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[G322]Go On With Life
by Mary Lorainne, Mar

The great thing though about this so called life is that we make it. Everyday counts as we go through the journey of happiness and sadness, of feeling love and getting hurt, of obtaining success or falling hard. Life is indeed very colorful and you put the colors in it.

As people say, life is like a wheel there may be times when you are on top, on the peak of your career, on the top of the corporate ladder, on the top of the list as one of the wealthiest. Sometimes, you may be in the middle having an average living, having a typical family. Quite often we may be at our lowest, when we suffer hard, when we feel down.

I have to say that life has not been sweet for many of us especially those who suffer everyday may it be suffering in sickness, in lack of finances to buy even a single meal as well as suffering from fear, rejection and loneliness. I do not believe there is but a single person who hasn't experienced any hardship in life.

Life is precious and we should value every minute, every second of it. I always believe that since I will only be given one shot with this, then I should make the most out of it. We can never return to yesterday neither are we given the opportunity to go back through time in our lives to redo whatever it is that we thought we should have done.

Always look at the brighter side of things. You may have failed, you may have been hurt and heartbroken, you may have been rejected but life goes on and tomorrow is another opportunity for you to do what you think and feels right for you life.

We only go through life once so seize the opportunity of every moment. Savor both the good and the bad. Go through life knowing that you have made every single day count by doing what you want to do. Go through life with no regrets without feelings of wonder on the “what ifs” because you never gave it a shot. Knowing that you have lived everyday, as if it were your last makes waking up everyday more than worthwhile.


A lot of people feel that the world has ended for them when they get divorced. This should not be the case. Yes, parting ways with your spouse can be a very painful and stressful experience indeed but it is not the end of the world. You deserve a second chance at life and love. As most divorcees eventually find out, there is life after divorce and divorce lawyer's fees. It is just a matter of going through the hard part and then move on with your life. To help you handle marriage breakups, here are some tips for you.

Never Bottle Up Your Emotions

No, you do not have to act so brave amidst all the emotional turmoil. Get emotion and cry all you want. If you are angry about what happened, show your anger and let everyone know how you feel. You heal faster if you admit all the ranging emotions inside you. However, you should be careful about displaying your anger in front of the kids. Young kids do not understand much about the way you feel and they have think that you are angry at them when you start throwing things around the house. If you must vent your anger, do it when the kids are not around. Remember that your kids are also suffering a lot of emotional pains because of the divorce so do not have things more difficult for them.

Stop Blaming Yourself

If you have been kicking and blaming yourself for not being able to hang on to your spouse, stop doing that this minute. It is not your fault that your spouse is leaving you and the kids. Even if it is your fault that your spouse is bolting out of the relationship, blaming yourself will not make things any better. Instead of blaming yourself for the divorce, tell yourself that life must go on. You committed a mistake, yes, but that does not mean that you cannot make things better in the future. We all deserve a second chance at life and that second chance after a divorce will only come to you if you let it.

Avoid Contact With Your Ex

More than anything else you need to stay away from the places which you and your spouse used to go to. Stop hoping that you will run into him/her and the magic that you used to feel when you first met will come back miraculously. When the romance has died, it remains dead so stop harboring hopes for a reunion. It's over, the divorce is final and your spouse is not into you anymore.
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