Have you noticed with those females that you tend to not be attracted to or don't like at all, that the more you resist the more they persist? When a woman asks you to do something, go about an indirect way of doing it. Have fun with it, don't do what they ask of you, play with them. Always keep women wondering and always make yourself unpredictable because as soon as you become predictable to women, you become boring.
Learning to say NO to woman is the one most powerful thing you can do. I am not suggesting that you be an asshole about it and always not give a woman what she wants, I am saying to give her what she wants but not when she wants it because you decide what happens and when it happens. Just think about it, how often do you see a guy say no to a woman? I have been interacting with women before and they have dropped something on PURPOSE and all the men FLEE to be the first one to pick it up for her. I have even see women look at the male as if to say, "what you are just going to stand there, pick it up." They will say "can you pick that up for me please?"
When a woman asks you questions don't give her a direct answer, always give her an indirect answer. It gets them thinking instead of thinking that they know every single little detail about your entire life. If you can learn if a woman is testing you or not then you are one step ahead of her. And yes if you did not know ALL WOMEN test and play games unconsciously and consciously.
Another secret way to resist from women is to be busy, don't pretend to be busy either because it won't work long term. Actually be busy in life and don't always ditch your plans for a woman, if you have something to do then do it. I have heard women say that they HATE IT when they have called up their boyfriend and said "hey what are you doing?" and they have said "I was going to go out with the boys but I will come see you instead." A woman will be far more attracted to you if you learn how to say "I can't right now I am busy, but I can come over later if I get time."
Women will try and change your plans. They have to see how determined you are and how important YOUR LIFE is to you. I am not suggesting that you hurt a woman's feelings and resist at every single situation that occurs, just learn when the appropriate times are to resist and this will come through experience.
There was a quote from Carl Jung "What you resist, persists." So learn how to be playful and have fun with women. Don't be like most men who give them everything that they want when they want it because you will in time find that you will be nothing but a provider to the woman, and be unfulfilled.
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How does a person dress for success for a business occasion? What is the difference between smart casual and formal dress code (for guys)? These are the two main questions which this article aims to answer based on the author's experience and knowledge gained from working with entrepreneurs and business people whose expertise includes knowing how to dress for success.
Dressing means that you wear yourself the and you wear your clothes in a confident manner in order to positively influence people on impact. They say that first impressions last, so knowing how to dress for success is the smart thing to do. Let's feel firstly with how to dress for a business occasion.
If you are going to be involved with a formal or informal business occasion, but you desire to look sharp, smart and highly polished - a corporate superstar businessman here's five things you can do to help yourself not only look and dress better, but feel better about yourself to, so your confidence shines from the inside out...
1) Wear a spotless suit, pressed shirt and clean tie (preferably silk). You can wear a tie-pin to keep the two parts of your tie together so long as it is not a "Mickey Mouse": exceptions are if you are representing Disney, or you are a child health doctor/paediatrician.
2) Make sure you are clean and spotless. Well-shaven, if you have foams and cleansers for face, use them, splash of aftershave/cologne,underarm deoderant and brush the hair so that you really look your "Sunday best" - this will make people feel you've made the effort, and that you are sharp and slick - you know how to take care of yourself. Others will look up to you automatically. Shower is absolutely mandatory.
3) Polish your shoes. Polish them again. And then shine them up. Having highly clean and shiny shoes make a real difference. Notice how other business people dress and how much more powerful their personality comes across when they are immaculately dressed, hair combed and shoes highly polished. You don't want to show a single sign of weakness, and so there is no excuse for not polishing up your shoes finely.
4) Clean and whiten teeth if possible. You do not want bad breath to let you down. So clean your teeth, including brushing your tongue. Floss and if you have tooth whitener, use that too. If you can, have your teeth cleaned by a dentist once per year.
5) Finally, work on your self talk. Look in to the mirror after you have got suited up and say about 100 times (one hundred) "I like myself" "I really like myself" and "I feel terrific" "I am the best" over and over and over until it feels bad. Then do it some more until you feel totally fired up. You'll leave the place you are getting ready with a fire in your heart and unstoppable confidence if you do this.
For a smart casual occasion it depends on your confidence. You can wear a jacket or sports jacket over a colored shirt or white shirt plus smart trousers, pressed and very new-looking smart shoes, or shined and polished office shoes. Alternatively, you can wear a pair of navy jeans with a stone washed effect down the middle - for a rough feel, but wear a white shirt and suit jacket (open neck shirt - no tie at all) and super-smart shoes.
Always, always ask your girlfriend/spouse how you look. More than likely they will help you add a finishing touch to your tie, shirt or belt, or pay you an awesome compliment to boost your confidence. Women know how to judge men's fashion better than most men, so performing this final step will help. Otherwise, get out there and meet people and remember you know how to dress for success
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