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[M48]Make A Happy Home
by Daniel Day, Dan
Being a stay at home mom is one of the hardest jobs in the world. I realize what my wife does when I'm home all day and see what goes on. I often ask her how she does it and how she hasn't lost her sanity yet. There are many stay at home moms but how many are actually happy? I asked my wife what she does that makes her so happy because I know that she would love to be back out in the business world. These are lessons from my wife.

Have adult interaction on a regular basis. Talking on the phone to your friends is great but see them in person if possible. At the very least, small conversations can be therapeutic. Also, call your spouse once or twice a day and every once in awhile talk dirty to them, it helps keep the spice in your life and keeps the marriage fresh. Set up play dates with other mothers so the kids can play and you can converse. If that can't happen much walk through the mall sans kids just so you can be around other adults. My wife actually likes to grocery shop without the kids. Your spouse should can watch the kids when they get home sometimes so you can go out and do things by yourself. When you do have to go out with the kids make sure you have an ipod or something with songs that you like. It's okay to play kids music from time to time because its fun hearing them sing but giving them toys to play with in the car while you listen to your own music is even better.

Teach the kids what mom time is and take a few minutes throughout the day to enact it. The kids will learn to respect your time (somewhat). Mom time can also be shower time for you; my wife tells me she does her best thinking there. During kid time act goofy and play like them sometimes, they'll love it and the laughter will be awesome. Another activity the kids actually like is moving the furniture around. This teaches them input and possibly some style. Either way, they enjoy it and it mixes things up a bit.

Get away from constant children activities. Even though they take up most of your time, go to bed a little earlier so you can get up earlier to do things. My wife likes to get up and exercise everyday. It helps her focus, gets the blood flowing and makes her happy because that's what she likes to do. Having younger children, she usually has an hour or two mid days during naptime as well. This is the time she uses to surf the internet, read the paper/magazine, and watch what she wants to watch without it being a cartoon. All the other shows she likes and misses gets DVR'd until the kids? bedtime.

Unless there is a spill, there is no sense in cleaning up every little mess throughout the day. First, teach kids how and where to put things away. When you clean up find a time to do it once. Have the kids clean up with you so they understand responsibility. While we are on responsibility, let your kids pick out their own clothes to wear, especially if you're not going out anywhere special. This gives you the chance to watch them express themselves and sit back and smile at their creativity.

Even though my wife would like to return to paycheck world she values what she does and has never regretted her decision to be a stay at home mom. Kids are only kids for a short period of time. Relax, enjoy playing with them, teaching them and watching them just be kids. Most importantly, smile and laugh every chance you get.

Upholstery Cleaning: A Necessity to a Happy Home Life, a must for every home for health hygiene. Upholstered furniture such as chairs, sofa beds, sala sets, and ottomans are everywhere in a home. It cannot be avoided that they accumulate dust, get soiled, and become stained. Dining table chairs are very susceptible to stains and getting soiled because of food and beverage spillages that take place during dinners. Sala sets and ottomans most of the time get soiled because children are so fond of jumping on them and adults sometimes absent-mindedly place and curl their legs on them without removing their shoes. Either when used or not, they are all bound to accumulate dust because it is in the air. Upholstery cleaning must be done at least every week to create a happy home life.

The Dangers of Unclean Upholstery

Due to lack or absence of upholstery cleaning, upholstered furniture become dangerous. They become the homes of unwanted dwellers such as:

# Ants that could cause skin irritation
# Bugs, including bed bugs, which could bite both adults and children causing really itchy bumps
# Other insects that thrive on dirty environment
# Molds and mildews
# Bacteria that could cause skin irritation and inflammation

Without proper upholstery cleaning, pieces of furniture depreciate faster in terms of their useful life, monetary value, and aesthetics. The accumulated dust can become irritants and could lead to severe colds among the family members. Unclean upholstered pieces of furniture corrupt the overall appearance or aura of the room and the house creating a damp and unhappy place. They also emit an odor that could make anyone sneeze, which could truly be uncomfortable.

The Benefits of Upholstery Cleaning

A happy home life is not all about the relationships of the family members and other people living in the house. In fact their relationships could be greatly affected by their physical surroundings. When people are getting sick more often that they should, then surely their relationships are affected. Upholstery cleaning is necessary to achieve the following:

# Maintain the balance between the harmony of the physical cleanliness of the home and the rapport among the inhabitants of the home
# Cleaner environment that leads to healthier environment both for adults and children
# Better smelling place where people look forward to come home to
# Extension of the useful life of pieces of furniture
# Save on the costs of changing the upholstery
# Comfortable home spaces for dining, entertainment, and family bonding

The Tools

Upholstery cleaning does not require an expert. All you need are the basic upholstery cleaning tools that could be purchased in any department store or hardware establishment, such as:

# Paint brushes that are used to sweep the surface of the upholstery
# Rolling pin like brushes to attract hair that are on the surfaces and shallow crevices
# Handheld vacuum cleaner to remove dust and other articles that should not be part of the furniture
# Fabric bubbles or shampoos to soften the fabric
# Deodorizers that will improve how they smell
# Protectors that will shield them from stains, dust, and dirt

Article Source : Healthy Marriage

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Daniel Day has sinced written about articles on various topics from Marriage, Time Management Skills and Marriage. Daniel is a writer for Marriage Expert. He has four children and is married to the same beautiful woman he met in 1995. Please visit us at Marriage Expert and share your experiences with us.. Daniel Day's top article generates over 2400 views. to your Favourites.

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