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by Jack Jimmy, Jac

First off, make sure you maintain eye contact with the woman you are trying to talk to. By having eye contact with her you let her know you are very interested in what she is saying, not only that she will think you are listening, which you should be. Women often say a man has nice eyes, so give her the chance to really see you looking at her and showering her with attention, she might end up saying you have nice eyes, which shows she is interested and attracted.

Another form of body language is your closeness factor. How close are you standing to the woman of interest? If she is talking to you, and you are having a conversation, move a little closer but not too close. You still want her to give her personal space, but if you can invade that just a tiny bit, you will give her a sense of what it might be like to be close to you, make sure you have a good perfume on. By doing this you will also be able to exchange scents. Women are very attracted to scents, and every little bit can help.

Flash a nice smile. This can be the first thing you can do from a distance. You don't want to overdo it but a nice friendly smile will make a huge difference. Keep smiling when you approach her and when you start talking to her. Try to keep smiling the whole time, even while talking you can smile with your eyes.

Your voice also plays an important role as well. A deep voice that is warm and welcoming can turn a woman on, she could immediately be attracted to you just based on your voice. Just make sure your voice isn't shaky, and doesn't show how nervous you might be, it is better for you to be too loud than for the woman not to be able to understand you. Women absolutely love confidence, and it shows in everything you do, even your voice.

Last but not least is your posture. This isn't all about back posture either. This doesn't mean to slouch, as that isn't attractive, but what it means is that you have to be welcoming in how you stand while talking to her. Your hands should not be crossed against your middle, or on your hips, but they should be relaxed and even moving while talking. The more comfortable you are with yourself the more she will feed into that.

This is called an open posture, the visual signs send sexual cues to a woman's brain because you are again confident.

One of the most important things you can do is be confident in yourself when approaching a woman. This will make it all more natural for you, and the more natural for you, the easier it will be for a woman to be attracted to you. Work on these things and women are going to be more open to your flirting, approaching and talking to them.

For instance, if a friend came to you and told you news about his promotion, saying something like "That's wonderful news!" with a rather blank expression runs the risk of the other person getting the impression that you're just pulling his leg and talking through your teeth.

In order to express your statements fully, you need to accompany your expressions and comments with the right kind of body language. According to experts on the art of body language interpretation, there are two things you should keep in mind.

First, to emphasize a point, you need to apply body language that is concurrent with the statement. Second, you need to hyperbolize a bit.

For example, if you want to stress how large the lot you're selling is, you can further drive the point home by stretching your arms out really wide while saying something like, "The property is so vast (stretch arms out wide) that you can practically build a house with a basketball court and pool there." Using metaphors with body language works better.

You can shake or nod your head to react to an idea or event, take huge steps to show excitement, pound your fist on the desk and stomp your foot if you need to show a little aggression, and change your facial expressions according to the need.

Of course, not all body language have to be blatant to be effective. Sometimes, subtlety works a lot better, especially if you're trying to convince someone to buy what you're selling. Subtle body movements include cupping your palms and leaning forward to show you are serious, crossing your arms over your chest to signify that you're not understanding the other party's claims, and inclining your head to one side to reflect wonder.

To illustrate, you will know if the person you are talking to is losing interest in what you're saying if he starts looking at his watch, shaking his leg, or tapping his foot. Shifty eyes are also an indicator of boredom, though it can also mean that the person is lying in another situation.

Indeed, communication is not just characterized by words. Body movements say a lot about what you are thinking at that particular moment; so if you're a very transparent person, it's not likely that you'll be able to hide anything. It's a different situation when you're playing poker though.

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