Whether you have a husband who has everything he wants aside from that half-million dollar Lamborghini, a brother who changes his favorite hobby daily, or a father who tells you not to buy him anything, choosing gifts for men -- especially something they really like -- can be a challenge.
While there’s no “perfect” gift out there that will please every man, these tips will ensure you’ll be tuned into the psychology of gift-giving to men, and help you choose a unique gift for him he’ll really love.
1. Think Function, Not Sentiment
“In a heterosexual relationship men tend to think of gift giving more in terms of an economic exchange of goods than women do,” says Professor Margaret Rucker, who holds a doctorate in psychology with an emphasis in consumer psychology, and is a gift-giving expert.
So while a woman may be completely impressed by a house filled with roses, a man would probably prefer an item that he can hold on to, and use. Think golf clubs over naming a star after him, and new slippers over a decorative knick-knack.
2. Listen to What He Wants
While women may offer hints as to what the “perfect” gift would be, men tend to be less subtle and may come right out and say what they want. Rather than going out of your way to find a “surprise,” simply buying the item he’s said he wants can be ideal.
The key is to pay attention and buy the item that HE wants, not the item that YOU, the giver, wants (or thinks he should want).
3. Center it Around His Interests
When looking for a functional gift for men, be sure it centers around something he likes. If he’s in to sports, this might be tickets to a sold-out sporting event, or some type of sports memorabilia (think golf balls with his favorite NFL team logo on them -- see -- versus a pack of regular golf balls.) A man who loves gardening may appreciate a special plant or gardening tool. Does he love watching movies? Maybe a DVD player, a surround sound system, or a couple of CDs or DVDs would fit the bill.
4. Avoid Generic “Token” Gifts
This rule applies just as much to women as it does to men: most people, including men, don’t value generic token gifts.
Token gifts for men, like socks and underwear that you’ve given him every year, are regarded as “low cost and low effort,” Rucker says. Generic gifts are regarded similarly.
"If it’s a gift you have in the closet, something you could give anybody, that’s downgraded," says Rucker.
5. Make it Something Fun
While there are some men who will definitely appreciate a practical gift (some new work clothes, a garden hose, etc.), generally speaking, men want a gift that’s fun.
(The exception here may be seniors, particularly those on a fixed income would actually prefer something they already need.)
The key is finding something that the man will use, but that will be fun to use, not something work-related. For instance, buying a man a regular tool set is comparable to buying a woman a vacuum cleaner -- unless the man loves woodworking, etc., and you find that special tool he’s been looking for.
For some really fun (and FUNNY) gifts see .
6. Put Some Thought into It
Men like to feel special, too, and a thoughtful gift will make him feel loved and supported. What makes a gift thoughtful? Finding something that HE wants and that HE’s interested in. Check out the store to see if there are any products that would make great gifts he’d be interested in … search sites that suggest unique and interesting gifts like … or of course Google specific gift search terms that may be up his alley.
One of the latest gadgets is the Roboquad below, which is one of the latest gifts for men.
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*Roboquad Is Now Available On Pre-Order - Stock Due In 20th July 2007* The Exosapien Roboquad invasion - Intelligent life has landed. Exosapien Roboquad is an inquisitive robot with unique movements and an advanced sensor array. Change his Awareness, Activity or Aggression levels to completely alter his personality and behaviours. Interact with his long range, deep IR scanner and sound sensor, control him with the full function remote and watch him react to light. Roboquad has an extended battery life for prolonged missions.
About Roboquad Advanced Awareness Roboquad is more aware than any other robot thanks to its deep IR scanner. Able to spot movement at up to 13 feet, It can also search for and navigate through doorways, and detect edges of tables with its head mounted IR scanner.
Light Sensor When the light goes out Roboquad keeps going, turning on its head mounted LED's. His reactions and behaviours change as darkness falls.
Sound SensorRoboquad reacts to sound by quickly scanning his environment for any intrusion.
