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[A17]A Christian Wedding Ceremony
by Sean Carter, Sea
In general, wedding is the civil or religious ceremony that celebrates the beginning of a marriage. It is the beginning of a journey that carries along a lot of hopes, dreams and promises. Not all weddings are of the same type. They surely carry the same values but the look of all weddings are never the same.

The look of a wedding differs from place to place. Everybody has their own way of celebrating it. The dress, music and even the decorations may be different. A wedding's particular customs may be different, mixed, or invented so as to perfectly suit the personalities, interests, and cultural backgrounds of the couple.

Marriage to different religions comes with a different meaning. As far as Christianity is concerned, the concept of marriage emerged from the first book of Genesis. The book says, ?it is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a suitable helper for him? (2:18 NIV). God created Adam. He then felt that he was alone and needed a companion. That's when the birth of Eve took place. Most Christian is a strong believer in this concept of creation and also of marriage.

A Christian wedding formally starts off with the announcement. This is a very essential thing. A public announcement has to be made before the wedding. In fact it has to be announced in the local news papers. The church has to be informed three weeks before the wedding. The marriage banns need to be announced three times before the wedding which is done on three consecutive Sundays after the holy mass. Wedding without the announcement of the banns are not always encouraged but this again depends on the church. This is not a rule followed by all the churches. But the ones that do, follow it very strictly. Only in cases of emergency, where the person could not inform before hand or needs to leave the country on the day of the wedding are permitted but with special permission.

Once after they have done with the initial formalities, an announcement for the engagement is made. This is yet again an essential part of a Christian wedding. This is a small ceremony in the presence of the couple's family and friends where both of them exchange rings. Thereafter the reception follows. It could either be a formal dinner, buffet lunch or a cocktail party. Most of the cultures consider the engagement to be the time when the couple spends quality time together to know about each other and learn their interests.

Finally the day of the wedding arrives. Its a day that everyone looks forward to. This is definitely not the first time that the bride and the groom gets to wear a new dress but this is one dress that holds so much importance in their lives. Inside the church, the bride, dresses up in her beautiful white clothes with a crown on her head and the veil dropping down, walks down the aisle along with her father. They walk down to the altar where she is handed over to the groom. This custom is a very essential part of a Christian wedding. There are bride smiths who walk in front of the bride either spreading flowers or holding a bouquet. In most weddings small girls play the role of a bride smith. The wedding ceremony proceeds with the priest addressing the mass. Wedding masses are usually high masses unlike the Sunday ones. The choir gets to the paramount of its rhythm completing the happy picture with the bride and the groom sharing a kiss at the end. In between all this, the videographers and the photographers keep playing their active role, trying to capture every single moment.
The wedding also has the presence of a best man who is the male assistant to the groom and this role is played by the grooms brother or a close friend. He assists the groom throughout the wedding. Similarly it's the bridesmaid who attends to the bride during the wedding. If the bridesmaid is a married woman, she is called the Matron of Honor. Then there is the ring bearer who carries along the ring for the wedding.

Once after the ceremony is over, the bride and the groom goes to sign the register along with one witness from both the sides and they do it in the presence of the priest. Signing of the register is an essential part of a Christian wedding as it strengthens the wedding legally too. The guests are then served the wedding cake which is usually large and mostly is multi-layered. There is a grand grand reception that follows and the wedding remains a long remembered affair among everyone present. And as for the couple, they head off for their honeymoon with nobody around to disturb them.

Planning a wedding can be both an overwhelming and exciting challenge. There are so many details to think about, from the wedding invitations to choosing a wedding videography studio. There is a never ending list of things to do right from the moment your fiancé proposed to you. It usually takes months or possibly years to plan and organize a wedding. There are a lot to accomplish in just little time but still every detail should be perfect.

To complete everything you planned for your wedding it is important for you to create a timetable. Following a timetable will be able to help the wedding day to go smoothly as possible. Every wedding is different so a timetable should be customized to each individual situation. The arrangements for large formal weddings begin as soon as the wedding day is set. Here are a few basic guidelines you can consider in making your own wedding ceremony timetable.

• Three hours before the wedding, the bride and her bridesmaids should arrive at the church. They should begin putting on make up, curl their hair and put on their gowns. This will take about an hour.

• Two and a half hours to two hours, the florist should arrive with the flower arrangements. This will include the bride's bouquet, the corsages, flower girl's baskets and boutonniere's. This is also the time when the groom, his parents and the ushers will arrive. The ushers are in charge of pinning the corsages to the groom's parents, bride's parents and other honored guests. The flowers will be distributed to the bridesmaids and flower girls.

• Taking pre wedding photographs have become popular. This is done once everybody in the wedding entourage is ready. This usually starts two hours prior to the ceremony.

• After completing the pre wedding photography session approximately an hour before the ceremony, the bride and her entourage will take this opportunity to freshen up and retouch their make up. It is a good idea to offer snacks in the dressing but remember to avoid food that may possibly stain the dresses.

• An hour before the wedding, it is the ushers job to direct the guests to their seats.

• The pianists will begin the prelude to the wedding march as the guests arrive about twenty minutes before the wedding.

• Fifteen minutes before the ceremony, check if every wedding participant is ready.

• At about ten minutes, the groom's parents are escorted to their seats immediately followed by the bride's mother.

• Finally the ceremony is about to start. The carefully chosen music for the wedding march will begin. Candle lighters will slowly light each candle down the aisle and proceed to take their seats. The officiating minister, groom and the best man take their places at the front of the altar.

• The wedding entourage starts their walk with the flower girls leading the way. They will be followed by the ring and bible bearers with the bridesmaids close at hand. The maid of honor will be the last person to walk down the aisle as the pianist change the music for the bride's entrance. Everybody will stand up in honor of the bride.

No matter how you organize your timetable, it really depends on your priorities. If you decide on having a wedding videography and photography session before the wedding, it is advisable to arrive at the church ahead of time to avoid delays on the actual ceremony. Careful arrangement and scheduling will allow you to truly enjoy every minute of your wedding day.

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