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[K9]Katt Williams Online Dating

by Ispas Marin, Isp

Online dating is a truly phenomenal change in the way that we meet new
people in modern society. Gone are the days of blind dating somebody
that you have never laid an eye on. Who hasn’t had a bad experience
with a blind date that some colleague or family member has sent you on?
I get the shivers just thinking about some of these blind dates that I
have been on. Online dating removes many of the negative unknowns while
allowing you to meet some great people that you would never have met
otherwise. It has become so popular over the last decade that today
alone there is numerous reality TV shows dealing with the subject of
online dating. After you have spent some time in front of your PC
communicating with a person, you will want to meet him or her face to
face. It is important to remember that even though you have spent quite
a bit of time communicating and maybe even exchanging photos or videos
with each other, you still don’t know the complete history of this
person.

I will try to give you some tips on safe online dating:

1. First rule in safe online dating is to meet the person somewhere in
a public place. Don't let him to pick you up from home on the first
date. If it's possible try to arrange some kind of double date because
you will be and feel safer having somebody with you that you trust.

2. If you don't want to feel under any obligation pay half of the bill.

3. You found a person that you really like trough online dating and you
finally meet him in a bar. Remember that alcohol can affect your
judgment. So try not to have too many alcoholic drinks.

4. It's safer to use your own transportation. This way you won't have
to depend on the person that you are dating.

5. Online dating is great and you can meet very interesting people.
Always keep in mind though that what you see on your computer can be
very different from the reality. For example if your online date said
that he is a very religious man this doesn't mean that you can trust
him. As with any relationship it takes time before we really get to
know our other half in the relationship.

6. One of the most important safety rules is to let someone else know
where you are. Believe me when I tell you that this is safer. If
something bad happens, there is at least someone that knows where to
look for you. It's best for you to tell a friend to phone you and check
on you at a pre- arranged time.

7. If you really like the person that you met through online dating
it's still good to stay alert. You never know what can happen.

In conclusion: Online dating is one of the greatest developments in our
day and age. Just remember to be safe and responsible.

The next time your aunt tries to fix you up with somebody in her church
group, tell her that you already have a boyfriend...in South Africa.

If you haven't tried online dating yet, here are eight simple guidelines for your success.

1. Start slow.

Try searching on reputable online dating sites. You should look out for someone who is too good to be true on the first time. You should trust your instincts.

2. Protect yourself.

You should not reveal your true identity until you feel comfortable about doing so. Do not instantly give your full name, contact numbers, home address, and other details where others can check your profile. Get a free email address, such as Yahoo or Hotmail, and use this until you feel confident enough to give your ?real? email address.

3. Exercise common sense and caution.

Practice caution in easily trusting other people. Use common sense in making decisions. Take your time in determining the person's integrity and motives. Pay attention every time you communicate. It is human nature to trust first, but try to be objective to begin with.

4. Ask for a photo.

Ask for a photo of a prospective match, not just because you want to see if they are good-looking. If possible, ask for several photos in different settings: Formal, casual, outdoors, and indoors. In that way you would have an idea of what he or she looks like.

5. Do not just chat online.

An electronic chat would not suffice. Talk on the telephone to assess the social and communication skills of your date. Avoid calling from home. Try calling from a cell phone or a telephone booth. Only when you are completely comfortable should you give your home number.

6. Meet only when you are completely ready.

Meet only when you feel secure and ready to meet your online date. Do not feel obliged or persuaded to meet the other person, even if he or she insists, if you are not yet ready.

7. Check for danger.

If you decide to finally meet, pay close attention to any violent displays, intense frustration or moves to control or pressure you.

8. Meet only in a secure place.

When meeting your date, especially for the first time, meet him or her in a safe place. Tell a friend who your date is and your plans for the night. Set a time during your date where your friend can call you and ask if everything is okay.

It is better to be safe than sorry. Online dating has some perks and can be genuinely rewarding, but it is important to remember that it can have its pitfalls.

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