The ear is just a huge bundle of tiny nerve endings just waiting to be stimulated by you! You can use your fingers, lips and tongue to explore every area of his ear including behind the ear. Start slowly with whatever you feel comfortable with and you should be able to tell what turns him on and what doesnt do much for him by his reactions. Also, men tend to love when his partner lets him know what she is enjoying, so dont hesitate to moan or breathe in his ear!
Men love kissing almost as much as women! While he may not enjoy as much kissing as his partner past a certain point, dont forget to kiss him so that he knows hes wanted and desired. Also, try capturing his bottom lip gently between your teeth or sucking on his tongue. Most men go crazy for creative moves like that!
A mans neck is often a place where women ignore, but they love to have soft kisses planted up and down it just as much as you do! Some men even love to have his partner run her tongue from the base of his neck, over his Adams apple and up to his chin. The key to good neck play is to try not to get the area too wet and avoid leaving marks.
Men may not play with their hair, but it doesnt mean that a thorough scalp massage wont feel good! Gently massage his scalp if you have nails or simply run your hands through his hair. He wont expect it, but hell most likely love it!
A mans chest is one of the most sensitive places a woman can pay attention to during lovemaking. The key to approaching a mans chest is to always be complimentary and treat his nipples as if they are just as sensitive as a womans nipples. They can be gently drawn into the mouth or lightly seized between the teeth for an erotic sensation. Always pay attention to his reaction, as it will be an unfailing way to measure his pleasure levels.
Try paying a little attention to a mans inner thighs. He most likely never has them touched by anything but slacks and they are incredibly sensitive to the touch! Kiss them, touch them, nibble them or lick them! Do what prompts a positive reaction and watch him soar.
Do you know exactly what the glans head is on a man? If you want to drive your man completely wild, this is where you should go! The very tip of a mans penis that looks almost like a purple helmet is the glans head. Focus on this part and watch him soar.
The perineum on a man is located between the anus and the scrotum. Some men absolutely love to have this area gently fondled during foreplay and even during sex if possible. For super sensitivity, try to moisten the area with massage oil or lubricant before gently massaging. For the more adventurous, you may want to venture to the mans anus- it is very sensitive and can bring about a great deal of pleasure.
Finally, you cant completely satisfy your man if you ignore his scrotum! There are a number of names for this part of a mans body including his balls, sac or nuts. This part is incredibly sensitive and should be handled with care! Cradle his scrotum in your hand and gently fondle them, lick them or even gently suck them.
Men enjoy foreplay just as much as women do, so take some time to give him the attention he deserves and he just might be able to find the time to do exactly the same to you! If youve made it this far without him throwing you down and having his way with you, hes probably insane with desire and you will both benefit from his heightened desire!
So you have crossed that frantic stage of groping wildly at your favorite areas, and have calmed down enough to realize that she also has arms, shoulders, legs, a head, a back... the works. Now that you have noticed that there is more to her body than what you observed initially, you can also become more sensuous in your loving ? which will make it that much better for both of you. One excellent way to stoke the embers for a leisurely, lengthy lovemaking session is to start with a sensual massage.
The first rule is: don't massage without lubrication; you need oil. Even if you don't have an aromatherapy oil (better to buy one), use baby oil, or any other oil.
Rule two: don't use too much of it (ever tried to wash oil off cloth? And you don't want to be slipping right off her later on, do you?).
Rule three: remember that a woman's skin is far more sensitive and thinner than a man's. Most women like to be touched gently (and men are sometimes too rough), so keep the touching gentle unless she specifically asks you to touch her more firmly.
Rule four: Your manner should be unhurried and relaxed. Nothing is more off-putting for a woman than a man who is in a hurry to complete the preliminaries and rush towards dessert. You can use several scented candles, and soft music for ambiance... this will help you relax, too.
Now, get into the mood ? not a 'wham bam thank you ma'am mood', but a sensual mood that is on a completely different plane altogether. You can follow your instincts and start where you feel like. Alternately, if you feel the need to follow some guidelines, it is a good idea to start with the shoulders and neck. Some experts also suggest that you start with the head. The temples, when rubbed in gentle circles, always feel good, and will put her at ease.
Ask her for feedback intermittently. Does she need extra massage on some places (neck and shoulders), does she need gentler/firmer touching, or is there anything else she would rather have you do? If she is making happy satisfied sounds, you are probably on the right track.
And now for the last rule ? rule five ? DON'T squash her. The most comfortable position in which you can give a massage is to straddle her. But please don't just throw your weight on her - support your own weight as far as possible. Follow these guidelines, and you are well on your way to a fulfilling sensual experience!
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