So, your girlfriend has been ignoring you for a very long time. You are now very concerned about whether you can get her back.

Well, you definitely stand a chance even if your ex ignores you. You can even do it without forgoing your pride and dignity. Perhaps, you may even be curious about why I am even talking about pride and dignity here.

Obviously, I say that for a reason. What I noticed is that a lot of guys tend to make certain mistakes that make them lost their pride and dignity in front of their girlfriend. You may or may not have made these mistakes but let us look at some of them now.

1)Declaring love

It is true that a woman wants her man to tell her, I love you regularly. In fact, I would say this is a magic phrase that strengthens a relationship But of course, I love you should be said when the relationship is going strong.

When a break up has just occurred, it seems a bit too late to say I love you if you havent been saying it to your girlfriend when both of you still have a strong relationship.

In other words, once you break up, the magic phrase will also start to lose its magic. So, you dont want to use this phrase to get your girlfriend to come back. It doesnt work and you dont want to appear needy in front of your girlfriend by saying I love you again and again.

2)Calling her 200 times per day

Okay, I am exaggerating a bit here. But I think you get the point. Another common mistake that a lot of guys make is that they try to call their girlfriends too often in an attempt to get her back.

Again, you dont want to attempt that. What you want to do is to back off a bit for the time being. You dont want to give her too much pressure or it may back fire.

Of course, there are more mistakes than the two of them mentioned above. If you think you have already made a lot of mistakes, do not worry. Most probably, it is not over yet. You still have a chance as there is something that you can do to reverse the situation or even improve the situation.