Seducing a man may seem like an easy enough task and sometimes it can be. The best way to make it easy is to have some ideas beforehand. Know what you want to do and how to do it first. You especially need the confidence it takes to seduce a man. You know he finds you sexy so this shouldn't be hard to do!
Here are a few tips for seducing your man. You could probably easily come up with your own based on some of these tips. By all means give them a try and see what happens!
? Smell Great: A survey showed that eighty nine percent of men said that the scent of a woman made them that much more attractive. Pick out a fragrance that your guy really likes. Once he smells you, he'll be unable to resist you the rest of the evening.
? Feel Sexy: Confidence gives a major boost when seducing a man. Spend a day pampering yourself and making yourself feel even sexier than you did before. Go to the spa; get a bikini wax or your hair done. Whatever makes you feel sexy all over. This will help in seducing your man and make you all that much more desirable.
? Surprise Him: You could do this in many ways. You could join him in the shower one morning when he isn't expecting you to. Offer to wash his hair and back for him. Just having your soapy hands on him, teasing him, will get him going.
You could also be very sneaky when surprising him. Take a picture of yourself with a digital camera. Wear something he just absolutely loves. Now crop out certain parts of your body and email or send them to his work periodically. Save the best ones for last and by the end of the day, he'll have the whole picture and be ready to come home!
? Be playful and fun: There are many games for partners to play. You could choose a board game or even dice. There are two dice that you roll and one dice says what you have to do and the other says where you have to do it. This can be very fun and playful yet still seductive if played right.
? Use your imagination: Think of different creative ways to seduce that you would never have though imaginable. Be daring and different. This is a great way to seduce him because neither of you would expect you to do something like that. If you go out to eat, sneak off to the bathroom and remove your sexy panties. When you get back to the table, hand them to him under the table.
The possibilities are endless when it comes to seducing your man. He finds you sexy so almost any idea you come up with will be successful. Enjoy it and be yourself. Some women get nervous for fear of rejection but you should know by now that a man hardly ever turns down any form of seduction.
Could you approach those women, start a conversation, continue the conversation, have a laugh together and then get one of the women's phone numbers to follow up for a date?
If no, then here are some tips for approaching women, including what to say and how to behave.
In the same example above (women in a bar, sitting and the table and having fun) a guy walks over to them to start an interaction. He's nervous and quietly takes a seat next to them and meekly says "Hi."
It's all wrong. Not only do women find nervousness unattractive, but he has also started the interaction with the wrong 'vibe' for the situation.
When beginning an interaction with a group, your energy level should be equal to slightly higher than theirs. Don't be an energy leech, or a downer to the flow of their energies.
For example: You walk into a bar and notice four women in a group. They are laughing together quietly and having what looks like an interesting conversation.
How could you start the interaction? Try this: "Hey...I thought I'd come over and say hi...you guys look like you're having fun...my name's _________ so, what's been happening?"
Making Chit-Chat and 'Vibing': Vibing can be described as 'a positive, social rhythm between people.'
It is a crucial skill to learn that makes it easy to get along and connect with women and people. Many people ruin the flow of social interactions by unknowingly spoiling the vibe.
In this next example, I'm going to highlight how not to use the word 'but' in conversation if someone asks you "So, you like football because it's a team game, right?"
Bad vibing "Yeah, but going to the match is what I really like best about football."
Good vibing "Yes, definitely...You're right - it's a good team game. I love being at the match as well. You ever been to a match?"
Can you spot the difference? The subtle inclusion of the word 'but' instead of 'and' changes the meaning and feeling of your response. It basically says, "Yes, but you are more wrong that you are right. So, you really don't know me and we don't connect very well."
Whenever you say, "Yes, but _________" you effectively negate the other person's input and are basically saying no instead of yes.
You want to create momentum and flow in the interaction, instead of stopping it every few sentences with a but.
Example: Being too technical.
Your housemate: Hey, I got a new toaster. Isn't it cool? You: Cool! I won't have to waste time toasting each side under the griller now. Nice work! Your housemate: It doesn't take that long under the griller...
Can you spot the bad viber? Yes, it's your annoying housemate.
Example: Not allowing you to enjoy your fleeting moment of excitement.
You: Hey, I got this new jumper at a bargain price! Guess how much? Other person: I don't know... $5 bucks? You: Ummm...no actually, it was $85...but that's still 50% off and a good bargain. Friend: Oh, right... yeah, that's still good.
Active Listening: Listen out for what people are saying and then use that to open up relevant conversational threads.
Example: A woman says, "We've just seen a live band." You can then talk about live music, nightlife, favorite bands, venues, etc.
Example: You ask a woman what she's been up to and she replies, "Oh, we're having a girl's night." Talk about how cool it is to get together with friends and have a night out...and that you are having a boy's night!
"Awesome...yeah, me and _____ are having a boy's night...we started at _____ bar and now we thought we'd have a few drinks here...how about you guys -what's been happening?"
Use these tips for approaching women and you will avoid experiencing those awkward moments when you don't know what to say.
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