?I Love You?...these holy words are perhaps the most delicate to utter. It is not only because you are going to get hold of the immense courage to propose your beloved but also because this purest moment of proposing should be kept as an lifetime experience that you and your sweetheart will cherish ever after.
Proposing in style and etiquette dates back to the Classical Age. We remember Romeo and Juliet, Cinderella and her Prince Charming, the scenes of Pretty Woman, Gone With The Wind, When Harry Met Sally, Runaway Bride and loads and loads other love stories. So it has become almost a challenge for you to make this day an unforgettable ones. There are few tips to propose to your sweetheart in a way he or she has dream about it.
1.Do not hesitate. Have full confidence. Girls do not like childish activities and foolish behaviors speciallyIf you want not to get rejected then be brave and say soon before it is too late. Do not stammer. in times of serious conversation.
2. To the extreme: If your woman is the sporty type, you can propose to her from the heights of a mountain after a day of rock climbing. Other possibilities would be during a parachute jump or a scuba-diving session in South America, or anywhere else for that matter. But the reaction of the action will be overturned if she is in a bad mood and in this case there is a chance of long term separation.
3. Try to know her mind as clear as possible. Ask yourself whether she will like a Cinderella's story or a very natural gesture. At times girls like simple things. While walking along one can propose as beautifully as possible. Besides one can propose standing on knees and holding up hands and announcing extravagantly. Try to know which of these she will really like.
4. Sometimes people simply like the traditional ways of gifting a diamond ring, putting it in the glass or the cup from which she is drinking liquor. Many a times, these typical strands work better than anythings. She will remember it for ever if she really like classical mode of etiquette. Red Roses in accompaniment with the nice overtone of violin may be a good idea in these cases.
5. The most general way is writing a love letter with beautiful hand writing and add perfume with it. So that when she will be reading it the fragrance will help her to remember you more strongly. Believe it or not, till date most of the love proposals are being send either using a love greeting card with eternal love quotes and awesome handwriting or through a love letter.
The rest is up to the almighty and your lady love. If she rejects you after attempting all five of these, then do not worry. Either she will propose you herself or this is not a good time for you. Because she is not made for you.
So you meet the man of your dreams. Usually it is the cafeteria or restaurant near your office, or the shopping mall or the jogging park. And then comes a series of meeting. You like go out with him for movies, spend weekends. You decide that you feel great with him and can be the ?Friends for Life.?
Then you are stuck!! You think he loves you, but here's the Big Problem. You do not know for sure! You have searched for hints, asked him about his girlfriends, tried to find out if he misses you, talked about his views of life ??
Are you confused how to start the right relationship or propose to your man? Everyone told you that it is a man's job to pop the question. But what if you have been dying to do so? Not to worry, go ahead. Just remember to follow these points.
1)Make him feel special. Take him to his favorite restaurant. Request his special song to be played and order his favorite food. If he is comfortable and relaxed, you will have his attention.
2)Get him in a romantic mood Invite him to your place and treat him to the best single malt. Make sure that you are dressed in your sexy best. Try something that is in good taste, like put on a soft music. And you should not be disturbed by unwelcome calls.
3)Catch him in the right spirit Do Not propose to him on a day when he's had it bad at work. Or say, he's upset about something. Gauge his mood and only then go ahead. And again remember that being too sympathetic ruins things. On such a day, it is often wise to lend him a silent mental support. You are his best friend, and if he needs your time, gladly spend time without discussing about your relationship.
4)Give him subtle hints It is best to let him know of your intention in advance. But do it subtly. Say for example, tell him, you need to talk to him about something important. It shouldn't come as a surprise.
5)Say it with confidence Do not beat about the bush or show your nervousness. Look into his eyes and say it with confidence. He will love you even more for that.
6)Avoid Overdoing Do not show your desperation. Otherwise you might lose your guy.
7)Be prepared for the worst That is if it doesn't go the way you thought it would. Just don't cry before him.
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