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[I544]Is Your Spouse Having An Affair
by Mike Shery, Mik
1. You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.

2. Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you because they either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible partner you are.

3. Your partner stops confiding in and seeking advice from you.

4. You discover a new e-mail account your partner opened that you did not know existed.

5. Your partners hours or level of reliability becomes irregular or keeps changing.

6. Your partner suddenly becomes concerned about his or her appearance.

7. Your partner buys a cell phone and does not let you know about it.

8. Your partner opens a separate cell phone account that is billed elsewhere.

9. You discover your husband carrying condoms and you are on the pill.

10. Your partner begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11. Your partner starts deleting all incoming e-mails when he or she used to let them accumulate.

12. Because of guilt your partner becomes accusatory and starts questioning your fidelity.

13. Your partner begins to raise odd hypothetical questions such as, Do you think it is possible to love more than one person at a time?

14. He or she suddenly starts buying new clothes or special toiletries.

15. Your husband suddenly starts insisting that the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16. Your partner suddenly stops wearing his or her wedding ring.

17. Your husband has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18. Your partner has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19. Your partner suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20. Your partner stops having sex with you for no apparent reason.

21. He/she suddenly becomes critical of your sex life together.

22. Your partner supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it is not reflected in the paycheck.

23. Your partner suddenly starts finding reasons to unexpectedly leave the house.

24. You accidently discovered that your partner took a vacation day or personal time from work which you did not know about.

25. Your partner displays a sudden interest in a different type of music or entertainment.

26. Your spouses coworkers start appearing uncomfortable in your presence.

27. Your spouse has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28. Your spouse spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29. Your spouse is oddly not hungry at the usual times because he or she has already eaten with someone else.

30. Your spouse suddenly finds reasons to be away from home.

31. Your partners clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You may see lipstick or make-up on your husband's shirt.

32. The amount of money being deposited into your checking account unexpectedly drops off.

33. You find unaccounted for lingerie or other small gift-type items that you never saw before.

34. Your spouse seems unnecessarily irritable around you and is easily angered.

35. You get phone calls where a caller hangs up when you answer.

36. Your spouse becomes disinterested in home activities.

37. Your intuition or gut feeling tells you that your spouses interest is elsewhere.

38. Your spouse has a sudden change in attitude towards those in the home.

39. Your spouse uses a low voice or whisper or hangs up quickly when on the phone.

40. Your wife has an atypical glow about her.

41. Your spouse starts engaging in atypical or erratic behavior.

42. Your spouse starts leaving the house unexpectedly.

43. Your wife sleeps with her purse by the bed.

44. Your partner goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45. Your spouse tells you that you can reach him or her at a different telephone number.

If you've got a feeling that your spouse may be having an extramarital relationship, then there's a strong possibility you could be right. Not saying that every gut feeling is a surefire way to tell that your spouse is cheating, but it is often the first 'sign' that you will get that something is wrong. You may have noticed small changes in your spouses habits, or that they've developed totally new interests. Regardless, you have the feeling that something isn't right, and the even worse thought that they might be cheating.

Maybe you've noticed that your spouse has recently shown an increased interest in the internet, or perhaps they spend a lot more time on their cell phone. Either of these could be signs of an extramarital relationship. Some cheating spouses turn to emails and constant instant messaging as a means of communicating with the 'other' person. Then, some will just stick to their common gadgets like the cell phone. Chances are, if the possibility of an extramarital relationship is looming around in your head, you've noticed that your spouse leaves no trace of anything they do online or on their phone.

Big RED flag! Just based on their normal behavior patterns, you can probably determine that there's at least something going on. Your internet history was never cleared for days at a time, but now it's completely emptied. Your spouse's cell phone always had a dozen and one call records, and lots of text messages from you, but now, there's nothing there. These are definite signs of an extramarital relationship. They've all of a sudden become quite anal about these things, and might even be defensive with you if you ask them about it. Two words will be of great assistance to you in this case...digital forensics.

There's no need for you to stay in the dark about what's going on with your spouse when you don't have to be. If you are weary from worrying that your spouse might be having an extramarital relationship, or just a little curious, you deserve to know the truth! You can find several private investigators, particularly those experienced in digital forensics, right online that would be more than happy to help you with uncovering your spouse's hidden activities, whether it be late night conversations, secret meetings, or something else. Private investigators are able to use digital forensics to reveal what your spouse has been trying to hide. Such methods as cell phone forensic examinations are able to uncover deleted text messages, lost call history and old phone records.

The process is quite simple, and the turnaround for results is usually less than 7 days. You simply send the cell phone off to a digital forensics lab, and then wait for your report. Even if your spouse has a pocket PC, you can also send that for examination. You will receive a full report of all deleted pics, text messages, called ID logs, address book entries, and any other data that can be extracted. Once you have the results in hand, if needed, a private investigator can further investigate the situation for you and possibly reveal even more about your spouse.

There is help available to you, just make sure that you seek the advice and services of a qualified expert. Anytime you are faced with the possibility that your spouse is involved in an extramarital relationship, you should choose a private investigator that is well experienced in the area of infidelity investigations and digital forensics as their work will be the most beneficial to you.

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Mike Shery has sinced written about articles on various topics from Addictions, Cure Anxiety and Family. Dr Shery is in Cary, IL, near Algonquin, Crystal Lake, Marengo and Lake-in-the-Hills. He's an expert psychologist. Call 1 847 516 0899 and make an appt or
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