[W813]Win Back The One You Love

The message needs to be clearly identified as relevant and timely. Predictably the vast majority of us need to become better focused about the things we are trying to achieve. This is true for all and everything, from what is useful to feelings that are uncomfortable. The puzzle is to be able to achieve a clear mind and then to find the solutions to questions. The 7 Words System offers a unpretentious innate means that allows us to get hold of a greatly improved feeling of what exactly we are looking for. The process starts with the word No. First and foremost we will need to mark out exactly what it is that actually we don't want, what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.

Poems on death of a loved one: HELLO is about openness and attention.

Its importance lies in bringing attention to aspects of death and dying that can perhaps otherwise not be recognized. The next step correlates with the word Hello. We will certainly need to make ourselves open to new possibilities if we are to open out our scope of solutions to lifes various riddles. You agree? To get something fresh we will need to widen our perspectives and look where we have not previously looked earlier. Novel ideas, new associates, new situations and new things are all characteristic of giving awareness to something we have not up to that time come into contact with. This necessitates that we switch old for new, that we have something to offer in reasonable return for what we want to acquire

Poems on death of a loved one: THANK YOU is about giving from the heart.

The poignancy of the reading will depend upon striking a balance between too little and too much sentiment. Among all open opportunities, some are more attractive than others and of course we want them to have a higher meaning, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. So often, we overlook the significance of what we have, slip into ungratefulness and are likely to take things for granted. It's more than merely good manners to demonstrate our appreciation for things we value; it has an important part to play in helping us to realize our objectives . Unconsciously, we are attracted to what we pronounce gratefulness for, and yet it's equally correct to say that we will be able to attract them to us too. We improve our pulling power when we say Thanks and therefore, if we do so, we naturally bring things towards us.

Poems on death of a loved one: GOODBYE is about completion and moving on.

The finality of death has to be dealt with; there is comfort to be offered in Truth. Goodbye is one of the seven primary words and concerns a procedure having four stages. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. Goodbye is being said to a possible stage of change, and so can be seen simply as unreserved refusal of a workable path of action that we had been stepping towards and in future will not pursue. It is a crossroad point in our range of possible futures. Goodbye is different from No in that it suggests that we have had connection already, which now needs to end contrasted with No's refusal to become involved in the first place. Firm decisions cut the past away utterly and that incisiveness gives rise to an opening that otherwise does not come to exist.

Poems on death of a loved one: PLEASE is about vision and prayer.

Many people have little or no experience of prayerfulness hence the special value of poetry to create sacredness through beauty. The future opens out according to the lifestyles of what has gone before unless we take control of it and bend it to our will. This compels us to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, unambiguous and positive transformed into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is to some extent dreamlike and the second is much more centered and controlled. For a vision to become real there must be help. Nothing can be completed without gaining the aid of others - this takes talent, probably persuasion, even motivation. It is not always obligatory to tender something such as money or money's worth.

Poems on death of a loved one: SORRY is essentially about release.

Remorse, guilt and blame are issues that poems can address elegantly. Sorry, the sixth word, is best seen as repairing harm done because we've been unsympathetic or oblivious to the needs or wants of someone else. The best strategy is to make sure we forestall the need to say it by being understanding earlier. Why on earth should we? Well it's because anyone we upset may well act against our better purposes and lessen our probability of achievement of our goals, so it is simply more wise to take into account others as well as ourselves. It is all about being responsible, having some feelings towards someone whom we've upset and making recompense when we've done wrong. Only then is it feasible to avoid or fix any bitterness and leave go of the everlasting unpleasantness that otherwise would increase and continually irritate.

Poems on death of a loved one: YES is about accepting and surrender.

Perhaps the deepest compassion is expressed when leading the bereaved to accept what is inevitable. The last phase of our 7 Words classification relates with acceptance; there are occasions when we simply have to agree to what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be nice wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in fact we can't. We always need to take what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for. The best thing is to trust that everything in the long run turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when comprehended in the perspective of the longer term. Indeed it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! Still hold your fire and you may well see that the unlooked-for occurrences, the surprises and frustrations are actually the best bits camouflaged as hardships.