So it is good that young guys study as much as they can to get good university degrees. Armed with a tertiary education and degree, they have better chances to secure high paying jobs on entry level. To feel well provided for and to be cared by a husband who is financially secure is what most women want.
Never mind if you are not born with James Bond double Oh Seven looks and traits. Sometimes when you go out, you are amazed that how a pretty young gal could walk with an ugly man and how could they be a couple. Thats because finances take precedence over other characteristics.
Smart women generally dont like to pair up with a male who cannot provide financially to the family. This is the very first feature they look out for. They dont like to slough it out holding two jobs or even three just to bring bread to the table and feed four mouths or more.
From experience, I have seen unlikely couples match up such as a young pretty girl with an old bloke who is more than two times her age and could be her father. This explains why Wendi Deng, a young successful executive with a Masters degree finally married her boss who could be her grandfather. Obviously she married for money. Her husbands attraction is his immense colossal wealth.
But since there are so many women and men out there, and not every one is born with a silver spoon in his mouth, most women end up with average men who have a secure job and reasonably enough money to foot the wedding bill. As long as they are financially independent and have the ability to work and earn their monthly salaries, this is sufficient for the prospective wife.
You dont have to be a billionaire or a millionaire like Donald Trump to get a wife. Most simple women, in general, have simple tastes and requirements. These lowly educated gals from the villages do not have high expectations of their partners.
As long as they can be taken care of for the rest of their lives and dont have to work late at nights, they man is good enough for them. He is husband material if he does not cheat on her and is a good father to her kids and a faithful husband to her.
Women are human beings too and are not complicated creatures if you treat them right from the beginning. To do this, you need to respect her as she is and not to belittle her in public or treat her like a second-class citizen. Be fair to her. And in turn, she will respect you back.
Trust and respect have to be earned and not to be taken for granted. You cannot expect your girlfriend to respect you as a person if you dont give her due appropriate respect in the first place.
In fact when a guy gets too huge muscularly many women see that as a compensation for other weaknesses. What they do desire is a fit man, who walks with his head up high, with his shoulders back, showing complete confidence.
Ambition is a great attribute to have because most women desire men with status and a good job. This means that he is able to provide for her financially. Major ambition is usually enough to tell a woman that at some point soon, youll be the dominant male shes looking for and as long as she has the patience to wait, shell give you a chance.
It was her genetic programming that wanted him to be the strongest man he could be. His ambition to be the strong male was enough to keep her interested. Another reason that ambition is so attractive is because women are programmed to look for the instinct in you that wants to be dominant.
Most men assume that they need to have lots of money and power to get women when in fact; you dont need to be rich or powerful right now to attract women. Women are equally as attracted to the trait in you that desires to get rich, powerful and successful.
Never be blatantly boastful. Once you develop a real self-confidence it will shine through in your actions. Any man that feels the need to talk about how great he is in bed or what a great athlete he is will seem weak.
Women have an in-built radar that lets them spot the difference between real and fake confidence. Instead show with your actions what an amazing person you are and always be humble about it. These are just a few of the characteristics that women are genetically programmed to desire.
People feel good about themselves when they are around confident people. When you exude confidence and feel great about yourself, people (and most importantly females) will want to be around you. You create a glow around you that women want to be a part of. They can tell that you feel good about yourself and they want to feel that way about themselves. They will draw close to you, hoping it will rub off on them.
One can break down the myth that you must be the quintessential good looking guy to get women. Most men were not born to be leaders and may not project confidence on the first date. Or they may not be aware of some traits that need to be corrected before embarking on a date with women.
When you go to her house, you need to make a good first impression. Dont turn up at her house with a lorry or some ramshackle vehicle thats 20 years old. Her mother will immediately stop her from seeing you and from parking the old rackety automobile in front of their house.
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