When you establish similarities with someone, you will aid their subconscious mind to sense as though there is a certain rapport with you. This is achieved quite easily through the mirror technique; communicating at the same speed they use, or mimicking their expressions and body positions in a illusive manner will help them feel more comfortable when speaking with you. Over time and with proper training, you will find that your own subconscious mind will take note to constantly mirror in a non-officious way, and you will be able to build up rapport easily.
2)Trust your intuition
People often mention that chess Grandmasters are able to beat even the most advanced chess computers because they have the ability to rely on their intuition. It is not just based on feelings, but a hunch that is formed based on previous experiences that will allow you to analyze what would be the next best move. Your intuition is based on skills and knowledge, so learn to encourage and trust in your intuition!
3)Dispel Myths about Making Friends
It is not true that liking or disliking someone is a random and uncontrollable event. In fact, it is easy to make someone like you as the emotions associated with liking someone is controlled by the mind. If you understand and accept this, you will find it easier to put into place the little techniques that will help you move ahead by making the proper connections at the right place.
4)Appeal to what they Need
Most of the time, looking for companionship or associates, people look for someone who is similar to themselves and yet has something else that they would like to achieve. For example, professionals gravitate towards people who are equally skilled in the same field, but who have vast knowledge in another field as well, or who are able to exude greater leadership potential. Thus, it would be beneficial to you to identify the traits that most people would like to have and actively display it, such as having self confidence.
5)Position yourself
Look at yourself critically in the mirror, or survey a group of close friends. Question them how they would describe you in a few words. Is this how you want to be seen by others? If not, take active steps now to adjust the way you position yourself. If you can be able to correctly position yourself at work, you will find it easier to gain the attention of your boss, or get a step up from the competition for that next promotion!
From the 5 techniques above, it is obvious that programming your mind has many benefits. With practice, you will find it an unconscious habit that you portray or pull off when interacting with others.
Intelligent affirmation (suggestion), thinking intelligently and strongly of the thing desired, soon becomes the predominant thought in the subconscious mind. This predominant thought becomes the pattern or blueprint which in time is materialized--inwardly and objectively--into the reality of the picture or blueprint of the predominating thought. In other words, whatever we think of oftenest and most strongly, we get (this summarizes the law of attraction). To have health and keep it, health must become a predominating thought. The way to put the subconscious mind to work, is to work on a predominant thought, talk to your subconscious mind and thus materialize the thing desired by affirmations, either silently or orally by one's self or in the company of others.
People who do not understand the law of the subconscious mind sometimes get but slight results from affirmations because they think that positive thoughts for health, such as "I am well, whole and complete" are a lie. But, as I say, one does not always understand, the law of the subconscious. It does not reason. It does not argue. It hangs tenaciously to the thought suggested to it and when you give a positive formula for health, you are giving the most direct command to the subconscious mind to get busy on your blueprint of health. You thus become your own health architect to build strength, life, vitality and health into every cell of your being as you are controlling your subconscious mind.
Webster's dictionary says that a lie is "a criminal falsehood, an intentional violation of the truth." When you take a positive suggestion or formula for health, you are suggesting that the spirit within--the God-life--the great "I am" is well, whole and complete, which is absolutely correct. The spirit of man does not become sick. It is his body. We, therefore, talk directly, forcibly and positively to this well spirit (the subconscious mind) which in turn communicates the health thought to every cell of the body. This is itself intelligence which reacts and is made by the thought which the subconscious mind sends to it.
Changing the Complex : The very act of bringing to the light of consciousness the repressed ideas or the implanted obsession, when the patient's mind is unkinked, gives him an insight into the meaning of his trouble. We let him see new points of view, we introduce fresh ideas and feelings into his complexes. In short, we reimpregnate and thus reeducate the subconscious mind. This in itself has wonderful therapeutic value as will be remembered if you recall how the mind is inextricably interwoven with the conscious and the subconscious and how the subconscious mind controls the functionings of all of the organs and senses of the body. It is apparent on the face of the matter that the mental attitude of patients suffering from any kind of disease which has been produced by wrong thinking, must be changed, new groups of complexes must be formed and this is done almost automatically when we once discover what caused the sickness.
The patient then sees life from another plane ; he regards his condition in a new light and his sickness from another angle and by taking counter suggestions -- opposite thoughts -- new associations and groups of complexes are called into play and the process of rehabilitation and health restoration is a simple, scientific and workable hypothesis.
Bear in mind that the subconscious mind will do anything it is given to do. It will recharge the body with health, vigor, strength--make one all over--as well as alter one's attitude toward life entirely. The subconscious mind will change failure into success, despondency into joy, depression into happiness, futility into achievement.
Finally, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
This, in a word, is psychology as you connect to your subconscious mind. To think only of good things until the subconscious mind is obsessed with the good and so crowds out the bad as we invoke the law of attraction. Think of those things until the habit of thought has been changed. "Suggestion controls the world, and 'All things are ready, if our minds be so.' "
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