A good friend of mine found and connected with his latest girlfriend through the internet. In the beginning he was somewhat skittish about online dating, thinking that he'd end up with some psychopath and worrying that using the web to find someone said something about his own character. However, his experience turned out to be very favorable, and I'm sure he would try this again, should his current relationship come to an end.
I know several people that I grew up with, who have sought after and found a relationship online. Two cases in particular actually led to marriage - marriages that have turned out to be successful and lasting. Seeking love online is no longer a shady pastime, or something to hide or be embarrassed of. Most people have high speed internet connections these days, along with computers in their own homes or offices, and pursuing this option has now become very viable.
Of course, when choosing this route, there can be some pitfalls along the way. However, by playing it smart, moving slowly, and really getting to know a person, it is possible to find a real and satisfying relationship.
Online love is no longer the stuff of fantasy movies. It has moved into the realm of reality. People of all ages are making online love work, resulting in happiness for many formerly lonely hearts.
Recently, another friends own father signed up an account with an internet dating service. However, it wasn't for himself - he was looking for someone for his cousin. She has been single for many years and is very lonely. She was interested in changing that situation, but she wasn't too sure about how to set up an online identity. So, my friends' Dad stepped up to the plate and put together a profile complete with pictures, likes and dislikes, measurements and requirements. From what I've heard she's had several successful dates and at least a couple of potentials for something more.
When beginning on a quest to find online love, one can make the search as local or as far-reaching as desired. Depending on your preferences, you can narrow down your search as specifically as you like, or you can open up the playing field to allow for all sorts of opportunities for online love. If you are a bit on the nervous side, you can even search for friendship only and build your way up to searching for a potential date, or more; online.
In the end, even if you don't end up finding online love, you will still meet some interesting people and broaden your horizons.
Lay it on the line: If you're like many of us this time of year, you may be plotting ingenious ways to shed your winter hibernation layer. Or maybe you're the type of gal who gives herself a temporary lift to help compensate for Mama Natures' chintzy endowment. Just remember, when it comes to describing yourself online, be sure to lay it on the line.
Sure, you'll be tempted to fudge the truth, but remember one day you just might meet your Mr. or Ms. Right in person. Then what? Be proud of who you are and what you've got to offer a potential date. Otherwise, your potential match may never quite get beyond the fictional you.
Grab those horns: When it comes to meeting that certain someone, why waste your time playing the waiting game? Grab that bull by the horns! Think about the last time something really good came to you'just by waiting around. If you're serious about finding love online, take the initiative. Sign-up on dating site and make time every day to check out who's online. When someone captures your fancy' send them an email. Or casually invite them for an IM date. What have you got to lose?
Just do it: Sometimes we know exactly what we want in a date, but we don't express it clearly to a would-be match. Take the time to write a thoughtful, witty and engaging profile. Carefully select and outline the criteria you're looking for in a date. Then send your profile (just copy & save it in a word document) to a friend or two for their honest feedback.
Hit the road: Chatting online or by email can start to feel very comfortable. But before you know it, you start to wonder whether your online sweetie would pass muster in your offline world. If you've been chatting online, exchanging e-mail and burning up the phone lines for a few weeks, it's probably time to explore your connection offline. Schedule something casual like a coffee date or brunch. If you're feeling nervous that the online chemistry won't translate into offline sparks, consider suggesting a hour to hour date. This will give you plenty o' time to assess whether you're feeling the love.
Play it cool: Ok, what if you meet, and you know he/she is the bee's knees? Play it cool. Whatever you do, don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Chances are your date may take a moment or two, or even longer, to feel that same connection. So, don't scare them off with premature love declarations. There are some daters out there who believe the chase is half (if not more) of the fun. Be pursued. Enjoy every delicious moment of the chase.
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