I want you to doubt everything I say and reach your own conclusions.
Furthermore, I don't want you to believe that what YOU think is true.
What you believe is TRUE is what you experience in your everyday life.
If you are feeling that you are not living a life of joy, this is because of your beliefs.
Have you ever asked yourself what is this little tiny voice inside your head which prevents you from taking action when you want to pick up girls?
The immediate answer may be: "it is me... talking to myself"
If you think this way, let me ask you another question:
"Who is the entity that you refer to as YOU?"
If you dig deep enough you will realize that YOU is basically a combination of many perceptions that you accepted as true and valid.
Some perceptions are factual, like the sun rise up in the morning (don't become philosophical now by saying that we may be dreaming our life... we need a little theory to progress).
And some perceptions are simply ideas and/or opinions.
For example:
- Women want nice guys.
- I am very smart.
- I am not good enough.
- Women will only go out with jerks that treat them badly.
- I need to be more attractive if I want a hot girl.
Now, all of these ideas gather to one identity which we refer to as the "I".
This I will shout out all the relevant information it has, when it feels that you are in danger.
Examples:
I want to go out to this party => initial idea. I will not feel comfortable => your little tiny voice. I think I will stay home to finish this video game => the little tiny voice wins!
People don't really control their lives, they just think they do.
They think they are the ones holding the wheel. When in reality it is the little tiny voice which is holding the wheel in some kind of dark hidden room.
What now? You may ask.
"How can I remove this little tiny voice which prevents me from reaching my full potential?"
Don't ask me.
I don't know how to remove this little tiny voice. And even if I did know I wouldn't tell it to you.
Not because I don't like you, on the contrary, because if I will give you a method, you will only store it in your head has more information which will strengthen your "I" identity even further.
Instead of wanting a method, just be aware of this little tiny voice when it blossoms to the surface in times of crisis.
Like when you try to pick up a girl, for example.
And when you are suddenly aware of it (not saying it is right or wrong) he will immediately stop bothering you.
Frankly, things are not always as bad as the media makes them sound. Part of the job of the media is making things sound more dramatic so you will listen to their coverage of the stories. And if you look back at many of the 'sure disasters' they have claimed, most were quite the overstatement. Take the Y2K bug for example. Many media reports were advising people to stock food, water and money since no computers were going to work after Y2K and therefore our whole society would collapse. It never happened. Sure, there were a few minor glitches, but most were fixed in no time and life continued on in the year 2000 with little more than a hiccup.
When you consider this, you should consider what else they are blowing out of proportion.
Many are blaming the media for being the cause behind much of the financial problems that the country is believed to be having, from the stock market to the real estate industry, not because the problems are that large, but because they are making them that large.
So, how do you know what's safe to invest in. Well for one, you never really know what is a safe investment. After all that is why there is risk to investing. But you can be more confident in real estate than many other options. The reason for this is that real estate is not going to completely disappear. Think about it. Even if the price fluctuates, a real estate investment fund will still hold substantial value, even in the worst of economic times. It's not like the land is just going to shrivel up and disappear. No, unlike companies that can close their doors and take all their shareholders funds down the tube with them, real estate will always have value, even in the worst of times.
If investing in real estate is new for you, you're not alone. There are plenty of people who are just making their way into the real estate market and need a little advice to make sure they are making the right trading decisions. This is where REITBuyer.com comes in to help. REITBuyer.com is a full service REIT broker that not only can help you manage your portfolio and online trading, but is also chock full of research and educational tools as well as charts, tables and programs that can help you learn about the REITs you are interested in and make sure you go into this in the right state of mind.
There always has to be a first time for everything. In this case, take a page from the book of Donald Trump, "Every day, you'll have opportunities to take chances and to work outside your safety net. Sure, it's a lot easier to stay in your comfort zone. In my case, business suits and real estate. But sometimes you have to take risks. When the risks pay off, that's when you reap the biggest rewards."
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