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One of the most important part of dealing with women and becoming the best person you can be is developing your "inner game". Inner game is encompasses a wide variety of things: your mindsets, how you react to think, thought processes, to name a few. You will probably read a lot of things written by other experienced pimp soldiers trying to explain to you what their current mindsets are and what goes through their heads but unless you have experience with the topic, you probably will have a difficult time trying to understand what the writer is going on about.
So you read all this material. Be unreactive. Girls are plentiful. Be your core, your self and don't give a damn what anyone else thinks of you. You feel good because you think after you've read that material that you've developed good inner game and nothing can shake your solid base. Then one girl doesn't open well. Another girl gives you a death stare as you approach. If you're strong enough, you continue on to your third or fourth approach. All with the same results. You start crumbling inside. What happened? You cry to yourself, "I thought my inner game was strong enough for this!".
Inner game isn't something that you can magic up out of thin air, or from hours of reading. It isn't a logical entity that you can just read about and develop. The concepts of inner game were developed from people who had experience with women and life in general. They had approached and dealt with so many women that an abundance mentality is cemented in their minds. So many people had rejected their approaches already that they just don't care what other people think of them. These concepts were borne through people with vast amounts of experience and passed down to people without the experience, so that they could benefit from other's work.
However, to know what these concepts really mean, you need an emotional understanding of the concepts, and this is gained from hours and hours of field experience. When you first start approaching women (after spending hours studying material), you logically understand that approaching women is really nothing and that you're not going to die, but your emotional circuitry kicks and screams at you to not approach because you might get hurt. You're strong and you approach anyway, and after a few approaches your emotional brain 'catches up' to your logic and starts realizing that approaching won't hurt you. After a while, you fully understand the inner game concept that approaching is easy. This goes with every other concept. This is the way you start to really understand things.
If you want to build your muscles, you have to exercise and push them to their limits. Socializing, inner strength and all of the concepts discussed regarding women, they're all written there for you to get started. But to get really good and to really understand the material, you need to get out and experience it. Take a risk and approach that woman. Lead her around confidently and take your rejections in stride. Every rejection gets you closer to your goal. Every rejection makes you stronger and more calibrated. With every rejection, you learn what not to do and your social skills improve.
Well known for his “Alpha Man” concepts Carlos Xuma is at it again with a new course tackling the very real issue of “inner game” with men. The question is does Ultimate Inner Game: Total Self Confidence & Social Success really deliver the goods in helping men rid their anxiety and nervousness when approaching women?
I had the opportunity to take a sneak peak at this new massive course it's nearly 40 hours worth of material all geared to tweaking and optimizing your inner game. Before we go any further understand that, “inner game” at its core is feeling confident.
Ultimate Inner Game offers a new way of thinking. A new technology for the mind so to speak that will eliminate your inner game issues allowing you to become much more successful with women. The more and more I followed the material it was clear to me just how introverted and socially inept I was in my teens and a good portion of my twenties.
It was in fact almost painful to rewind back to those days and relive my awkward years. For whatever the reason I simply didn't figure it out until several years ago.
I was impressed by the amount of information that was present and at no time did I feel overwhelmed. In fact every possible facet of improving your inner game is touched on and dissected thoroughly.
What make this so powerful is that Carlos goes into detail one of his inner game techniques that he used to make massive changes in his life in a short period of time.
Side Note: Don't worry Carlos goes through several examples in his course.
In addition some of the best sections of the course is where Carlos Xuma shows you exactly what you should never do when you're working on your inner game with women. I actually was embarrassed to find some of these mistakes I was making in my own inner game as well.
Ultimate Inner Game: Total Self Confidence & Social Success shines because it's not about "faking it till you make it". You'll only wind up looking phony and eventually that glass house will collapse around you. He took everything he has learned in the past 15 years of inner game techniques and skills and broke in down to its most essential parts.
It's impossible for your outer game to run like a well oiled machines unless your inner game is solid. For many of us we simply didn't have the tools nor the skill set to figure this out sooner. You are not alone.
Carlos Xuma's main goal with this course is to unleash your own Natural Game and not try to be someone else, to become comfortable in your own skin. With men that find it difficult to approach women there is no price tag on this feeling.
There are several courses on the market that already address “inner game” however Ultimate Inner Game: Total Self Confidence & Social Success is the most comprehensive there is simply no comparison.