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[F316]First Day Of Lent
by Lily Morgan, Lil
The first day of school is a big moment in a parent's life. Many a mother shed a tear as they watch their youngest head off into the big world, all on their own. Many a child sheds tears too, and that can be a situation difficult to cope with. Children often feel a sudden fear at having to let go and be independent, and they're scared of what they'll have to face at this big unknown called SCHOOL. Helping a child deal with that first day of school is easily done, though, and here are some ways to make sure the transition from home to kindergarten is a moment of smiles for everyone.

Build up the excitement, but don't overdo it. Many parents feel that by talking often about school in an encouraging tone is helpful to preparing a child for the first day of school. That is a good method, yes, but by building up so much anticipation, the moment becomes a BIG DEAL. Some children don't do well with that much buildup and pressure to perform and when the big day comes, a meltdown occurs.

Other children wonder why they're being pushed to be excited about school. If it was some easy thing, it wouldn't be a big deal, right? These children become skeptical about a parent's intentions and end up thinking that all the hoopla over school is some conspiracy to hide something terrible. It's a bit like telling a child, "Now this won't hurt a bit," before the child has even thought that it might hurt. The phrase guarantees that the child leaps to the conclusion that if someone has to tell them it won't hurt, it's because it will.

Talk about school and answer questions, discuss the matter, but use a tone that implies school isn't that big a deal and that everyone does it. By acting like going to school is commonplace, a child will receive the message that it's no big deal, actually relax more and assume he or she can handle the situation. No pressure, no big buildup to some huge moment, and no meltdown.

Parents can also avoid fears by visiting the school and classroom before that first day. Fear of the unknown is a huge factor in how a child handles that first day of school. By visiting the school with a parent before the first day, children can observe the environment and be reassured by the parent. When the day comes to set off to school on their own, the children know ahead of time where they are going and what school looks like. By eliminating as much of the unknown as possible, parents eliminate a good amount of fear their child has to deal with.

A last method of helping a child deal with the first day of school is to always treat the child's fears and concerns as valid. While grown-ups are quick to sweep away worries that children bring up, these worries are very real to the children and should be listened to. Discuss the fears with the child instead of dismissing them. Talk over why your child feels as he or she does and try to use analogies the child can understand to ease worries. Concerns such as, "What if I get lost," "What if no one likes me," "What if my teacher hates me," are important to young people and need to be addressed.

When the day comes, parents should smile and deal with the situation matter-of-factly. Give the child a hug, some reassuring words, and a message of love, and then send him or her off. Don't cling to the child as if you don't want to let go, and don't encourage clinging if the child is having a hard time letting go of you. Keep emotion low as much as possible and keep the situation positive. The moment will be a good one and the day will begin on the right foot for both you and your child.

Arizona PEO companies and HR consulting firms are working towards removing the question, “What new hire orientation?” from the minds of Arizona business owners and their employees. Our consultants are too frequently hearing comments like, “I didn't know that Jim was the owner until after I'd been here for three weeks” or, “If Sharon hadn't told me time cards were due on Tuesdays, I wouldn't have gotten paid.” When asked if these topics had been explained during new hire orientation, the employees smirk and say, “What new hire orientation?

Managing employee expectations is essential for moral and productivity. When employees are aware of their responsibilities and deadlines, the entire team runs smoothly and gets the job done. When employees receive mixed messages from management, the workplace becomes a free-for-all prone to anxiety and chaos. Though business owners and managers obviously prefer the former, they don't always know how to best manage their employees' expectations. HR consulting firms highly recommend a well thought out and well executed new hire orientation.

When devising a new hire orientation plan, Arizona PEO companies suggest focusing on two key times. An employee's first hour and first day with your company are critical. When new employees feel as though they are being welcomed into a well organized and productive firm they will follow suit.

The First Hour
Informed Manager, Informed Staff.
Alert the staff that a new employee will be joining them at least a day in advance. Send out an email, put notes in boxes, or announce it at a meeting - whatever it takes to inform your team that there will be a new member. Friendly smiles are much easier to stomach for new employees than are questioning looks and whispers of, “Who is that?”. The new employee should feel as though he or she was expected and welcomed.

In Addition, the employee's team leader or manager must be prepared for the new employee the moment she arrives – not two minutes later, not 10 minutes later. The manager's morning schedule should be cleared so that the new hire orientation can flow smoothly. Copies of new hire paperwork should already be made and the new employee's work station should be set up. Avoid the, “Oh, I forgot to…” conversations, as they generally lead to the employee sitting alone in a room questioning the manager's abilities. A quick outline of the orientation schedule should be included with the new hire paperwork. This will give the employee some idea of what to expect for the rest of the day. When the first hour is well organized it sets a good pace for the rest of the day.

The First Day
A detailed agenda of the employee's first day is imperative. New hire paperwork with Jill at 8:00, tour of the facility with Adam at 9:00, employee handbook, company history, and benefits package from 9:30 to 11:00 with Victor. Move from one section of the orientation to the next swiftly and be sure that all the key players are prepared and on time.

HR Consultants highly recommend assigning a Job Coach for the new employee as well. This person should be able to answer questions not only about policies and procedures, but also about the responsibilities of the position. Have the Job Coach invite the new employee out for lunch. Down time and casual conversation will help to collapse any anxiety walls that may have risen during the first half of the day. This relationship will be very useful for the employee during the first weeks and months of their employment.

Incorporating independent tasks in the afternoon will give the new employee a chance to display his or her skills and assist in the ownership of the position. This break will also give the supervisor a chance to return to daily responsibilities. After the tasks have been completed, check in to answer questions about the day and prepare the employee for what lies ahead the following day. Will she clock in? Who should she check in with tomorrow morning? What tasks will be assigned? Are there any meetings she should plan on attending? New employees always appreciate knowing what is coming down the line.

It takes time to acclimate to a new atmosphere and the first impression is crucial. Managers want their employees to feel positive about the company and the way it runs. Providing new employees with thoughtful, well executed orientations is key for molding employee perceptions. Being attentive to the needs of employees on their first day will give them a sense of value and belonging that will go a long way toward a positive view of the company.

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