But the one who knew you long before I did was Janet Taylor Caldwell from Manchester, England. At first I wasn't sure if she was talking about you, Mr. USA, or you, Mr. UK. But then I realized that she was actually talking about both of you, but one in the present tense and the other in the past tense.
Even though Mrs. Caldwell was born in England, I can almost feel her standing beside me grinning and saying in that unmistakable MacGregor Scottish clan accent, Every ambitious would-be empire, clarions it abroad that she is conquering the world to bring it peace, security and freedom, and it is sacrificing her sons only for the most noble and humanitarian purposes. That is a lie; and it is an ancient lie, yet generations still rise and believe it.
Ah, and what a damn lie it is to. But the absolute truth is that few soldiers are pulled in by the war propaganda that comes out of the lie factories in Washington, D.C. and London, England. No lengthy research is needed to discover that few of the privileged sign-up to rush off to save the world from some sociopath for some other sociopath. Armies are made up of guys who are looking for adventure and jobs. The embellishing is added as needed as time goes by to justify and to qualify. Oh, for sure the war propaganda, like worms on a fish hook, does bring in a sufficient number of those from the shallow end of the gene pool, and for this let us all give thanks, for they are the ones the sociopaths send to the front lines to die for God and country.
Footnote: A few people have taken offence because a member of their family had fought on the front lines in some war. I haven't put anyone in either of the three categories referred to in this article. I have left that decision up to the reader. I will submit that those who have sent men to the front lines to die supposedly for God and country have stated my case much better than I ever could.
"A soldier will fight long and hard for a bit of colored ribbon." ~ Napoleon
"The object of war is not to die for your country, but to make the other bastard die for his." ~ General George S. Patton
"I hate war as only a soldier who has lived it can, only as one who has seen its brutality, its futility, its stupidity. ~ General Dwight David Eisenhower
"The world has achieved brilliance without wisdom, power without conscience. Ours is a world of nuclear giants and ethical infants. We know more about war that we know about peace, more about killing that we know about living." ~ General Omar Bradley
"Military men are just dumb stupid animals to be used as pawns in foreign policy." ~ Henry Kissinger, quoted in Kiss the Boys Goodbye: How the United States Betrayed Its Own POWs in Vietnam.
"The worst outcrop of herd life [is] the military system, which I abhor. That a man can take pleasure in marching in fours to the strains of a band is enough to make me despise him. He has only been given his big brain by mistake; unprotected spinal marrow was all he needed." ~ Albert Einstein
"The Distinguished Flying Cross along with assorted other awards are displayed in my den as a reminder that the godless, murdering degenerates in Washington, D.C. recognize and appreciate talent when they see it." ~ Bobby Miller
Love revolves around the pivot of trust. If trust disappears from any relationship, there remains nothing to count for. That is why keeping good faith is as important as making any new relationship. There are myriads of examples where a long-term relation has broken due to misunderstanding and disloyalty. As complexities are increasing, we always feel doubtful of our near and dear ones. Whether it is for a real cause or for anything else, we keep on thinking negatives and make our life miserable. Many people are of the opinion that their husband or wife is having an affair and start doubting lots of things. It should not be done unless you are sure of the fact.
To check whether your partner is cheating on you, you need to apply some ideas. At the beginning, you will have to get one of your friends, whom your husband or boyfriend does not know. Tell her to flirt with him over telephone or through chat. Observe how he reacts. If he is faithful to you he will not cooperate in flirtation and if he does otherwise, you can take him for granted as a cheater. You can also pretend to find a cheater in him ? look his phone, change some of the numbers, especially of girls? make a flirty message and observe how he reacts. If he is cheating, you can easily track him and if not then change the number back without letting him know. It will definitely help you a lot.
There are some other ways to trace out whether he is cheating you. Observe whether he is less attentive to you or not. He might answer your questions back by hmm...or you could hardly get your answer from him. This is a kind of behavior that you never expected from him. If he has any relationship with other girls, he would not only pay you lees attention, but will also be less attentive to you physically. He would stop holding your hands, cuddling you and you would not find the old zing while having sex with him. He would suddenly change his grooming habits, would start saying bad words in a rude voice. An evident change would be there in him. Suddenly, you would find him changing his brands of aftershaves and also the style of drawers. You would find him attending too many private calls too.
If you want to know from the horses? mouth about the intention of your partner, go and tell him straightforward. Whether a cheater or not, he would say no to your question. But, you should not cry in front of him. Start behaving in such a way that he understands his faults. Flitting with a number of girls is definitely a sign of cheating. Similarly, discussing things of a sexual nature with members of opposite sex or to gift various presents to different girlfriends at the same time apart from relatives can be cited examples of cheating. In addition to all these, if you find that your husband has sexual relationship with another girl besides you, he has cheated you. Online chatting with a number of opposite sex can lead him to cheat you. If your husband shares personal information and feelings with other people, it can be a matter of great concern.
Identifying is really a hard nut to crack in any relationship. You may tag your boyfriend as a cheater, but that may not be true also. Your assumption on your partner may be absolutely wrong. It may happen that you are accusing your husband for nothing at all and ultimately ruining the relationship that exists between you. This is why, if you are not doubly sure, it is better not to accuse your husband.
To become sure, you can take help of some mechanical tools also. You can put web-cams in certain places including in front of your computer. It will help you to catch his every action. You can also ask your servants to keep a close look at him in your absence. One of the easiest ways of catching him red handed is to compare his present urge for sex with his past one. Keep on asking to play more in the bed, if you notice sudden behavioral change in him, tell him directly. Your partner may be in the form of unusual aggressiveness. If your partner is cheating you, he or she would try hard to cover it up by accusing you or blaming you. He would find fault everything in you. On the other hand, he/she may feel guilty for his actions and would try to make up for it by being over generous.
If you discover that your partner has cheated you, do not take any decision hastily. Tell him / her openly and try to restore the relationship. After all, destroying is thousand times easier than constructing the same thing.
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