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[K51]Kids Dont Stand A Chance
by Victor Epand, Vic
When you craft your book to be a bestseller, everyone involved i.e. you (the author), the publisher and the bookseller, are sure to make good money. A bestseller is the result of countless small decisions. Individually, none of these decisions would determine the overall success of the book. It is the collective whole of many good decisions that gives you a shot at creating a bestseller.

As an author, writing a bestseller is challenging and you need to mentally prepare yourself for the challenge. Your book is more likely to succeed, if it is written for being published as a 'lead book' in a particular market segment rather than as a book simply meant for a market segment. Your book need not be very large. However, it should provide solid, complete and comprehensive content to qualify as a bestseller. The terms solid, comprehensive and complete are relative and refer to whatever you as an author have set out to accomplish in your book.

Before you publish your title, you need to do a lot of homework along with your publisher. It is critically essential that you acquire a full understanding of your target market segment. If you are unable to understand, what your target audience desires from you, failure is imminent. There is a tendency to define book markets as being comprised of people with identical/similar needs. The fact is that the content needs of people within a market segment vary quite substantially. Therefore, your bestseller, even when remaining focused, should be able to accommodate the needs of the broad spectrum of readers within the targeted market segment.

Different people adopt different approaches to reading books. Some people simply browse through a book till they find something interesting. Others may prefer sequential reading. Your bestseller should make it easy for the reader to find whatever he is looking for. Depending on the category of your book, you can include a brief table of contents, notes, illustrations, tips, sub-headings, cross-references and examples. You can provide an outline at the beginning of each chapter, in addition to tabs, appendices, glossaries, running heads etc. to help the reader quickly find the desired information. Every page should be packed full with information in a well-designed manner that is logical, elegant and easy on the reader's eyes.

When you want your book to be a bestseller, it is critical that you break new ground in your writing. It means including ideas that are new, different and unique and meant to deliver more than what the book promises. The fact is that there are very few ideas that are completely new. In book publishing, ideas from every aspect of life are borrowed and modified as an ongoing process in the creation of new books. The crux is to develop and incorporate a few new ideas to clearly differentiate your book and make it stand out in the pack available in the market.

Even if your book is well authored, its chances of being published as a bestseller are dramatically enhanced when you have well-established connections with vendors and other industry experts.

Every parent wants to do the very best they can for their children and aspires, to be the "perfect parent"; but without an instruction manual to tell us what we need to do to get there and without a big chequered flag being waved to congratulate us when we've actually got there, how do we really know when we've achieved this position of mythical stature?

Well the good news it that there's no such thing as the "perfect parent", so we can all stop worrying about getting there!

Our aspirations as parents should be to ensure that our children all grow up as happy kids, full of life, confidence and self assurance and that we can help them grow into perfectly rounded well balanced adults. Our focus on the parental journey should therefore be about embracing all that we can do to make this goal more achievable - if we all aspire to that, then that for me is as close as any of us can ever get to being the perfect parent!

It's not about how often or where you take your kids out for day trips or how much you spoil them with gifts and goodies that's important; it's about the time you spend with them and about embracing the key skills and resources that we as parents all have readily available in our armoury to ensure that the end goal of raising happy, confident children is achieved.

As a qualified parent coach, I frequently see families who have become so consumed and frustrated with trying to achieve the unachievable in their parental lives that they just don't know what else to try to make things better! Just some direction, clarity and confidence that they're doing the right things, is all that's needed and by refocusing on the simple things that we can all do as parents to improve the lives of our children is enough to improve the situation immeasurably.

Parenting is a very much a business of learning and growing along with your child, developing and learning and remaining flexible through the various stages of their lives. The skills required of us when our children are toddlers are very different to the skills required when they are teenagers!

It's important therefore to look at the various things that you can learn and implement into your lives throughout the different stages of development of your children that will give them a more fulfilling and happy upbringing.

There are many influences on our style of parenting; the way our parents brought us up, our personality, our stress levels and our lifestyle, to name only a few. However how many of us actually take "time out" to think about our style and see if it is working effectively and going in the direction we consciously want it to?

Give yourself a minute and think about who influences you as a parent - who were your role models?

Do you want to pass that style of parenting on or do you want to develop your own style, influencing your teenager in your own way?

All parenting is about CHANGE and how you adapt to it or face up to it. Do you put your head in the sand, embrace it or celebrate it as a natural part of your child growing up?

Do you "go with the flow" or struggle by pushing up the river fighting the current?

Well, here are some practical and simple solutions to help you all through this important time of change.

Remember all parenting is about change and how you handle it.

How you talked to your 4 year old and disciplined her is not necessarily going to work now she is 14!

Expect the unexpected, stay flexible and find new ways to communicate with your teenager that you both can enjoy. You probably have a personal philosophy on life, but have you got a personal philosophy on your parenting?

Think about your principles and values that you hold dear. Have you got a crystal clear vision of where you are going as a parent and what it is you want to achieve? It's the destination of your parenting - it keeps you going when times get tough.

Write down five or six clear statements in a positive tone about where you are going as a parent. This will help you "stay with it" when you are adapting to all the changes (and hormones!) in your home.
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Victor Epand has sinced written about articles on various topics from Shopping, Trucks and Interest. Victor Epand is an expert consultant about books. When shopping for books, we recommend you shop only at the best bookstores for ,. Victor Epand's top article generates over 11100000 views. to your Favourites.

Sue Atkins has sinced written about articles on various topics from Family, Self Esteem and Family Concerns. Sue Atkins is a former Deputy Head with 22 years teaching experience and is an NLP Master Practitioner and Trainerand mother of two teenage children. She has written many books on self esteem, toddlers and teenagers and has a collection of Parenting Made. Sue Atkins's top article generates over 18100 views. to your Favourites.
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