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If you have found yourself asking the question – is my man cheating? Then you probably have some strong suspicions or concerns that he is being unfaithful. As a guy, I am here to try and give you some insight to see what he does not want you to know. Guys cheat for all kinds of different reasons, they may do it because they don't feel as loved any more from you or they just may have an addiction to sex. I am here to give you some insider secrets.
The first secret is that many men will use the Internet to cheat. There are a ton of sites out there that look fine from all points of view, but dig a little deeper and you will find that it is a nice little covert way to set up a meeting with a stranger. Take for example the personals section in Craig's list. You can find anything that you want in any area. You can find women who want a one-night stand in your town or several towns over. You can find women that are married, single or involved. It is almost like a menu that you can choose from. If you notice Craig's list popping up on your computer then take a look at the pages that are being viewed as this may clue you in.
The second secret is to watch the women that he does not talk about. As a guy when we talk a lot about someone from work to our wives or girlfriends then there is usually nothing to hide. So the more we talk about someone the more you can feel comfortable that there is nothing going on. There is nothing to hide so guys are more open to talking about these women from work. When a woman is spoken very little about or even in a negative light then pay attention as it may be a sign of other things. The negative talk and little talk of her are to throw the scent off the trail. We think that the less we talk about them or badly we talk of them the more you will think that nothing is going on.
The third secret is to watch for a disinterest in sexual activity or intimacy. When a guy is attracted to someone else, messing around with them or thinking about it then our arousal around our women gets decreased. It is almost as if we have painted an unrealistic picture and put the other woman on a pedestal that sex with our current partner just does not cut it any more. Also, there is a guilt factor that comes in to play when he is sleeping with someone else. It makes it difficult when a guy thinks about the fact that he is fooling around on you. This guilt reveals itself in a variety of other ways.
If you have seen any of these secret signs or if you still have a strong suspicion that something is just not right then you need to listen to it. Don't let him make a fool out of you and don't let him get away with it. Keep note of his actions and you will be able to answer with the certainty the question – is my man cheating?