Personality Settings. Control Exosapien Roboquad's autonomous behaviour and the way he reacts to your presence by choosing between the awareness, Activity or Aggression buttons on the controller and setting the levels to low, medium or high. State of Awareness Roboquad's awareness level affects how much information it takes in through its sensors. At higher levels he'll see everything, and spend more time active scanning routines. State of Aggression This affects how Exosapien Roboquad reacts to sensor input. High levels make it angry and aggressive, low levels make it nervous and shy. State of Activity Exosapien Roboquad will be more active, and travel further distances, at faster speeds, when the activity levels are high. Unique Movement Exosapien's state and level setting will affect his unique movement. Leave him in autonomous mode to explore his environment in a variety of ways or control him directly. Roboquad Specifications 4 x Leg Motors 4 x Leg Motor Position Sensors 2 x Head Motors 2 x VR Head Position Sensors Lens-Focused, Face-Mounted Deep IR Radar Vision 1 x Microphone 1 x Light Sensor 1 x LCD Controller Roboquad
Other Gifts for men
Become a Laird ? Become a Lord or Lady - Become a Lord (Laird) or Lady when you buy this gift and be the owner of a plot of land on the Kincavel Estate in Sonachan, Scotland, and have legal usage of the title ?Laird? (meaning ?land owner?). Laird is a title that can be used by men or women but the commonly accepted equivalent for women is ?Lady?. http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/gifts-for-men/unusual-gadgets/laird-lord-and-lady-of-the-glen.html
USB mug warmer ? USB cup warmer - We've all been there. You've just brewed yourself a steaming cup of liquid Loveliness, you get back to your desk to a flurry of urgent emails and by the time you've averted all manner of minor disasters like the superhuman workhorse that you are, your cup of steaming refreshment is stone cold. http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/gifts-for-men/work-gift/usb-cup-warmer-and-mug-warmer-with-4-usb-ports.html
Arse Face Soap ? Arse Face Soap Arse Face Soap is a hilarious bar of soap that's sure to add some fun to your bathroom. Arse Face Soap is a generous size with a fresh scent, clearly stating which side of the soap should be hygienically used for certain areas of your body! http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/gifts-for-men/men/acre-of-the-moon.html
Acre of Land on the moon ? buy an acre of moon - Buy an Acre of the Moon and own your very own land on the moon at our special offer price of ?18.90! The Acre of the Moon is a fantastic unique, unusual gift that gives you your own lunar estate! This is a gift guaranteed to send a loved one into outer space! Make someone special smile today by buying them an acre of the moon! http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/gifts-for-men/men/acre-of-the-moon.html
Darth Tater Mr Potato Head ? Mr Potato head - We're proud to announce the launch of Darth Tater! Discover all kinds of mix 'n match Mr. Potato Head fun with this wacky spud dressed as Darth Vader. http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/gifts-for-men/unusual-gadgets/darth-tater-star-wars-mr-potato-head.html
Wild Sling Water Bomb Launcher - Wild Sling Water Bomb Launcher is a water bomb catapult sling and it gives a whole new meaning to wet and wild. Wild Sling Water Bomb Launcher has to be the best boys toy for the summer. You simply put the water bomb in the Wild Sling Launcher, pull it back and fire your water bomb over 400 feet (150 meters). http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/gifts-for-men/unusual-gadgets/wild-sling-water-bomb-launcher.html
Finger Drums - Finger Drums - Now you can be the ultimate office enemy.....just keep practicing your drum rolls in important meetings...or when someone is trying to pour their heart out to you!! http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/finger-drums.html
Potty Putter ? Potty Putter - Introducing Potty Putter! The toilet time golf game that lets you practice your putting while going to the bathroom. If you're a golfer who can't get enough practice time, then Potty Putter is for you! Now you can sink putts where no one else has sunk them before - in the bathroom! http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/gifts-for-men/men/potty-putter.html
Automatic Card Shuffler ? Automatic Card Shuffler - Automatic Card Shuffler is an electronic card shuffler which gives you a quick, reliable multi deck card shuffle. No more of those repeat hands from the previous game. Just cut the deck, lay the cards flat on the trays and push the button for an impressively fast automatic card shuffle! This automatic card shuffling machine is battery powered, so there's no cord to get in the way of the fun! http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/gifts-for-men/unusual-gadgets/shuffle-master-automatic-card-shuffler.html
Laserpod Crystal Light - Laserpod Crystal Light - This is the lastest version of the world famous laserpod which now contains more coloured LED's. It uses a red laser, and 3 coloured LEDs (red, amber and blue) and a rotating crystal to produce the most amazing and spectacular light show you will see outside Glastonbury. http://www.find-me-a-gift.co.uk/gifts-for-men/unusual-gadgets/laserpod-crystal-and-laser-lamp.html
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