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Normally, reserving your wedding reception site should be one of the first tasks in your wedding planning strategy. The trendiest reception sites go quickly. It is best to reserve the venue at least one year in advance. It should be one of the first things you take care of on your wedding planning list.
It is true that first impressions are important. How you feel the first time you walk into the venue should be an important factor in deciding on your wedding reception site. If you enter the venue and you have an uneasy feeling, or you are simply uncomfortable about the place, you should move on and continue your search. If you find the place charming, you might move on to the next question. Never book the first venue you visit, you never know what you are missing by limiting your search to only one place.
Wedding reception venues vary in size, and you have to make sure it is large enough to accommodate your party. The venue has to accommodate your wedding party, therefore, you have to make sure the place is large enough. It is not enough to consider your wedding guests. You have to take into account everything from the wedding band to the dance floor to the place for the wedding cake. See if the management allows you to visit the place in action. It is best to get a feel for the size of the place, as it is being setup for a wedding reception.
Most likely your guest will drive to your wedding, so parking is a big concern. You may find a great venue with insufficient parking. It is you job to find a place where your guests can park. If parking is unavailable you should arrange a shuttle or a van to take your wedding guests from the wedding ceremony to the reception.
If you feel comfortable in intimate settings, avoid public reception sites such as hotel lawns. If privacy is something you cannot compromise, you should arrange a private estate. Even hotels and restaurants can be less private than you might think since they often host multiple events on the same day. If this bothers you, you have to make sure there are no other events are scheduled for your wedding day.
A view is worth a million dollars, and it adds to the overall experience. Whether it's a dramatic ocean view, a beautiful mountain view, or a historic park, wonderful art, a great wedding reception will always have something fantastic to see. If your reception is help during dark hours, the view has little significance.
Lighting can influence the overall feel of the event, so make sure the reception hall is well lit. Light can make or break your event. It sets the overall mood of the place, so make sure you see the place lit during your walk through.
There are many more issues and questions you must consider. How much does it cost to use the venue? How much do you have to pay up front? If you are asked to pay the entire cost up front, you should turn around and walk faster than you can say “Tank You.” You should never pay more than fifty percent of the total rental cost. If you put a deposit down, ask about their refund policy. Anything can happen, and you might need to cancel your reservation. You must get the cancellation policy in writing.
Whatever happens get everything in writing. Never assume anything, and only believe what is in the contract. If you can have a wedding planner look through the contract with you before you sign.
You don't have a lot of time to reserve your reception site. The most popular sites go quickly. You should choose your location about one year prior to your event. It should be one of the first things you take care of on your wedding planning list.
Does it feel right?
It might seem silly, but first impressions are also important in deciding on your wedding reception site. If you walk into a venue and you have an uncomfortable feeling, or you are simply uneasy about the whole place, you might want to move on and continue your search. But, if you find the place charming, you might move on to the next question.
Is it big enough?
Yes, size does matter when it comes to wedding reception venues. The place has to accommodate your wedding party. It is a simple thing, but you need to make sure the place is large enough. You need to consider not only your wedding guests but also everything from your DJ to the dance floor to the place for your wedding cake. If you ask nicely, they might let you visit the place in action. Yes, it's best to get a feel for the size of the place, as it is being setup for a wedding reception.
Is there enough parking?
If you live in an area of the country where people would most likely drive to your wedding reception (which is most of the country), you need to make sure your wedding guests can park. If parking is unavailable you should arrange a shuttle or a van to take your wedding guests from the wedding ceremony to the reception.
Is it private?
For example, if you would like a private reception, you shouldn't even consider public places such as parks. If privacy is very important, you need to arrange a private estate. Even hotels and restaurants can be less private than you might think since they often host multiple events simultaneously. If this bothers you, you need to make sure there are no other events are scheduled for your wedding day.
Does it have a view?
A great view can add to the overall experience of your wedding guests. Whether it's a dramatic ocean view, a beautiful mountain view, or a historic park, wonderful art, a great wedding reception will always have something fantastic to see.
Is it well lit?
In addition to the above, you should make sure the reception hall is well lit. Light can make or break your event. The lighting of the room sets the overall mood of the place, so make sure you see the place lit during your walk through.
How much does it cost to use the venue? How much do you have to pay up front? If you are asked to pay the entire cost up front, you should turn around and walk faster than you can say “Tank You.” You should never pay more than fifty percent of the total rental cost. If you put a deposit down, ask about their refund policy. Anything can happen, and you might need to cancel your reservation. You must get the cancellation policy in writing.
What exactly is included in the wedding reception package? You should never take their word for anything. You must get it in writing even if you think you have never met a more trustworthy person in your life. Are chairs, tables, plates, and such included?
What time can you occupy and what time do you have to vacate the reception site? How much are you going to be charged if you stay longer?
Are they insured in case an accident happens? Has an accident ever happened, and how did they handle it?
Do you have to use their caterer, or can you hire your own? Is there a kitchen or other available cooking facility?
Are you going to be the only event scheduled on your wedding day? Could there be any scheduling conflicts, if there are other events scheduled for the same day?
Do they have a liquor license? Can you bring in your own liquor to keep costs down?
Are there any references that you may contact? No references should be a showstopper.
Can you visit the venue as they setup for a wedding, so you can see what the site looks like for the big occasion?
How much flexibility do you have to move things around the room? Can you make the adjustments to the furniture and such to accommodate your event?
Is parking available, and how much does it cost? Is there valet service?
Are the bathrooms and other facilities clean?
Is there a dressing room available for the bride and groom?
Is there a dress code your wedding guests must adhere to? If there is make sure to notify your guests.
Who is going to be there during your wedding reception in case you need assistance? Is there security on the premises? Has there been any criminal activity at the venue?