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One wedding plan quite often overlooked is, the actual preparation of the to-do list itself. If the to-do-list is not organized and itemised properly with all your wedding desires then you can expect last minute hiccups. This part of planning your wedding is the conclusion to a beginning. Meaning, now you have the list in order (finished), you can start the ball rolling.
To avoid any disappointment on your wedding day - prep friends and family in advance who have offered their services to help. To lighten the load you need to allot each person with a wedding task. You need to remind each helper after receiving their instructions that they need to report back with a progress report on how they are getting along with their assignments.
Wedding tasks may include ordering the wedding cake, ordering flowers from the florist, wedding cars to transport the bride, bridesmaid dresses, decorating the reception hall, arranging entertainment - right down to what hymns are sung in the church for the marriage service. All of these are wedding plans which are considerably important so therefore the reason why you need to be kept updated.
Do you the betrothed find you're self in a catch 22 situation i.e. worrying over having to ask others for help with your wedding arrangements, who you feel may give you reason for concern in not fulfilling their duties, or, are you worried if you don't because of all the pressure involved going it alone - so as to speak.
Unnecessary stress for any future bride before her wedding is not good. Okay so you need help, well, the first thing to do is pick family members and friends you can trust in carrying out your requests. The more intimate the friend is with you the better because they know your traits, likes and dislikes, so therefore if faced with a dilemma i.e. having to make a decision on your behalf in your absence, it will be in your best interest. (This is where trust prevails)
One wedding plan is to sit down with your disciples and talk things through. You will be surprised how this will help ease pressure. Give them each a note pad to make their own wedding to-do-list on your behalf and then compare notes when the sitting is over. Once again there maybe surprises in store with what each individual sees fit for your wedding. Ask each friend before hand if they will be comfortable with the wedding task you have lined up for them. By doing this, - and you receive an indecisive reply, then it gives you the opportunity to reallocate them with a different assignment, The more finer in detail of what you want from them will get you positive results.
Wedding plans normally entail - Bridal Gown, headwear, bridesmaid dresses, wedding cars, booking the church, wedding cake, flowers, wedding rings, entertainment, photographer, food, wedding invitations, wedding speech, marriage vows, venue hall etc.
The list is endless, but the most important of all wedding essentials not be forgotten is to have the groom at your side. Before dressing in white - Get it right.