other. When your partner earnestly feels Sorry for his act, forgivehim/ her rather than exaggerating the issue.

Build Confidence

Before resolving anyRelationship issue, make sure you are confident enough to resolve it. If youare not confident, the results may not be satisfactory. Confidence leads to ahealthy and strong Relationship.

Speak out

Take some time and speak outwith your partner to rebuild the Relationship. Many issues can be resolved ifspoken out. Partners can find out the real issue for the clash and should tryto rectify it. When the partner is not ready to listen to you, give some time.Time and Patience are the essential factors that can lead one to success.Giving some time paves the way to calm the mind of the affected partner.

Meet a Counselor

When you are unable toresolve the Relationship issues by yourselves, try to consult a RelationshipTherapist. A Relationship Therapist is a professional who can identify theissues between you and your partner, and provide ideal solutions. Meeting aCounselor will help to prevent complications such as divorce or permanentbreak-up.

As a human being, our life isfilled with happy and sad moments. Understanding this fact, lovers should beready to overcome the pitfalls in their Relationship and strive to make a longterm and happy Relationship.

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