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[B615]Best Ways To Get A Girl
by Wilfrid Baptiste, Wil
Nobody likes the feeling that comes with having more month left at the end of your money. And while we're always advised to cut our expenses, such a strategy can only go so far. Sometimes, you absolutely have to increase your income and for the vast majority of us, that means getting a pay raise. The following suggestions are not guaranteed to land you one; if anything, getting a raise is never guaranteed unless you're self-employed and manage to grow your business. But if you follow the advice below, you will be way ahead of the curve compared to your coworkers who figure that complaining and/or playing the office politics game is what's going to get them ahead.

First of all, you have to ASK FOR IT. It's unbelievable the number of people who keep saying to all their coworkers (who have no power on the matter) that they want a raise, but they will never walk up to their boss and state their case. Also, keep in mind that the further down the corporate ladder you are, the more you need to do to get yourself noticed.

Make yourself indispensable. Identify those tasks that no one seems to be able to do particularly well, or that often require that they call for outside help, and master them. Do your best to spread your skills in a number of different areas within the company. Your market value is tied to the particular set of skills you bring to the table for the company. It helps if said skills either make the company money, or save it money.

Convince others of your talents. This one falls right in line with the previous suggestion. If you can manage to demonstrate to your customers, coworkers, and subordinates (if any) that you have special skills, it's only a matter of time before your boss gets wind of it. Stating your case will get that much easier.

Don't make threats. Unless you have a written offer lined up, never threaten to quit. If your boss calls your bluff, you will end up being in big trouble. On the other hand, if you do have real offers from other firms, you have just gained great leverage in future pay raise negotiations. One more thing, be prepared to come up with a solid case. Needing more money to make ends meet is hardly an iron-clad case.

Put the emphasis on quality and efficiency. When times are tough, companies hold on to talented staff. Those who use company assets wisely and help improve the company bottom line are more likely to be not only kept, but rewarded for their contribution

Don't compare yourself to a better-paid coworker. You'll most likely find yourself in the situation where your boss puts you down, pointing out your shortcomings (everyone has some), while singing your coworker's praises, just to defeat your arguments.

Perfect your timing. A company that's in the middle of a downsizing isn't likely to simultaneously hand out generous raises. More often than not, the deciding factor whether or not you will actually get that raise is company performance. If the company is bleeding money, it doesn't matter how hard you're working, it won't help your cause.

So, in this day and age, what are the best ways to get a date?

1. You can start by not being afraid to get rejected. I mean, come on, yes it hurts that when you ask for a girl's digits, she gives out lame excuses like, she does not believe in cell phones or that she is a lesbian but hey, no foul, no play right? This is one of the best ways to get a date.

2. Girls like men oozing with self-confidence. You may hear this a lot, and this may not be new advise. The reason for that is that it because it is true. Do not confuse confidence with arrogance.

3. Bring you're "A game" all the time. At least be presentable, shower before hitting your special spot, comb your hair, wear clean clothes, brush your teeth, floss and make sure you slap some deodorant on. Add a dash of cologne subtly if you want. If you really are looking for the best ways to get a date, then this is one.

4. If you put too much pressure in introducing yourself to girls, then you will just end up having clammy hands and stuttering like a 4 year old in front of a class play. Relax. Breathe. If you are in a bar, drink one shot to loosen up your nerves. This does not mean get silly drunk.

5. Smile! A warm and genuine smile can lighten up any mood and it can make anyone feel more comfortable.

6. One of the best ways to get a date after you do end up sputtering and stuttering like a buffoon is to make a joke out of it. Try this. As soon as she gives you that quizzical look as if her face is asking what seems to be wrong with this guy, crack the tension by saying, "Sorry, beautiful girls intimidate me." Then add a real chuckle after.

7. Make the conversation to way once you have introduced yourself to the girl. You talk, then she talks. Balance it out.

8. In terms of the place that are classic factors, then do not shy away from the usual places like, bars, clubs, watering holes, etcetera. Then, if you want more unconventional areas to get a date, join a club or an organization or go to a place where you will meet people that have the same passion and interests as you do. These places will easily give you new acquaintances that you may end up dating.

These are just some of the many tips to get that date you always wanted. However, for the best of the best ways to get a date, you have to know the time and tested techniques to grab that girl.

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