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[B702]Black And Beautiful Women
by David Wygant, Dav

Soulmates…..Myth or Reality?

Todays blog will be part of a live coaching from London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am coaching clients and leading bootcamps!

Robert: So what ages would you say were the women on the subway that you met?

David: They're all ages – probably 25, 26, and close to 40 – they're all ages, all the time. I don't show the age.

When you ask them out, you want to do so basing it on something that you've already talked about, right? So for instance with the black woman in the shoe store, you can let it sit a bit, and don't focus in, and you can have it. So I would have asked her out, and I would have been funny! I would have said, “so do I get a bigger discount if we go out for a drink?”

Or the British Nanny Girl in the art store, how would I have asked her out? I would have just said, “you know, I need another art lesson – give me your number, we need to talk more about it,” and that's how I would have asked her out.

The Paul & Joe woman, I would have said, “you know what? You're fun. You and I have to go shopping one day and look through a bunch of look books. Give me your phone number.” That's how I would have asked her out.

There was another girl in Harvey Nichols that I met when I was trying on a pair of jeans. She picked out a pair of jeans that she liked for me, and I would have said to her, “you know what? I have to get back to my friends, but you have to give me your number. I feel really selfish right now, next time we'll go jean shopping for you. I don't want it to be only about me!”

Those are ways you ask women out. You ask them out based on everything that you have talked about with them during that conversation. You pick an emotional talking point, and you ask them out based on this. By asking a woman out based on an emotional talking point, it shows that you're different than almost every other guy out there.

Most guys don't listen, and they don't pay attention. And what do women want? They want you to pay attention! What did your mother always tell you when you were a little kid? “You never listen to me!” So those are ways that you could have asked those women out.

What about one of the waitresses today? It would have been the same thing – you could have said, “I'm enjoying so much learning about your country, let's get together, I want to learn more.”

Robert: And you would have done it like that? Like in her workplace?

David: Yeah, that's how I do it.

Robert: And there are no repercussions or anything like that?

David: No, they either say yes or no. They don't care about anything else.

What about the Whole Foods Girl? The Chip Girl with her hat? I would have said, “you know, I don't want to see you hurt yourself on the way home. Give me your number; let's get together and I'll bring you a bag of chips. Because if you fall, then I want to make sure you have a nice bag of chips,” or “I don't want them crushing when you put them on your seat.”

Here's the thing: that's creative. When you ask a woman out that way, you're creating their Notting Hill/Hugh Grant moment for them. It's that serendipitous moment for them. You want them to basically call all their friends and say, “you will not believe what happened to me today.”

Let them recite the story. What will happen is that by the time they tell their friends, text their friends – you're a legend! All their friends are saying, “oh my god, Mary, that is so cool – I can't believe that happened to you at work today! Wow, tell me about him again.”

Then you have a nickname – let's say if you met her at the restaurant, you might be known as Beetroot Salad Man. You might be Portrait Guy, or Denim Guy – you want to be that guy. You want to be the guy that gets that nickname, because if you get the nickname then they are passing that nickname along to every one of their friends, and it becomes something that's really fun. You've created that moment.

Women want a relationship to start at hello. That's how they look at things. They've been reading romance novels. So when you open them in the ways we've talked about – with energy, observations – and you ask them out based on stuff you've already talked to them about, they feel like you've paid attention to detail. If you read any type of romance novel, or see any type of romantic comedy, that's how it's done! And that's why women go ‘ooh' and ‘aah.'

You can ooh and aah them just as easily as anyone else. And the great thing about this is that 95% of men don't do this. You're in that 5% range. Do you want to be like everybody else, or do you want to be in that 5% range?


It's a common knowledge, that every nation has its peculiarities. However some world's regions differ much from each other by the appearance of people, uniqueness of the culture, philosophy, religion. In this article I want to tell you about the of Kazakhstan, which have united Asian and European culture in their nature.

First of all, I will tell you about the wonderful country of Kazakhstan ? this will explain those unique traits of Kazakhstanian women. So, here it goes.... The country of Kazakhstan is situated in Central Asian region and borders on Russia and China. It's a multi-cultural and multi-national state. One of the main and biggest cities in the country is Almaty, that has also been a capital of Kazakhstan some time ago. People who have ever come to this amazing city are usually amazed by its main heritage and possession ? beautiful women of different ethnic backgrounds that honour and preserve their culture and traditions.

During some centuries Kazakhstan has been influenced by the two biggest confessions - Muslim and Orthodox. These confessions, actually, caused this diversity of Eastern and Western lifestyles in Kazakhstan. The state language is Kazakh, though Russian is widely spoken and used by the population.

As for population of the country - Kazakhstanian and Russian ethnic groups are definitely the majority. All other national minorities also have their firm positions in the state. According to the ?Wall Street Journal? this country is an example of ethnic and religious tolerance throughout the whole Asian region.

Russian and Asian cultures have created a unique synthesis in Kazakhstan. The ladies, greatly influenced by diverse of ethnic colours, are extremely attractive, unusual, smart and proactive. There is a common understanding of women in this area like European and Eastern types. Orient-looking girls are well known for their mysterious look and men honouring; the ladies with European background - for their brightness and good treating of their husbands. All the girls here were brought up in the best family traditions. So when Kazakhstanian ladies grow up, they are very well-mannered, charming and elegant. The most important is that they all are family focused from their childhood. That's why all make their best efforts and investments for the family creation.

Western gentlemen, coming to Kazakhstan and meeting the for the first time, are very impressed by how sincere, kind, understanding and caring they are. They prefer raising their kids and taking care for their husbands. When talking about love, any of these sweet girls can tell you how much they are inspired to meet a man of their dream and fall in a greatest ever love with him!

Some real stories happened to the guys kept them endlessly happy about meeting their online brides here, in girls? home-town. The men had a chance to witness their ladies? being in so usual and natural for them environment.

Every man, after several months of correspondence with the one he finally found for love and family creation wants to see his future wife in everyday life. At the same time, he accounts to get some understanding of fiancee's national roots, lifestyle of the country she grew up in. Such an approach to serious relationships is important - it's a best way of acquaintance for a mixed couple, coming from different cultures and mentalities. The gentlemen who visit their brides before the marriage, after attending her home know what difficulties their brides can face in his homeland. Of course, their relationships can benefit a lot from such an experience.

First of all it makes the couple closer spiritually, and secondly, it prevents men from any sort of misunderstanding and mistreating of their spouses. For this reason ?Oksanalove? often hosts grooms in the agency's Almaty branch. During such tours guys don't stop getting excited and after, they just forget they had some doubts about the rightness of their choice.

The most memorable examples of fiance hosting is still something amazing to talk about in the ?Oksanalove? agency. It's the stories about how guys were impressed by the hospitality of their future wives and how their brides even exceeded all of their expectations. They were completely puzzled by the fact that their fiancees can be so gorgeously beautiful and at the same time be just good housewives who cook, do the laundry, clean and take care of their men ? simultaneously doing all these things.

All of the Almaty girls who grew up under hot Almaty sun in a friendly and specific multi-cultural environment are warm, passionate and unique. They all look for someone to give all their love and care sharing with their values.
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