Candles are used for basic decorating purposes for both the ceremony and reception, but they also have more specific uses. Some couples use them in a unity wedding ceremony, where the bride and the groom hold a tapered candle each, representing their separate lives before they met, as together they light a pillar candle to show their union into a merged life. The three candles can then be placed in a beautiful unity and taper holder showing that the bride and groom are individuals but that together they are more.
If either the bride or groom or both have children, then they can be involved in the wedding at this point by all having their own candles.
You can have stunning themes for the Unity candles and ceremony such as Asian Fusion or Celtic Charm candles and accessories. The Asian Fusion candles are a fabulous red with black trimmings while the Celtic Charm theme is in beautiful muted greens.
Wedding candles offer a romantic element to the affair, and create a calm and peaceful environment so that you don't have to have bright lights glaring down on you and your guests. A great idea is a personalized wedding candle. For instance, a family circle monogram personalized luxury candle which features a monogram crest with space to enter dates and names around it in a circle.
It doesn't matter if you're having a day or evening wedding, wedding candles add an ambiance no other piece of decor can. Some couples even use floating wedding candles if they're getting married beside a pool.
Even if you're having an indoor wedding, you can still incorporate the floating wedding candle idea into your ceremony or reception by placing the floating candles in a clear glass vase or container decorated to match your wedding theme.
Tea-light candles can be strategically placed around the event to add a subtle charm and even scent, if you opt to invest in aromatic wedding candles. If you are worried about the tea light candles going out or causing a fire then there are battery operated "flickering" tea lights that can be used. The flickering of the wicks give the appearance of real candles.
The holders for your wedding candles are every bit as important as the candles themselves. You can choose plain candle holders that will blend in to the background, or wedding candle holders that match your theme. There are even gorgeous "suspended heart" unity and taper holders which hold the three candles in the one, three branched silver plated, holder.
A candle wedding favor can also be a wonderful gift to give to your guests or bridal party. You can have the candle holder engraved with their name or a special message showing your appreciation to them for their participation in your special day.
Wedding candles come in a variety of shapes and sizes, so you can have large candles to decorate your event, and include miniature versions on each table for the guests to enjoy. One bride even had candles set up in martini glasses - a fun display that set the mood for the party after the ceremony.
Perhaps the most beautiful effect you can see using candles in a wedding is when brides choose to use luminaries. In case you aren't familiar with them, luminaries are decorated bags that you place along a pathway with a candle inside that makes the decoration shine through.
As people walk along the path to the wedding, the effect of dozens of doves and hearts set a beautiful mood and it makes a lasting impression on the guests. You can even have the luminaries sprinkled throughout the area if you have a garden reception.
When using luminaries, the bag itself is the decor, and you can use tea light candles to bring the effect to life. They are safe to use and come with instructions so you won't feel unsure investing in this unique form of wedding decor.
Congratulations on your engagement! If you have not already begun, this is the time to begin planning your wedding ceremony and reception. Ideas are probably flowing through your mind at an alarming rate. Family members and friends are more than likely lending you their ideas as well. How do you make sense of everything? A wedding planning list is an ideal and essential tool for organizing your wedding day.
A wedding planning list is slightly different from a wedding checklist. The planning list is an overall picture of what you want for your wedding and the estimated costs of each broad category. Many couples today are tying the knot later in life. Most of the time, both the bride and the groom are already well established in their careers and have more money to spend than younger couples right out of high school or college. The average wedding costs roughly $15,000 to $30,000, so it is important to outline how that money will be spent ahead of time.
Examples of items included on this list might include the following: photographer, flowers, ceremony location and fees, reception location, wedding favors, bridal gown and tuxedo for the bride and groom, formal wear for the wedding party, the wedding rings, invitations and stationary, music and entertainment, names of hotels for out of town guests, and gifts for family members.
A wedding planning list should also include:
1) Vendor information including names and contact phone numbers
2) An alternate location for the ceremony and reception if scheduled as outdoor events
3) A timeline for the events and the person responsible for each
4) Song selections for the ceremony
5) The order of the wedding party and how they will proceed down the aisle
The reception should be planned using a wedding planning list as well. A few items that should be included are the names of your wedding party and family for introductions, music to be played as they enter the reception area, seating chart, special dances and music, the toast and blessing times, and the menu with beginning and ending times.
Designate one person to make sure that all of your vendors are paid accordingly on your wedding day. Include the name of the vendor, the amount to be paid, and the method of payment they will accept on the wedding planning list. A copy of this information should be on a separate page and given only to the person paying each vendor.
Creating a wedding planning list will enable you both to see the overall picture of your wedding day and reception. You will rest easier knowing that the plans are in motion and you know up front how much you want to spend. Money is one of the biggest stresses between couples, so deciding on these numbers before the planning is too far along is going to relieve stress and eliminate misunderstandings down the line for both of you.
Your wedding planning list will be just one tool used to create the most memorable day of your life. This list will be placed inside your wedding planner book, along with your checklist, guest list, and other important items. Keeping everything organized is crucial for keeping stress levels at a minimum. This list is especially important if you are planning the entire event yourself, without the services of a professional wedding planner.
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