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I'm often amazed at how many guys follow the same route to work and back everyday. They eat at the same three restaurants every week. They go to the same bar...always. This is not enough if you want to bring truly awesome, high-value women into your life.
You're living too small.
You should know your city streets, and especially your neighborhood streets. You should know the train schedule, or know how to get it quickly and easily. You should know where you can get great food at 3am, or the once a month discount day at the store around the corner, and the one place that ALWAYS has a free parking spot.
You need to become a file of useful information that you can act on to make your life and the lives of those around you better. People will turn to you. You will be a leader automatically.
Women want to be with a leader. In fact, that's part of your responsibility as a man. YOU LEAD!
You're face should be known in all your neighborhood haunts. Even if you only go there once every two months, they should remember you because you engage them--you must make a lasting impression.
Mastering your world is just that. Whatever world you inhabit, it should all seem like your living room. You should be comfortable in it.
The more places you're comfortable in, the greater the reach of your power and your strength. Humans fear uncertainty. As a leader, you become a source of certainty. When you've mastered your world, your range of certainty grows which means you can lead further.
This is why women are attracted to men who have traveled. Everyone loves to be with people who've "got it handled". Become one of them.
Know enough to recognize change--the smaller the increments, the better. Always have your antennae up.
From now on when you walk down the street, you should be studying. Study the buildings, the street, the signs, the billboards, the trees and the insects. Notice and remember. Study the people you see around you.
What are they doing, where are they going? Study and gain insight into what the people around you are about. You can't KNOW, but you can guess better.
Talk to people. Find out what they know. Learn from them. Build a network of people you can go to who know things that you don't. You don't have to be best buddies. Just good enough that they'll take your call and give you 5 or 10 minutes of their time.
Always look for a better idea, a better insight, a better saying. Live larger and your capacity to bring women into your life will grow. Whether that means, more women, or women who are looking for more(i.e. women who already have a lot going for them), is up to you.