So no matter what you say or do, if a woman does not feel attracted to you, you cannot simply convince her to "change her mind"
Just because you're rich, attractive, successful, drive a nice car, take her to fancy dinners, buy her expensive things, that won't make her feel attraction for you.
Women don't choose men they are attracted to based on logic. They might say they do, but they don't.
Women choose mates by their level of attraction they have for them (unless they are gold diggers) and not for what you can give them in return.
A big mistake a lot of men make is bribing women with gifts t make them fall in love with you. But it actually has the total opposite effect. Women see this as you needing their approval because you don't think you are worthy enough to date them without having to buy them things in return.
Why do you think so many women get into relationships with bad boys who treat them terribly? Because these guys trigger an attraction inside these women, it's not logical, but it's a fact.
I'm not saying you have to treat women terribly to make them feel attraction for you, but you don't have to cater to a woman's every need either.
Most women would much rather date a poor guy with no money. As long as he's charming, funny and just a fun date then a guy who's rich, buys them things and is stuffy and boring.
Women want what women want and you can either be what they want or be what they don't want, it's your choice.
This article isn't about changing you to suit women, it's about showing you that you don't need to do all these things to make women attracted to you, you don't need to bribe them, you don't need to stress if one woman doesn't like you, this is your life, you choose who you date, not the other way around.
When asked, most women say they want a nice sensitive guy that will buy them flowers and basically act like one of their girlfriends. They like the idea of getting flowers and having a sensitive guy to talk to about their problems.
Note: A lot of men end up becoming that guy, the guy that girls talk to about their problems. But the relationship usually doesn't get any farther than being just friends.
All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or that they can never seem to find a nice guy to date.
The problem is, this isn't exactly correct. These women aren't lying when they say they want these things...when they think logically they do, because it makes sense. But remember, women don't choose logically what they are attracted to.
So, when they think about it consciously. Women want a guy that will buy them flowers and talk to them when they feel down. But in reality, their instinct is to like a guy who will take control and act like a man should.
Every woman has their own ideas of an ideal man, all of which could make us deduce the top-rated personalities that women get attracted to. If you know what I really mean, you will probably step back and look at the man you love and think about something that made you get attracted to him in the first place. It can be pretty funny to name some attributes about the man we love because sometimes you just see an endless list of little something. Sometimes those attributes may not be the one that you can call ideal.
A pretty good sense of humor is one aspect in a man's life that women find attractive. I mean who would actually love a man who has to be paid millions just to smile? So far I have not met any paragon who would say that she has. Even the most mysterious guys I met back in college and high school, I can still catch them smiling in their own mysterious way. Even the most serious guys I knew, understands and laugh at a joke that has been thrown even if sometimes jokes can be really in bad shape that nobody even starts laughing unless you do.
A pretty clear goal defined by his motivation and desire to reach the goal is also one important personality that women love. An ardent desire to pursue something when he thinks that he can do well and he will achieve it in his own way is one thing that women stand in awe to. He will do whatever he can in his power to follow on an ambition and dream because this definitely will tell a kind of man that can stand on his own feet without anyone trailing his back or loom over his head. He is simply just in control of his life.
A pretty good concentration will make a woman feel really special. When a guy spends time with a woman and gives it truly his time and concentration, it usually gives women the confidence that they are truly liked and that they are not boring. A man who is always running and rushing will likely not settle into something that is mundane. In his relationships, he would is a typical man with a microsecond attention span. This type of man is totally a turn off for women. Women love attention and time being devoted solely for them.
A pretty good self-esteem and self-respect will totally make a woman admire you. It has been always said to me that men are chauvinist and that they are egotistical who always feel superior when compared to women. But this is hardly what defines self-esteem and self-respect. Self-esteem and self-respect is simply put as someone who has values enough to last him in this lifetime but not too much to cause him to stand out and dominate the arena. This is not self-esteem. This is a classic example of too much self-confidence even if he knows that he is not.
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