Your unwillingness or incapacity to get past this reluctance, resistance and lethargy of leaving alone the attempt to try and be who you think you are has you living in the land of hope where you hope to be given something that is going to relieve you of the cramp that you wish to no longer feel.
Many of you visit teachers in this hope that you will miraculously receive something that will relieve you of your suffering while you continue on with the very mechanism that has you suffering this cramp in the first place.
You hope that there is some kind of slam dunk finale that will end all of this misery that you have had to deal with in your life ? this is what has brought on today's great enlightenment search and also the absolute nonsense that is part of the accompanying baggage that comes with it. This baggage tags along for the ride.
If you were to ask your teachers about the pain and suffering that they still feel on a daily basis - within their continuing movement of learning that they did not get to where they had hoped to get to within their new classroom flowerings ? it is guaranteed that you would not get an honest answer. These teachers are still suffering, they just keep quiet about it and in some cases, even to themselves.
If you wish to free up from being lost within the mechanics of where you find yourself, then you are going to have to learn to leave alone this unconscious activity that you get up to which perpetuates your misery on a momentary basis. You will have to bring consciousness to your table and this you will have tremendous resistance to doing.
You are to find this you of you that is already flowing through the eyes of this mindbody that you find yourself flowing through. You are to find this one and you are to stop at and as this one ? on a moment by moment basis.
You will not have an experience of this one that is already true of you, this you of you is completely beyond all experience. You have to be this one. You come to the knowing of who you are by being who you are and because it is you you can be it, even right now.
There is immense joy in being who you are and immediate freedom from everything, foremost the freedom from having to try and be who you think you are - this mindbody that you find yourself flowing through and intimately involved with. Freedom from having to defend any stance whatsoever from within your belief system. Freedom from everything is a lot of freedom indeed ? and this freedom is what is flowing through your eyes right now.
It may be a fear of flying, heights, public speaking or a myriad of other things that can ruin our lives, and that of our family and friends as well.
But what is it that makes us have these feelings? Why are we scared of some scenarios but not others? Why is not everyone afraid of the same things? Well obviously not everyone is the same, we all think and behave differently therefore deal with situations differently as well.
So having said that how can we overcome our fears, the key word is think, because believe it or believe it not we all have the ability to control what we think. We can turn negative thoughts into positive ones, making us feel more confident and able to deal with life and all it can throw at us.
Take the fear of flying for instance. It probably is not the thought of actually flying that scares us, it is more likely to be something that is associated with flying that causes the problem. Crashing and not flying is the obvious example but it can be something much less scary that sends us into panic mode.
In you own mind picture yourself going on a trip involving flying (or any other scenario that upsets you) and you will break the experience down into segments and discover which part of the experience it is that really causes the problem.
Maybe it is arriving late and missing the flight, crowded airports, having to deal with strangers, the claustrophobic feeling of the plane or even a dislike of where you are flying to or going to meet or do when you arrive.
Once you have done this you will find that you have just one or maybe two small phobias compared with the huge one you had when you started and you can now begin to do something about them. You will probably feel more confident about the situation already.
The big bonus is that you do not have to do this by yourself; there is help out there to guide you through it. Remember you did not have these fears when you were born, we have all seen how fearless young children are, all you need is to retrain your brain and rid yourselves of these irrational thoughts.
Strangely enough just after writing this article I was watching a popular TV programme about airports and it showed a clip which endorsed much of what I had just written. It showed an elderly gentleman boarding a flight to take him away on holiday following the recent death of his wife.
Once onboard he felt sick, dizzy and claustrophobic and being confused he decided to get off of the plane a report how he felt to the girls who had looked after him back at the booking in desk. Other passengers seeing him get off started to panic thinking he may have left a bomb behind and the pilot had no choice but to evacuate the plane and have it security searched before taking off.
The truth was discovered when the gentleman reached the check in desk but it was too late to prevent the flight being delayed. Prior to his wifes death they had regularly flown together quite happily but this was the first flight the man had taken alone since his wife had passed away. The memory of his wife and their travels together reinforced his feelings of grief and loneliness, which together triggered off the panic attack. He was unable to resume his flight and had to postpone his holiday until he had received treatment for his symptoms.
so what is stopping you from taking that next step and trying hypnosis to change whatever it may be that you want to change to improve your life.
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