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by Victor Epand, Vic

Purchasing sexy lingerie for yourself is definitely all about how it makes you look, but more importantly it is about how it makes you feel. There are a lot of different styles and colors of sexy lingerie on the market that will affect how you feel about yourself.
It is more important how a piece of lingerie makes you look, that depends on how it makes you feel. The truth is how the lingerie makes you look determines how it makes you feel. Sexy lingerie should make a woman look feminine, although many pieces of lingerie can and should make a woman look dangerous, dominant, and absolutely delicious. The right type of lingerie should make a woman look however she wants to project herself or to the man in her life.
The fact that there is so much variety in the lingerie market can really make it difficult to choose the exactly the right outfit. The question at the outset has to be how do you want to really feel and are you looking to feel sexy, playful, dominant, or just plain flirtatious? Well, the good news is that there are lingerie outfits out there on the market that are designed to meet every whim you or he has. That is the beauty of sexy lingerie that is made in so many styles, fabric, colors, and sizes that every woman can purchase an outfit for every possible evening or event.
Purchasing sexy lingerie can be daunting if you are not armed with some information before beginning your journey. The definition of sexy can be expressed as your feminine sexuality to the fullest. The solution is lingerie such as boob out baby dolls, shelf bras, crotchless panties, leather lingerie, garter belts, and stockings.
In the sexy category, boob out baby dolls, are lingerie that will expose your breasts, which makes it difficult to find anything sexier. Some may object that these items take away all the mystery of a woman's body and expose it for all to see. There are plenty of lingerie items that leave some mystery, and a little bit more to the imagination. This category includes the boob out chemise and boob out bras, which are unlike the shelf bras. This is one of the most popular sexy lingerie items on the market and giving a woman these items as a gift leaves no doubt what is on his mind. More importantly, wearing these items makes most women feel very sexy as they expose the breasts and it is impossible not to feel feminine and desirable.
Shelf bras place the breasts on a shelf with under wire support, and worn alone or under clothing will make the breasts appear larger while offering support. Avoid these type bras if you have a D cup or above, because they simply do not provide enough support and your breasts will not gain the desired effect. These bras offer no coverage over the breasts and they will make you feel sexy, feminine, and desirable.
Along with the boob out lingerie items, crotchless panties include teddies and crotchless panties, which is often combined with boob out bras. These can be worn alone in intimate settings or under skirts and jeans. They offer the adventurous couple the flashing potential and make a woman feel exposed and vulnerable as access to erotic encounters is not inhibited. As with all the items in this category, the crotchless panties are not subtle and that is the beauty of the articles, because they make you feel hot and naughty. Some women report that wearing these panties is next to wearing no panties, as in going commando and they wear these for the thrill of knowing they are wearing crotchless panties, and only they or their mates know this.
Leather lingerie such as panties, bras, halters, baby dolls, and teddies are very sexy. Wearing leather is a statement of wearing biker wear, and all that goes with that outlaw mystique. Never mind that many Harley Davidson motorcycle owners are dentists, lawyers, and other professionals, this sexy lingerie has the very naughty and mystique look that being a bike girl carries is strong and sexually tinged.

So you see, they are not any different than us guys. We are all humans, after all, and are run on emotion. And that is a principle you need to understand if you ever want to be successful with attracting women.

Given this principle, how do you use it to attract more women? Simple. You need to make women feel good about themselves. Like I said earlier, even the hottest women are insecure deep down inside. It is your job to understand this, and to take action to make them feel good about themselves, and thus, feel comfortable around you.

Boosting a woman's confidence will do wonders for you. Not only will her confidence get a boost, but she may even become a totally different person.

That reserved, somewhat icy girl you approached might just open up and become an affectionate, flirtatious girl that wants to "get to know you better." And that is a green light if I ever saw one.

So how do you make women feel better about themselves? These 3 steps are perfect at doing that.

1. Be honest and sincere in your initial approach

2. Establish yourself as "Familiar Territory"

3. Get her to the "Safe Zone"

First and foremost, you have to be honest and sincere in your approach. As in the previous articles, we have learned that women can sniff out any pretentious behavior. So remember, you have to be yourself, and by doing so your behavior will be both honest and sincere.

Let's go over your initial approach. When you approach her, walk with confidence and NOT arrogance. Keep your chest up, and have a pleasant look on your face. Be open; "closed" behavior will only turn her off.

Next, you want to establish yourself as "familiar territory." What I mean by that is you want to create a relationship between the two of you. Not a relationship in the sense of dating, but a connection between two people that can be built upon.

When you finally get to the girl, you need to open with a casual line that does not focus on her. You are just asking for failure if you go up to her, and say something like, "You are so hot and I just had to talk to you.That's really something you don't want to say.

You want to start off with something neutral, maybe something about the environment you are both in. If you are in a coffee shop, maybe you can open up with something such as, "They make some strong coffee in this joint. It provides that jolt I need right now." That creates common ground between the two of you, breaks the ice casually, and gives her an opportunity to respond. This establishes you as familiar territory and creates a relationship in the process. And isn't that what you really wanted to do in the first place?

After you have successfully established yourself as familiar territory, you can then move on to designating yourself as the "safe zone." Don't get this confused with entering the "friends zone." That is a NO-NO!

The safe zone in this case means a place where women feel genuinely comfortable with you and can be themselves. When a woman is in the safe zone, she feels good about herself and confident. Because of this, she will be more open to you and your GAME. And this is where you want her to be.

So how do you get her to be in the safe zone? Because you already have established yourself as someone she can have a conversation with and have created a relationship, she will be more open to what you say. Now is the time to really kick up the efforts.

Earlier in Step 2, I told you not to focus on her immediately. That is because you have not created a relationship. Since you have already done that, it is time to build upon that foundation. This is the time when you can bring in the big guns and drop some flirtatious language. Not cheesy lines, but maybe give her a compliment on her outfit or smile. If she is receptive to your compliments, you have gotten her to the safe zone.

Given her reaction, you can gauge how heavy your flirtatiousness should be. You don't want to lay it on too heavy, but just enough to let her know that you are interested. Keep the conversation going for a couple minutes, and then prepare to get her contact information.

Whether or not the conversation is going well, the shorter the initial conversation with her the better. You don't want to wear out your welcome so soon, and definitely want to leave her wanting more. So usually tell her that you have to be somewhere, but would like to continue this conversation again. Ask for her number and then take off.

If done properly, getting her number will only be a formality, as she is in her safe zone.

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