You know the feeling. You see a beautiful woman and the first thought that comes to your mind is, 'She's way out of my league; I'll never have a chance with her.' You go to a party and you feel alone in the crowd. You're convinced that you're not worthy of the attention of an attractive lady. Well, prepare for a mental boost! All of that negative thinking can be overcome in just a few minutes. All you have to do is change your mind.

Take a moment to assess your inadequacies. Ask yourself why you feel inadequate and ashamed. Is it your physical attractiveness, your monetary wealth, your education? No. If you're asking these questions at all, you have a problem with self-confidence. A lack of self-confidence is the root of all fear.

Self-confidence is the certainty you have in your own value, beliefs and capabilities. If you have a high level of self-confidence, you feel capable of overcoming the challenges life throws your way and dealing with situations as they arise. If you have a low self-confidence, you're constantly belittling yourself and think you're unworthy of happiness. What separates the confident from the unconfident is that confident individuals don't let their problems and imperfections (which, by the way, everyone has) stop them from what they want to do in life.

Look at what you have. Even if it's not much, it's enough to build something on. If you're ashamed of your lack of money or education, resolve to do better for yourself. Be determined to succeed. Get a plan. If you do this, even if you're not bringing in the big bucks or wearing designer clothes today, people will notice your self-respect and want to be near you.

You can super-boost your self-confidence and develop irresistible charisma with the help of special techniques based on neuro-linguistic programming. Just download software like Subliminal Flash, and you will be able to hypnotize yourself to be charismatic and self confident. I personally used it, and many of my students did. Usually 5-6 subliminal sessions with Subliminal Flash is enough to feel significant results, such as improved self confidence. You will notice that you can get the opposite sex'x attention without any effort. You can download Subliminal Flash for free from many sites, just search Google for it.

Continue to boost your self-esteem by practicing fearlessness. Don't waste time and energy being afraid of rejection. You don't know what's going to happen until it happens! So when you see that beautiful woman, walk up to her and say something! Be confident and engaging. People find it extremely difficult to reject someone who is confident and at ease in their social interactions. Learn to take charge of a conversation. If you're in charge, the other person can't help but follow your lead, which significantly lessens that person's power to reject you.

Give yourself a pep talk whenever you need it. Maintain a high self-confidence and don't let anyone -- including yourself -- tear you down. Then, no one will be out of your league ever again.