One of the first things to consider after you set the date for your wedding is picking out invitations. Think about it, without the invitations it doesn't matter how fancy your wedding is no one will be coming. I just got married and since we had a simple wedding that was beach oriented we went for a watercolor invitation that featured a beach with a sunset and two beach chairs, with our names embossed on them. Here are some other unique wedding invitation ideas.
It can be very difficult to choose the perfect invitation, there are so many different choices available online and with tons of stationary stores all around how do you find the best bargains and the best designs. Look for a place that has many different designs to choose from with unique ideas and perspectives. You don't want to end up with the same invitation your best friend used two weeks ago and you definitely don't want one that looks like it came out of a time machine! The main thing you are looking for in the perfect wedding invitation is one that gets attention. The best way of getting people's attention is by presenting them with an invitation that is different from all the others they see.
If you want to go for a personalized look you could opt for having photos inlayed in the invitation. A sepia or black and white photo can look really classy and make for a very unique invitation. How about having a photo from the night of your engagement?
Another novel idea that would really get attention is to use a scrolled cloth. If you are having a really traditional wedding this could tie in very well. Have the invitation printed on a delicate piece of cloth and roll it up like a scroll tied with a satin ribbon. How many people do you think would do this?
You could have your invitation done as an engraving into a sheet of glass or perhaps, acrylic. This would certainly classify as unique and could hardly be lost or put aside. This was you are offering something that is permanent that can be thought of as a keepsake. I know I can't recall ever seeing anything like this.
If you are artistically inclined you could possible design your own wedding invitations, if not you could commission an artist to design one that is a totally unique and original piece of art. You could even have the artist sign and number them so that they would have even more value. I don't think anyone would toss out an invitation like that.
The Traditional Solution
The customary way of handling the situation is through careful addressing of wedding invitations. If a person receives a wedding invitation addressed to "Mr. and Mrs. John Doe III" it is understood that little John Doe IV is not invited.
Guests sometimes miss this subtlety and will RSVP for all three. This means the guest is either clueless or thoughtless.
Clueless is okay. Sometimes we all miss the point and a simple telephone call can correct the situation amicably.
Thoughtless is a little harder. Some people feel entitled and just assume that they can bring a child, friend, or random vagrant to the reception. Be firm and explain that there are only so many seats available and that extra guests cannot be accommodated.
Other Ways of Dealing With The Problem
There is some debate about the etiquette of other solutions. Weddings are extremely formal and emotionally-charged events and seemingly trivial missteps can seem tasteless or even lead to long-term resentment.
Rather than depending on wedding invitations, some reinforce the message by explicitly listing the guests' names on the RSVP card. The downside is that this is more work on the bride's side and some people will still blithely add names to what's on the card.
Some invitations have the line, "We have reserved ___ seats in your honor" to hammer the point home. There are wedding planners who feel such a bold statement is tacky, while others consider it completely reasonable.
The correct etiquette changes from region to region, so talk to your friends about what they have done at their weddings. You could also ask the wedding planner or the printer what the latest fashion in wedding invitations is.
Handle It But Don't Obsess About It
If someone RSVPs with extra guests, call and explain. Most people will realize their error and correct the situation. Sometime people have genuine conflicts, such as being unable to get a babysitter on the day. Don't make it your problem. Your wedding is the one day that you can confidently say, "It's all about me!" Make it clear that there is only room for the reserved number of guests and let them figure out the details.
You want your wedding day to be the perfect fantasy. You can get very close to that ideal, but problems will always crop up. It's up to you to treat trivial problems as trivial. If someone shows up with an extra guest, that's not exactly on the same level as the reception hall burning down. Shrug it off, move on, and enjoy your special day.
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