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Whether you are just looking for some fun or you are looking to attract a partner for life, many men often feel ill at ease around beautiful women. Women can seem unattainable, sophisticated and hard to reach, but really, nothing is further from the truth. When you are looking for some lovely female company, there are many things that you can do to make sure that you are not spending the evening alone. There are many tips to attract women like a magnet, but check out some of the more powerful ones below.
1. Remember that she is not the enemy!
Most women, if they are available, are perfectly willing to step out and see what the evening brings. Remember that when you are trying to seduce a woman that you are not her enemy or her adversary. Think about yourself as her accomplice in getting together a really great time. You are not working against each other; you are working with each other to have some great fun.
2. Be confident!
If you have no faith in yourself, why should she? One of the most attractive qualities that a man can have is confidence, and you'll find that if you have it, you'll have plenty of company. It doesn't matter what you really do, or how you really feel, confidence can be faked. A person who is happy and confident is very attractive, so walk around as if you own the place and many people will just assume that you do!
3. Make the first move
Don't be surprised if she sends over a drink, but you should feel comfortable moving first as well. It doesn't have to be big or dramatic, but simply giving her an honest compliment or holding the door open and saying hello as she walks in can help you out a great deal. It's a way to break the ice, and if she's a bit more shy, she'll be grateful for the opening. You don't have to be smooth or slick, but a willingness to chance talking to a stranger can be very attractive.
4. Don't be pushy
Confidence is one thing, aggression is an other. Just because you bought her a drink doesn't mean that she's yours forever. If she's not interested, simply say that you hope she'll take it as a compliment and withdraw gracefully. Don't be that guy who has to get kicked out of the bar for getting overly aggressive with a girl. If a girl turns you down, be as gracious as you can; you never know when her gorgeous friend is watching and will be impressed with your chivalry.
5. Be genuine
If all you're after right now is a good time, be up front about that. If you are looking for a wife or steady girlfriend, be up front about that too. The right woman will appreciate honesty, and you don't want to be with one who doesn't. Think about what you really want, and make sure the girl of your choice knows it too.
Many of us watch the television programs and films where it portrays a handsome guy and a beautiful woman in a packed club and suddenly he lays eyes on her and they share a moment, simply by looking at each other, and at that point you can see they have chemistry and you can see it in their eyes that they are attracted to each other. But does this really work in real life? Does an opportunity of attracting women when you first see them even possible many wonder?
So many think to communicate, this is done solely through words; however this point is not true. Communication can take place on a deeper level such as through actions or facial expressions. So would it not be right to say then that just like in movies, you can also attract women without the use of words? Well let me tell you this is fact and not fiction. Remember the saying ‘a picture is worth a thousand words', well a gesture or body language can be far more meaningful then words ever could and when you think about it is the platform to actually talking to the lucky lady and getting to know her.
Women are more tuned to spotting these finer things that men think do not matter, however women the more sensitive sex, definitely find these things vital and more impressive than if you come up to them immediately with a cheesy chat up line.
So project that personality and make her fall head over heels over that crowded dance floor just focusing on these things and you never know she may just come your way.
Now even though this method doesn't sound like there is much to it, the more you put into it the more you get out. So by showing similar interests through how you act and gestures she will be able to observe.
Take this scenario for example, a male and female are in the shopping centre when they are pushing there trolleys down the same isle and suddenly they both reach out for the same product! And a connection has been started already.
Or another instance is if you are jogging past a hot little number and you slow yourself down so that you are running the same pace as her and look past her in the shop window you are both running beside and this could work in a straight forward way.
A lot can be said through a persons eyes, emotions can be expressed that could not even be expressed through words. This is more than just exchanging a look to catch her eye however. Let's put this into a practical situation, where you are in a clothes department and you spot the one that you want go for you can move her way as you hold up a shirt that appeals to you. Then you can dazzle her with one of your deep looks as you ask her for her opinion on the item of clothing.