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Now, as some of you know there are a variety of ways to make money in real estate both in low end and high end houses. I did not, however, go drive around any of the low end areas. Why? Because those places don't make me feel good. While there is a lot of money to be made with junkers, I prefer to invest in very high dollar areas… because driving around there makes me feel great. More importantly it also gets me accustomed to being around high dollar houses.
See, many real estate investors never touch very high dollar homes because they are terrified by the zeros behind the house value, and they feel scared when they're around those kinds of houses—yet it would be just as easy for them to use their knowledge and make more money dealing with very pretty houses than ugly houses. They think they're “out of their league.”
The exact same thing happens with guys when it comes to beautiful women. Many guys get pretty good at talking to regular women, but freeze up when they meet an incredibly beautiful woman even though it is actually easier to succeed with beautiful women if you know what you're doing.
Most guys don't succeed because, like the average real estate investor, they believe such women are “out of their league.” Here's the truth: there's no such thing as a “league,” unless you impose it on yourself. You just have to adjust your self image to be comfortable with the surroundings you choose to play in.
Here's how to do that with beautiful women. Start by putting yourself in situations where you're surrounded by them. Go to the gym where they work out (I know where that is in Austin), eat lunch in the areas they do, and go to the bars and nightclubs where they go. Don't try to “pick up” on them, just get used to being around them.
Watch how they interact with men, and you'll notice something very interesting. Almost every single guy will try to impress them with how much money they make, how perfect their hair is, or how important their job is. They tell them how beautiful they are and ask if they can “take them out.” And most of them get shot down.
Why? Because beautiful women hear this silliness over and over and over. They don't care about it. What they want is a bright, fun, intelligent guy who will define authority for them, make them laugh, and be a real, genuine human being with them—what all women want.
Most beautiful women rarely get this, though because their beauty attracts a lot of phony guys or guys who think these women want to be put on a pedestal. Sure a few of them do, but not the majority. They just want a guy who knows how to create attraction for them, and guy who can make them laugh and is not intimidated by them.
When you're comfortable being around beautiful women, it's time to start spending time with them. Start by going to the internet and writing as many as you can find, especially the ones without pictures. If you use the strategies I teach in the Women Approach You System you will get plenty of responses from beautiful women.
Then when you go to meet them in person it will be no big deal because you're used to being around them, you know the world is full of them, and you can concentrate on creating attraction for her, and being the naughty little boy she craves but never gets to see because guys are too busy kissing her ass.
The “naughty boy” is incredibly effective with beautiful women because they rarely get to experience it. In fact, when you start engaging in “naughty boy” behavior, you'll discover these women have a “naughty girl” side they rarely get to indulge.
You'd be amazed at how many good “fart stories” I've swapped with incredibly beautiful women, stories they'd never hear from the guys who usually chase them. This has created more attraction for them than all the BMW's fancy houses, and wads of cash in the world.
So, if you want to attract beautiful women, get used to being around them like I just described, and get your naughty side ready to go—you're going to need it!
It's learning how to approach women WITHOUT fear of recection!
Sounds simple right?
I'm sure it does, but...
Many men are afraid to approach beautiful women simply because they get nervous thinking about what a woman will say and how she might reject him.
But if you can learn how to confidently walk up to a woman with NO fear of rejection, you'll attract more women then a guy who acts nervous around women.
For instance one of my good friends, attracts LOTS OF good-looking women simply because he has no fear of rejection. While he knows he might get rejected,
he's able to remove all negative thoughts from his head and instead focuses on getting to know his target woman better.
So if you can learn one thing from my friend it's that guys with no fear of rejection are the most successful with women.
Here's a simple way to eliminate any fear of rejection...
Just concentrate on the present moment and force yourself to IGNORE negative thoughts you have. This means if you can focus on enjoying the conversation and have fun with a girl.
Instead of being intimidated by women, you should immediately approach any girl that strikes your interest. Remember if you never approach a woman, then you'll always fail.
Just get in to the practice of approaching EVERY girl you find interesting.
Once you do this by reflex, your nervousness and fears will quickly fade away.
If you develop the courage to approach women and initiate conversations, then you'll at least have some chance of success. Even if you're only successful a few times, you'll at least gained experience with approaching. In addition, you'll be one more step closer to overcoming your fear of rejection.
Furthermore once you learn to forget the fear of rejection and start automatically approaching women, you'll drastically improve your 'game'. Eventually you'll become a master at approaching and attracting women.
So take my advice, eliminate your fear of rejection and learn how to automatically approach every woman you find interesting.