[H1214]How To Get Trust

Before you start looking for the woman that you
want, make a clear idea of the type of woman you
are after in your mind. Now you can set some
specific details, which are more important for
you, like: she has to be a good mother, a sexy
blonde or a smart brunet, the housekeeper type of
woman or a career woman... and don't forget the
age and the relation type you're after.

This will allow you to choose the right online
dating site for you (www.eBridex.com is a new one
and might work well for you). Then, you will have
to make your profile as complete and realistic
as you can. Take time to view some women profiles
that contain the specific details you have fixed
and pick one, maximum two of them. If you are
interested in more than two women, never, but
never talk online with more of them in the same
time. Women can feel if you don't give them your
complete attention.

Now cames the hard part, and the most important:
the approach part: Don't forget! In online dating
the most important thing is to GET HER TO TRUST
YOU!If you selected a site that gives you the
possibility to contact women by e-mail, your
first e-mail is the most important. Introduce
yourself and say something specific, that is
special about HER (you should read her profile
carefully for this). Tell her the location on the
web where she can find your profile, and be
direct and ask for an online talk (date) to get
to know you each other better. Don't write a long
email. If you have fixed an online date, do not
be late! By doing this you will lose her from the
very begining.

When you're approaching her online, after you
break the ice with an open question, the very
next thing you should say or do is to introduce
yourself. Just use your first name then allow
the woman you're talking to to offer you her name
(if she is using a nickname in her profile).
Pause for a moment. If she doesn't offer it, ask
her what her name is. Then, and this is very
important, use her name in the very next sentence
you are writing to her. Using her name works like
magic to make her more interested in you. Never
talk about your ex in the first dates and don't
forget the women don't want to be a shoulder for
you to cry on. Be positive and enthusiastic. Make
her laugh and feel good about spending time
talking with you.

The next thing you want to say or do is
compliment her. Call attention to some detail
about her, and flatter her in a totally positive
way. Be sure to avoid obvious compliments at all
costs. Also, always find ways to agree with her.
Never disagree with a woman when you first meet
her. One exception, which works all the time is
if she initiates a conversation about sex with
you. One time when I was talking with a women
online she started to tell me that she would like
to see me only with a towell on me and I said to
her that ?Hey.. don't you think things are moving
a little too fast in this relationship?? :). At
the first time we date she confesed me that she
only came to the date because I have impressed
her with that line. Imagine that. :)Keep in mind
that if a woman likes you or would like to know
you better, she will give you free information to
follow up on.

If she's not attracted to you, she won't give you
much of anything and it will be very difficult to
maintain a decent conversation with her.At first
time, don't talk more then one hour or one hour
and a half, then pretend that you have to go,
but don't forget to tell her that you have a
great time talking to her and never be shy about
asking her for her phone number. Be direct. You
can say something like, "I have to be going now.
But I'd love to hear your voice, sometime. Can I
call you?" Without the all important phone number,
you will never get anywhere with a woman.Do not
call her in the same day you have talk with her
online, suspans can be healty sometimes. :)

Good luck, and be smart! She will be ?on fire?
just to get to know you better.