There is no question that kissing is both personal and intimate and is a very special form of interaction. Being that this is the case you should take the time to learn what is involved in kissing - because as we know kissing in general is reserved for that special someone. Kissing is the most romantic thing that could set the tone and the mood of the evening. Kissing is a part of our everyday life. You see the mothers kiss their offspring. In some societies they greet each other by kissing.
Make your girl feel comfortable. Make her talk. But whisper back at her. No sexually-charged lines just yet. Start from the basics. Say things simply but straight to the point. You may be nervous your girl would even be twice as freaked out. So you're your cool, be calm and collected. Kissing isn't about impressing someone nor is it about showing off. Kissing in essence is a way of expressing desire, attraction and love. It is the most intimate way of touching another person with sensate passion.
Always keep one thing in your mind that a girl is in that hurry to get a kiss, as much as you are. You need to be very aware during the conversation going on between both of you, as you might get the chance there only. It is up to you to grab the exact opportunity, and once you are sure, do not look behind. First, most women love to be tender. They seem to be more prone to feeling uncomfortable when it comes to things like kissing than men do. Now you need to keep in mind that I am speaking in generalities, of course there will always be exceptions to the rules.
Kissing is a two way action. When you kiss move slowly at first and then start to be explore your partner's mouth with your tongue use a firm tongue and start to alternate between slower and stronger moves. The way to make a kiss memorable is not to let your partner know exactly what is coming next. If she is expecting you to kiss her hard slow down and be gentle ? Make her wait and tease her. Always be on the look out for her response. If she is ready she will part her lips then you can explore her mouth. If she is not ready do not force your tongue inside her mouth.
It's a natural flow of emotion and desire between you and your partner they points to keep in mind you must be relaxed to lose yourself in the moment, you need to respond to your partner and you need to add variety. Last but not least, use your whole body to communicate not just your mouth. If you do the above, you will enjoy the perfect French kiss. The best kisses have a natural flow between you and your partner.
For most of the great kissers in this world (and they hopefully include someone within your inner circle), kissing a smoker is not fun. As a matter of fact, the people in the ranks of great kissers all feel the same way that kissing a smoker is a real crusher, you look forward to that first kiss and then it's ruined because of the smell and taste of cigarettes. If you think this is an ?Us? and ?Them? issue, it is not. For the list of great kissers includes OTHER smokers, I am sorry to say.
Let us tick off the small, but obvious reasons why.
Smoking smells if you haven't noticed; it smells terrible. And if anyone who is worth their weight wants a kiss they will not choose you as their first choice no matter how attracted they are to you. In fact you will fall down to very near the bottom of their list. You smell like the bad factory that we all close our noses when we pass you by. And kissing that is not such a romantic notion.
If by chance you have been blessed by the gods and are being kissed, hopefully on a regular basis, by someone you want to kiss back; then you should first and foremost consider yourself very lucky for it is highly unlikely that they enjoy it, unless of course they are smokers themselves and don't notice the smell or taste. In essence you are silently ruining this cherishable gift. Whoever this person is that is kissing you is sacrificing the experience of a great kiss, and it's because of you. You get to kiss someone with sweet breath, and they don't? How does that work? That adds up to kiss abuse. Would you want to kiss an exhaust pipe? Or maybe a day old bag of garbage? I didn't think so.
The smell problem extends far beyond the time you have had a cigarette, I am sure you know that. You can smoke one cigarette in the morning and still be largely un-kissable at night. So do the math: If you smoke more than one cigarette a day, then you are turning yourself into a bit of a pariah in the kissing department.
Mints and mouthwash won't help either. The amount of chemicals that are now placed in cigarettes to make the whole smoking experience more pleasant have had a disastrous effect on the smell they produce. Nothing will take it away, so even if you eat a packet of mints before kissing it won't make any difference.
If you want that lasting impression you give to someone to be Yuck! Patooey! Then the only thing to say is go for it; smoke all you want. On the other hand if you want to be lovable and considerate then there is only one choice for you and tobacco it is not.
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