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by Paula Phillips, Pau

A lot of dating sites out there can tell you thousands of little secrets, tips and tricks on how to attract women but the thing about those stuff is that they're basically just that: tips and tricks-never really what you exactly need to get a girl to truly be interested in you and like you.
In knowing how to attract girls, you only need to keep in mind three basic things: engaging, humor, and confidence.
1. Engaging
So what does engaging mean?
Engaging is simply about knowing how to start and sustain a conversation. It's not about knowing how to pick up women with washed-up pick-up lines; it's about showing genuine interest by creating a stimulating and interesting conversation.
Engaging someone in a conversation tells her that you want to go beyond the surface level-that yes, you find her beautiful but now you want to find out if you are actually a good match. It tells her that you want to get to know her more.
2. Humor
Another basic thing about knowing how to attract women is humor. You don't have to be a professional comedian, though. You just gotta know how to laugh at jokes and make her laugh at least every once in a while. Women (and people in general) find funny men irresistable because basically, people naturally feel good around someone who can make them laugh.
3. Confidence
And finally, confidence. The one thing that you should have if you really want to know how to atttact women, then you definitely have to have confidence. It doesn't matter if you've read all the pick-up books in the world; if you don't believe in yourself, then everything you've read won't be put to use.
Truth: a good woman always wants a confident man. They can always tell whether a man is confident or not.
Playing the pity game will get you nowhere. Of course, some may find it cute but cuteness is way different from attraction. If you want genuine attraction, then you have got to be confident in yourself.
If you want to know how to attract women, it is strongly suggested that you read James Bradley's "How to Be Irresistible to Women".
This book, and a lot of other bonuses that come with it will teach you just how to meet the girl of your dreams, create and maintain a relationship with her, and treating her right in bed. If you want a long-lasting relationship with the right woman, then James Bradley is the man for you.

No one can deny that body language plays a crucial role in catching girls? attention?and keeping it. Nearly *75%* of signals women send is through body language--so you're not going to find out if she's into you from words alone! Unfortunately, many men miss out on these signals, and thus miss out on the girl. The good news is, if you CAN read a girl's signals, you stand out from the rest of guys, and make yourself all the more attractive! With that said, here are 6 signs that she's not into you, and 10 signs that she is!

BAD BODY LANGUAGE
1. Not making eye contact with you?looking around, eyeing her friends, looking anywhere but at you
2. Legs crossed?always a bad sign. This means she's closing herself off to you
3. Arms crossed?This can convey annoyance and impatience. Definitely a bad sign.
4. Hands on her hips?This can also convey impatience. Not looking good.
5. Leaning backwards'It?s much better when a woman is leaning towards you. If you notice her leaning away from you, keeping her distance, it means you've gotten too close for her comfort and she's not that into you, at least at this point.
6. A weak handshake'Do you shake a girl's hands when you meet her? If you do and notice that hers is weak and she is quick to take back her hand, then she's not very impressed.

GOOD BODY LANGUAGE
1. She looks down when you see her and smiles'A very good sign. She's shy but wants you to come over to talk to her.
2. She's twirling her hair around?Definitely into you.
3. Licks her lips?unless you can tell she's screwing with you, this is a very good sign!
4. Open legs?Open legs, open mind. She's open to hearing more from you?and who knows what else.
5. Sideways glance?The classic Hollywood flirtation, this is a coy, seductive way of showing her interest
6. Fondling a cylindrical object (cigarette, glass, etc.)?VERY good sign! And a hint of what she may have in mind for later on in the evening?
7. Fondling her shoe (shoe is slight off her foot, twisting her foot in circles)?This is that classic shy signal that girls use to display interest.
8. The "leg twine"?one leg pressed hard against the other to give the appearance of high muscle tone?very good sign
9. The head toss'If she tosses her hair back over her shoulders, this is definitely a good gesture.
10. Exposed wrists'If she's interested in you, she will gradually display the smooth, soft skin of her wrists to a guy she's interested in. Wrists are actually considered one of the more erotic areas of the body'so if she's showing you this sexual area'go for it!

Hope these tips help you out. Remember, none of this will do you any good if you don't follow up on it! If a girl is showing interest, it's up to you to take the next step and show your attraction BACK to her. Tune in to my next article on what YOU as a man must do to successfully attract female attention, using flirtatious body language. Because it's your turn!

James Brito is the author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women." His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing women the world over. His immersion in international
dating circles brings forth a gritty, no-nonsense approach to dating and developing relationships necessary for the modern single man.

Learn more about how to attract the woman of your dreams at:

www.000relationships.com.

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