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[H837]How To Approach Woman

by Terry Leslie, Ter

The old saying, 'The Knight In Shining Armor' still exists today like it did in the medieval times. Only difference is that we're no longer on a horse and wearing our metal. These days it's more of a male chivalry which we all men should show if we want to attract our woman. Women are always looking for their knight in shining armor all the time. It is in them to want to be rescued. So whenever there is a chance to help a woman in need, never hesitate. Just do it!

We may not be attracted to the woman we help, but you never know if there is another woman around the corner watching your good deeds. What is important is that this has to be real, a habit you gradually develop over time. You really should not do it just to attract a woman. The more you give, the more you get back. Just don't expect it right away or else you'll be disappointed.

So in future when ever you see a woman who either, needs help or rescue from a situation, go for it. Rescuing a woman is one of the surest ways to win their heart. Whether it's from another man or an embarrassing situation, find a way to save the day and very likely you've immediately also found a way to her heart.

Woman unconsciously also like to see that you have good relationships with other women around your age because it shows that you are also liked by other women. She'll find this attractive.

Never approach a woman too directly and stare down at her as she'll begin to find you too intimidating or even creepy. An indirect approach is best. Try to also stay away from the usual pick-up lines such as the weather, buying her a drink etc.

You are much better off relating to her on some level. Try to find a common interest.

Its best to therefore approach women as a friend or casual acquaintance as this gives you the best chance to get to know her a little bit more and quickly find a common ground of interest. This can then be further developed into a full blown conversation. It also puts pressure off you trying to score on first attempt with expectations of a long lasting romance or a one night stand and then feeling stupid if you didn't succeed.

Take your time, and continue practicing. This is the only way you'll gain confidence over time. The more you do it, the more you'll feel comfortable picking up women.

Being confident in the way you approach a woman will have a direct impact on the results you get. For instance, if you walk up to a woman acting nervous, sweating, stuttering, or fidgeting, it immediately instills in her a sense of insecurity. On the other hand, a confident man makes a woman feel safe and secure, therefore they respond much better. Remember, if you do not feel 100% confident, you can still present yourself that way without her ever knowing the difference.

For some men, approaching a woman is no big deal, they simply find someone they would like to meet, walk up to make an introduction, and soon, have a phone number or a date. However, approaching a woman is not so easy for everyone. If you are someone who would love to meet a nice woman but are petrified just thinking about it, then this article is for you.

The best way to do this is with lots of practice. Do not think this is silly in that many men will practice at home before they head out to try the real deal. Think about the words that you want to say and then practice. As a part of this scenario, consider various responses, some negative, and some positive. If a woman appears disinterested, politely say, “Well I’ll leave you alone" and leave but if she responds in a positive way, you have the chance to engage in a conversation. Remember – be interested in talking to her and in listening to her so she will do the same.

Be realistic in your expectations, knowing that some women will be rude, some will ignore you, and some will turn you away without much thought. Now, you also need to know that some women will respond in a nice, lady-like manner, showing interest. Let us say you approached ten women and nine of them were not interested when you said your opening line but if one of them did, one is better than none is. While no one likes being rejected, it happens to men and to women so the more you can work on approaching various types of women the easier it will become and the more confidence you will gain.

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