1) Stop Reasoning - People constantly reason with them selves about why they behave in the way they do. We do ask ourselves over and over if we are in the right relationship, and we feel better when we arrive at conclusions to why the person is the right one for us. When we stop reasoning with ourselves in such a way, which can well happen over a period of stagnation, we fail to see the light of holding on to the relationship.
This being the case, the relationship can take an ugly turn when an argument erupts for the smallest of reasons. When we are in such a way disconnected with our own selves and with our partners, we begin to assume that it was not love at all, rather just compassion of infatuation with the opposite sex.
2) Compromise - It is inevitable that you will sometimes have arguments with other people, because you are bound to disagree with their ideas at some time or the other. When it is a larger group of people the bonds between them are harder to understand.
With couples, it is sad to see a relationship break up simply because people realized that there are in fact issues on which they do not see eye to eye. That is going to happen to any couple sooner or later. The answer lies in meeting half way, and reaching a compromise on issues that you do not agree upon. But do not be alarmed when you see people who do not appear to be very close to each other, remain in the relationship. Different people show their affection in different ways, and it doesn't have to be demonstrated for some to know that their partner feels love for them.
3) Forgive and Forget - Love often turns to hate when the person we loves hurts us in some way. When this happens, we begin to be indifferent to your partner, which only causes further pain. The better bet would be to forgive and to move on hand in hand with your partner.
Let us face the fact that if you do break up a relationship over something that happened in the past, you are only going to hurt yourself even more than what you already feel. We sometimes break up relationships just to punish the other, but forget that we would ourselves feel the pain as well! So, it is better to forgive and forget.
4) Spend Time - Make sure you spend quality time with your partner so that you never feel detached. Have a few laughs a day, and all will be well.
How many love affairs have gone sour, leaving you to wonder what would have happened if you or your partner had just been more loving? How many different things have you done in your life to be happier, only to discover that they were short lasting? If you could be happier and more loving, how would that change your life?
What if you were able to actually train your brain to feel happier and more loving? Dr. Beverly Rubik has found that there are particular brainwaves associated with feelings of love and happiness, and that ordinary people can be trained to enhance these brainwaves in just one session of this new biofeedback training. Your brain is actually capable of switching into a state where happiness and love predominate. Other feelings such as gratitude, satisfaction, and enhanced awareness also frequently accompany them. When Dr. Rubik described these experiences and asked her subjects in the study to switch into each of them, this pleasant brainwave pattern shown on the screen became larger. As their feelings waxed and waned, they were able to sense the relationship between these positive feelings and the neurofeedback (brainwave biofeedback). They rated the relationships between 6 of their feelings and the neurofeedback as "strong" to "very strong", with happiness and love at the top of the ratings chart. Three feelings diminished as the brain pleasure signal became larger--disappointed, stressed, and bored.
All in all, the unique brainwaves of love and happiness brought with them a wide range of positive feelings. Furthermore, the study showed that the end of the first session the subjects were able to enhance the pleasant brainwaves very quickly when they were asked to do so. Experienced meditators were able to do even better than everyday people.
If you were able to switch these loving and happy experiences on at any moment just by finding the mental place where they already are stored, how much better would your life be? This fascinating feedback system allows you to practice flipping this mental switch and enhance your ability to experience happiness, love, and satisfaction. You can do this directly, without having to do a happiness exercise or create happy thoughts. It's just there for you when you want it. Early in your practice, if you're having trouble getting to a happy or loving feeling, the system actually helps you get there by providing DVDs and CDs that create the mood.
Imagine sitting in front of your computer with a headband or headphone on, just groovin' on a beautiful experience. The better you feel, the bigger the picture gets and the louder the sound becomes. You are soon so absorbed in the wonderful experience that the picture is as big as it can get, and your mind is filled with feelings of appreciation, gratitude, happiness and love. As you continue this very pleasant training,you learn to sustain these feelings and make them stronger each session. The switch, once elusive, is now in your grasp. When you succeed, you know it because the feedback shows you the picture getting bigger, the blue bar rising,and the sound getting louder. If you wish to be reminded to practice during the time you're not in front of the computer, there's a small timer you can put in your pocket or wear on your belt that can vibrate every few minutes to keep you experiencing love and satisfaction.
This new neurofeedback system also trains you to focus your attention and to find the optimal level of alertness--not too sleepy, not too anxious--to achieve peak performance. Single-pointed focus can also help your love life. This complete kit is designed for use by professionals doing peak performance and happiness training, as well as the home user who can navigate through a typical computer program. In fact, everything about this system is designed to be simple to use.
It's the perfect Valentine's Day gift for the couple that wants to fall deeper in love! Now you can find that "lovin' feeling" again.
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