Start by dressing the part. Show off your favorite parts of your body in a sexy mini-dress or bustier, stockings and heels. Go glamorous and try a hot new makeup look and hairstyle. If you need to practice, check yourself out in the mirror and watch the way your body moves to make sure you are achieving the look you want.
Next, prepare the surroundings. Play some mood music, whether that be something fast like hip-hop or slow like jazz, to get yourself ready. Place your man where you want him. Sit him in any chair you choose, just make sure you are both comfortable before the show begins. Dim the lights and you're ready to go. Just the fact that you are so in control will make him swoon.
One of the basic moves of an exotic lap dance is the grinding circle. You see it all the time in movies, on T.V. and in clubs. Enjoy teasing him while standing about two feet away, your feet turned out and hip-width apart. Begin to make a circle with your hips, making sure to keep your back arched, not stiff. Continue to bend your knees and come down as far as is comfortable for you. Have fun and dance as erotically as you can without leaning too far forward or losing your balance. It's all in the hips, so make sure you're grinding your little heart out.
While still facing your man, give these other hot moves a try. Catch his knee between your own and grind in a forward and backward motion on his legs. Then blow softly on his face and neck or whatever else you know turns him on. Perform a breast stroke by placing your hands on the sides of the chair. Slowly lean forward, keeping your balance, and gently caress his face into your breasts. Move in any way you like and think that he will like, too.
Even if your man is all about the breasts, it definitely doesn't hurt to show off your backside, too. It's imperative to gracefully, erotically turn around to give him a little taste of your other assets. Do it slowly and rhythmically. When your back is to your partner, you can engage in some other super sexy moves. Give him a little lap dance grind by standing between his legs and bending your knees, coming as close to the chair as possible With your back straight, grab onto your man's knees and move in a circle or whatever feels right. Rub yourself against him lightly, using his knees for support and if you can, glance over your shoulder at his face and make eye contact. Make sure you don't cause him (or yourself) any discomfort in the process.
For a grand finale, if you feel stable and strong enough, grab the back of the chair and gracefully place your knees on his thighs with care. Then, slide your knees into the open space of the chair, and slowly slide all the way down until you are kneeling in front of him. Use him to help yourself up erotically and give him a long, passionate kiss. Your exotic lap dance is complete. What happens next is up to you!
If you are a more conservative decorator, or have never decorated in a theme before, a Hawaiian or island theme may seem a little excessive for your bedroom. However, in actuality, because there are so many elements to Hawaiian d'cor, you can make your bedroom as extravagant or basic as you want.
The following are some ideas for you to think about when putting together such a theme for your bedroom:
Walls ? There are many ways you can color your walls. If you would like to keep it simple, a clean neutral shade of brown such as sand or a light taupe, or a warm white are excellent paint choices. For those who would prefer a more dynamic wall, consider painting the wall a bright but soft yellow, blue or green.
On the other hand, if you are feeling creative, you could paint a beach wall mural, or purchase a ready made mural, such as a Hawaiian sunset, and paste it on the wall. In addition, don't forget, there are always palm tree, palm leaf, and floral wallpaper if you like prints.
Floors ? Deep red-brown, chestnut, or sand colored wood floors are the perfect compliment for any Hawaiian d'cor. If hard wood floors are out of your budget, consider laminate. Conversely, if carpet is preferred, a nice light or dark shade of brown, ocean blue, sea green or light green are all ideal choices.
Doors and Moldings ? These elements of the room should be colored in a dark and rich brown such as oak or cherry to blend nicely with the rest of the room.
Window treatments ? The best window treatments for Hawaiian d'cor are wooden shutters, or bamboo blinds. You can leave these window treatments as is, or you can provide them with a little more oomph by adding a delicate white sheer curtain.
Lighting ? A wood ceiling fan, especially one with blades in the shape of palm leaves, is ideal for the Hawaiian theme. If a ceiling fan is out of the question, opt for any other basic ceiling light, as your goal is to not make the ceiling light a focal point of the room. Hula dancer lamps, palm tree lamps, or pineapple lamps are also fun d'cor pieces for bedside tables or end tables.
Bedding ? In regards to bedding, you essentially have two options. Either choose a solid color for your quilt or comforter, or choose a print. If you choose a solid color, you can add printed throw pillows to dress up your bed. However, if you choose a print, such as orchids or palm leaves, make sure you accent throw pillows and walls with solid colors. It is imperative that the room doesn't carry too many prints or it will look to busy and intimidating.
Furniture ? Wood furniture is definitely the way to go. If you cannot obtain solid wood furniture, opt for bamboo, or dark faux wood furniture. That being said, don't overload your space with furniture, as your goal is to create an open space. Therefore, make sure you include all essential furniture pieces first (I.E. bed, dresser, chest of drawers and bedside table). If you still have room than you can add any other furniture such as end tables, sitting chair, shelves, armoire, etc.
Accessories ? Other Hawaiian d'cor you may wish to add to the room include:
? Palm plant (real or artificial)
? Vase of artificial orchids
? Wall tapestries of palm trees, orchids or palm leaves
? Authentic Hawaiian art
? Pictures of palm trees, orchids, a beach, Hawaiian architecture, hula girl, or actual framed photographs taken in Hawaii, etc. Note: wooden frames are best for pictures or wall art.
? Area rug with flower or palm leaf
? Plain or decorative bamboo or wooden screen
? Throw pillows with floral or palm leaf pattern.
? Bamboo chair
When it comes to using Hawaiian d'cor for your bedroom, there are plenty of options to choose from. Your decisions will be based on your budget and your own personal taste. Therefore, make sure you shop around and look for different items before making any final decisions. Finally, trust your own judgment and don't be afraid to be creative when putting together your bedroom. Take your time, and have fun!
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