The Veterans Disability Commission met in St. Petersburg, Florida, in a Town Hall format to listen to the concerns of the veterans' community. The meeting was conducted over two days. The entire 15-member commission was present. The first session began with the chair making brief remarks explaining the mission and purpose of the commission. The executive director then explained the process the commission would undertake to complete its mission.
The main focus of the commission was to listen to the public. The public-comment session lasted ninety minutes. The hearing room was packed because the word had reached the veterans' community in the St. Petersburg-Tampa area. Veterans from across the state also were in attendance.
In advance of the meeting, Craig Tonjes, the Florida State Council president, sent a letter to all veterans' organizations, apprising them of the importance of showing up at the commission sessions. I also contacted the local VVA chapters to insure that VVA and interested veterans were in attendance. The early warning worked.
The Town Hall process doesn't leave individuals much time to state a point of concern. Most presenters didn't have a clear understanding of the purpose for which the commission was formed and presented remarks that were not germane. Many of the presenters expressed a feeling that the commission was created for the purpose of finding ways to reduce or eliminate benefits.
The chair addressed that perception when he stated that it was not the intention of the commission to reduce or eliminate benefits. However, I am not sure the statement convinced anyone in the meeting room.
The statement prepared by David Houppert, VVA's director of Veterans Benefits, was entered into the record. Craig Tonjes and Tom Hall, the Florida State Council treasurer, also addressed the commission.
Fewer veterans attended the second session. Yet, some veterans who had just heard about the commission through the local media showed up. The structure for the second day was even more restrictive. After opening remarks, the executive director of the Florida Department of Veterans Affairs, Col. Rocky McPherson, spoke. He mentioned the concern that the Veterans Benefits Administration in Bay Pines showed a reduction of staff in the Regional Office, but he could not provide an explanation. The new regional office director did not have an explanation, either.
The chief of the Tampa VA Hospital Poly Trauma Rehabilitation Center, Steven G. Scott, described the workings of the Trauma Center. He went into great detail about how they care for seriously injured service members. The process of analysis and evaluation of injuries covering all aspects from initial diagnosis to secondary and tertiary issues, including the issue of pain, was explored. Commission members asked about the relationship between pain and rating for disability purposes.
Donald Ivers, the former Regional Office Director in St. Petersburg, explained the theory used by the VA to incorporate the issue of pain into current ratings. The issue of PTSD versus blast syndrome was discussed since many of the symptoms are similar for each and could be misdiagnosed.
The public comment period was even shorter than it was the previous evening. It was during that session that I presented a brief version of my prepared testimony. Also in attendance at the morning session was the former Director of the St. Petersburg VA Regional Office, Donald Ivers, and the former Under Secretary for Veterans Benefits, John Vogel.
The commission will visit seven additional areas of the country. Preparation prior to appearing before the commission is very important. Since each individual only has five minutes to speak, targeted brief remarks are needed.
Issues should be broken up into individual, short presentations so more territory can be covered. This will require more VVA members to attend these meetings. Turnout is important.
During the evening session, I had a chance meeting with one of the commission staff members, a friend of almost 20 years, Jackie Garrick. She is a veteran, a social worker, and previously she worked for the American Legion. Garrick mentioned that she would attend the commission hearings in Boston and Chicago.
I also had an opportunity to talk with Joe Wynn, a member of the commission. Craig Tonjes, Tom Hall, and I also spoke to Butch Joeckel, another commission member.
Many questions persist, and we still don't know for sure what recommendations will be made to the President and Congress. The overbearing presence of VA personnel and the reliance on the IOM and the Center for Naval Analysis make me nervous. So does the number of high-ranking retired military officers.
After all the stages of getting to know, much talking, and fooling around online, most internet daters meet up for that one single moment of finally finding out if there's magic or spark between them. Some people are so caught up with the illusion of online dating that they tend to forget the other relevant issues when it comes to meeting people from online sites. Some people tell lies online. They can pretend to be what they are not. And the other person becomes a victim of dishonest and dangerous people.
Men and women should use their judgment for personal protection. But sometimes date-seekers are so jaded of the fact that they must meet the other person in a safe place at a safe time. They get out of their shells and instantly embrace the other person as if they have known them forever.
Here are some applicable tips for online daters who plan to meet off line.
Only meet when you feel it is necessary to meet. Pressure is a bad recipe for bad online dating. Some of them gets eaten by this and easily gives in to the pressure of meeting up fast. It is better to continue dealing with the other person for a much longer period of time. Although you may not actually know everything about him online, you will be surprised that a longer talk provides some unintentional revelations about the other person. And by being a smart observer, you will easily have a point of judgment for that person. You will know if a good cooking is on the way. Or, things won't just work out for the both of you. So, it is best to be honest about yourself and also demand honesty from them.
Before you meet in person you should inform a close friend or a relative that you are going out on a date. Let them know the time, place, and most especially the identity of the person you are about to go out with.
Meet the other dater in public. Meet in a safe and familiar location where you know your way around. However, you should try to avoid the cafes or restaurants where people may know you. You should not give them the opportunity to get more information about you other than the things you have told them.
We all have a sense of intuition. Listen to what your secret angel tells you. You will feel whether or not the conversation is flowing well. If you sense that something bad is about to happen you should leave at once.
Do not reveal where you live. Do not let him drive or bring you home. Make excuses for saying no. And make sure that he doesn't follow you home. Change your route.
Although some people may be lucky enough to find in online dating that special someone that can drive them nuts and bring them into the house of wedding bells, remind yourself that there are few who do not. It is best to always keep online dating safe and sound.
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