This is actually pretty simple if you know what women are looking for in a guy. To be honest, I can tell you right now WHY you haven't found a girlfriend yet.
See, you may have found a special woman you WOULD LIKE to be with, but she just doesn't feel attracted to you.
She does NOT feel the same way towards you than you do to her.
How come?
Because you didn't give a woman what she needs to feel sexually attracted to you. She may think you're a nice guy and a good friend, but that's as far as it goes. She doesn't see you as a potential boyfriend or lover.
And that really sucks ... so we need to change that.
So what are you doing wrong? What is it that makes women tell you that "you are a nice guy, but not really for her?"
Well for once...you are a god-damn wussbag!
A woman doesn' reject a man if he doesn't have anything to offer to a her like money, a muscular body, a fancy sports-car and good-looks. That's not the case even thought everybody thinks that way.
It's not because women think you are a weirdo or you dress like a bum.
It's not because you think all those stunning women are out of your league.
There I something else.
You haven't found a girlfriend or a woman that loves you for who you are because you are just being yourself...no, no.
It's because women don't like men who act like wimps and clingy nice-guys.
Now...READ MY LIPS: You are a wimp!!
See, you have been YOURSELF all your life...and has it worked? Not really. But you don't want to become a different person either and I respect that. The good thing is, you won't have to change at all ... you just need to IMPROVE!
I need to show you what really works with women, and give you the necessary knowledge and some of my killer dating tips that actually work in the real world.
Not just any kind of dating tips...I am going to show you how ANYBODY, regardless of how rich, tall or handsome you are can meet and date the kind of women you always wanted!
So why don't you have a girlfriend yet?
Because nobody has ever told you what to do to successfully attract women. How could you? Most men aren't born with the gift of making women laugh, giggle and sweeping them off their feet.
It is an art, and if you've never really understood why women pick certain men over others, you have some learning to do.
So here's what I want you to do:
STOP being a wuss!
Don't kiss a woman's ass.
Don't buy them drinks.
Don't pay them any compliments.
Don't invite them to dinner or to the movies.
Don't bring flowers, chocolate, a cuddly-toy or ANYTHING at all!
It only shows a woman that you are a clingy, needy nice-guy who wants to BUY a woman's affection...and attraction cannot be bought, EVER!
If you do, she will either walk all over you or just tell you that you are a nice guy, but "let's rather be friends!". And here's another thing. The more you want sex from her, a long-term relationship or even just a kiss ... the less you will get it.
Women don't like what they can have right away. If you are too pushy, needy and "easy-to-get", you are not a challenge for any woman and therefore BORING!
The key is to be interesting!
So STOP what you are doing RIGHT NOW...and get it right!
Well if this is the case, then you're not alone. Right now, there are thousands even millions of guys who need a girlfriend to complete their lives. The problem is they don't have a clue about how to get one.
Fortunately there is a way YOU can find that special someone to complete your life. In this article, you'll discover a simple five step system you can use to get a girlfriend.
Step 1- Work on your attraction skills
Before you can even think about finding a girlfriend, it's important to work on your core personality and pick up skills. The logic behind this is to be able to attract that perfect woman once you meet her. So during the process of meeting women, you should work on displaying the characteristics which they'll find attractive.
For instance, you should focus (and try to improve) on the following things:
* Building confidence
* Approaching women
* Conversation skills
* How to build chemistry and rapport
* Seduction skills
Step 2- Know what you want
While you're out meeting women it's important to figure out "the type" you really want. Just like any other goal in your life it's simple to achieve your desired outcome if you have a clear understanding of what you want.
So if you want to learn how to find a girlfriend, then you should think about the type of woman you're looking for. Here are some things to consider:
* Age
* Race
* Body type
* Hair color
* Personality
* Education
* Level of intelligence
* Social Background
Step 3- Go to the right places
While this might seem simplistic, the best way to find your ideal woman is to go where she'll be. In the last step, you learned how to discover your perfect girlfriend. Since you know what she's like, you'll have a clear picture of her personality and interests.
My advice is to simply go to the places where she hangs out. For instance, if you want an athletic girl, then you should look at gyms and other athletic events.
Step 4- Approach and date different woman
The worst thing you can do is to seriously date the FIRST woman who pays attention to you. Instead you should make it a point to date different women till you find one that's perfect for you. As a result, you should make it a point to approach (and date) every woman who find interesting in your life.
By dating lots of women you'll develop a realistic view of what you really want from a girlfriend. Only after you've seen what you DON'T want, will you develop an idea of the perfect girlfriend.
Step 5- Select a girlfriend
The last step is simple. Once you've dated for awhile, you'll start to develop strong feelings for one particular woman. Obviously once you *click* with one particular women, you can make her your girlfriend.
Trying to discover how to find a girlfriend is a hard for many guys. The good news is it's not difficult if you know the right system. If you pay close attention (and implement) the five steps I discussed in this article, you'll discover it's easy to find that perfect girl.
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