I've asked women many times 'What are you looking for in a man? What kind of guy do you WANT?' And do you know what almost ALL women say? They tell me they want a guy who is nice and sweet and a gentlemen and polite... (or something related to those).
And you know what us guys do? We become that nice, sweet guy because we actually think that's what women really want! But guess what they aren't telling you... they aren't telling you that they are already ASSUMING that they are ATTRACTED to that guy and they are already ASSUMING that you are just the RIGHT AMOUNT of 'nice'! (Confusing... I know). So we become that 'nice guy' and wonder why we are failures with women!
You see, when we are nice and sweet to women, we think that they will LIKE us for it and become ATTRACTED to us because of it; that's why we buy dinner and gifts for them and compliment them and tell them how much we like them... But the bottom line is, doing these things just won't make a woman feel attraction for you.
Women like sweet, polite guys whom they are ALREADY ATTRACTED to!
So then if women aren't attracted to 'nice guys', we have to figure out what type of guy women are natually ATTRACTED to. Now, women will always have their little opinions of the type of guy they like, but there are certain QUALITIES that ALL women are attracted to.
I've listed for you the TOP 5 qualities that women find attractive:
1. Confidence 2. Good sense of humor 3. Challenging 4. Fun 5. Laid-back
Now, this is not an EXCLUSIVE list, but it will help give you an idea of what women REALLY WANT in a man.
And in my e-book Ultimate Dating Secrets Revealed, we will go through these types of personalities in more detail and so much more! So, if you're interested in becoming the kind of guy that women are NATURALLY ATTRACTED to, then check out www.ultimatedatingsecretsrevealed.com for your essential guide to dating!
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Metro male - A sense of self style Men like David Beckham, Jude Law and Ryan Seacrest are all great examples of Metrosexual men. They have a sense of style, and although all are still very manly in their ways, they do it with more sophistication.
This includes wearing designer clothes, even if it's just jeans and a t-shirt. Metro males know what the latest fashion trends are, and in some cases, they are even the ones setting the trend.
They have their hair styled, they have manicures, pedicures and facials. Basically, it's a man that does not shy away from taking better care of his physical appearance. They read magazines like GQ and Men's Health to stay up to date with the latest fitness routines and beauty tips. For a metrosexual male it's all about self-image and lifestyle that are only of the trendiest and up to date styles.
Übersexual A new kind of stylish man has been enjoying some well-deserved attention: enter the Übersexual! While Metrosexual men enjoy the same dedication and care of their female counterparts, the übersexual is a bit more old-fashioned with regards to his masculine values, fine wines and cigars. He is a red-blooded heterosexual with a fair share of confidents, style and masculinity.
Apart from actually looking after themselves, they've kept the balance between adventurer, socially conscious man and fashion icon. Its men like George Clooney, Brad Pitt and Bono that lead the way. They read the Economist and New Yorker, knows what's happening in world economics, while wearing those designer jeans.
What these men require These men, with their different styles and outlook on life have one thing in common, which is the desire for style. They're both the kind of man for instance, that knows one of women's best kept secrets: the secret of scent. They know how to synchronize their different body deodorants to ensure that their scent lasts the whole day without being overbearing.
They use skincare products and treatments that will help them enjoy their youthful look without seeming too feminine. Their hair is groomed and their smiles dazzling.
These men, both metro- and übersexual, are the kind of men that women want and more men strive to be like. They are a celebration of style and confidence!
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