When traveling from one location to another, your destination is determined by your set direction. If you live in Los Angeles and your destination is New York, then your direction needs to be east. If you're on the East Coast and you want to get to the West Coast then your direction needs to be west.
This may seem to be very obvious, and it is, but it is also very true with where our lives are headed. Your goals, dreams, and desires are your destinations. But you can only arrive there if you are headed in the direction that will take you there.
Just as wishing and hoping to be in L.A. while you are in New York doesn't get you there, so, too, wishing and hoping for your goals and dreams to come to pass does not bring them into your life.
Suppose your desire in life is to be a best selling author. Well, what are you doing to point yourself in that direction? Is there anything that you do on a daily basis that is pointing you in that direction? How about weekly?
You have to honestly ask yourself if your daily and weekly activities are taking you where you want to go. For example, have you written a book? Have you started to write a book? Do you have a file with notes that could be used for a book?
Are you learning how to develop writing skills? Are you reading books in the genre you'd like to write in? Have you talked to someone who has written a book?
If there is nothing going on in your life that is pointing to your "destination," then perhaps it's time to re-group and decide what you truly do desire in life. It is very important to be clear on your goals and dreams.
Not having clear goals is like driving from L.A. excited about going to New York, but getting distracted along the way somewhere in Colorado. The next thing you know, you leave Colorado and head south for Texas. But what happened to New York?
If you want to reach your destination, you need to focus clearly on that destination. The same is true for your goals and desires. Here's a good point to consider. Are they truly your goals and desires? Is it really your destination? Is it really what you desire for your life?
If it's not, you will never fully believe in it. You will have mental resistance to it, and you will struggle trying to see it happen. You will not be focused on that destination.
Your goals, dreams, and visions have to be yours.
And, you can't just sit in a corner all day long waiting for the doorbell to ring. Are you just waiting to answer the door to find someone there who hands you your accomplished goals and desires?
It's important to examine your daily and weekly activities to see if the things you are doing are keeping you in the right direction by moving you closer to your desired destination. In other words, your actions should keep you pointed toward your desired destination.
In addition, you need to check and see if there is anything working contrary or counterproductive to what you desire. For example, you might not want to spend a lot of time with people who would be critical of your dreams. You might not want to read or hear negatives about publishing a book.
Always make sure, first of all, that your destination is truly where you desire to go. And finally, stay focused, persistent, and confident.
?Fetish? has several meanings: a. It's something that is supposed to have magical or spiritual powers, b. An object of unreasonably extreme attention or veneration, c. Something which arouses sexual desire, and may be required for sexual gratification. Although fetish is a word with diverse meanings, the latter, which is associated with sex, has gained the most popularity. The word fetish has its roots from the 15th century Portugese word feiticio which means false power, object or charm. Talismans were revered as fetish (beads, charms, totems), and the fetishists were those who worshipped the bizarre. In later years, however, the connotation of the word took on an entirely different and sexual meaning. Fetishes come in varied kinds: media, form and animate. Material is obsessed over in a media fetish. Examples are leather, silk, nylon and latex. In a form fetish, the shape of the object has great importance. Lingerie, stiletto heels, and knee-high boots belong in this classification. Parts of the human body are also considered fetishes. Feet, hair, breasts, butt, nose are some of the most common, and since these are part of the human body, they are called animate fetishes. In fact, any object can be turned into a fetish. This obsessive fixation leaves some people uncertain if they even have a fetish or not, while others think that having a fetish is a sign of perverseness. If the fetish interferes with a persons? relationships, then it is wise to seek help from a professional. Here are some of the most favourite fetishes among the human species: Taut tummies make men and women alike somewhat crazy. Although some men rather like it when a woman has tummy with a teensy little pot, others are simply disgusted with a stomach that protrudes or hangs loosely. Body piercing is a favourite of the younger crowd, usually from ages 18-35. Pierced bellybuttons, tongues, nipples, eyebrows and even penises are a major turn on. Men especially love tongue rings because of the heavenly feeling they experience when the cool object rubs against the penis during oral sex. While most men would like to settle down with a sweet woman, the ?bad girl? look will forever be a fixation. Leather, rubber, vinyl and latex all give a rather pornographic quality to a sexual encounter. The sight of the woman moving around clad in these materials is already a tease in itself. Add a pair of handcuffs and leather whip, and you'll find yourself in the new millennium where women dominate and guys submit. No, it's not just on TV or in the movies: a lot of women love to order their men in bed like slaves, smack them and spank them. Meanwhile, guys enjoy having those things done to them. Why? Maybe because most of them are tired of performing every single time. Some guys make it a requirement for their dates to have beautiful feet or toes. Men enjoy kissing, sucking and biting a woman's feet. Women, on the other hand, love to suck men's fingers as though it is a penis. Red lipstick and red-lacquered fingernails are the clich? of the ?80's, but some guys are still infatuated with it. A woman's nails running down their back and red lipstick smudged all over gives them a feeling of adulterated sex. One of the most favoured fetishes among guys is hair. It is an ultimate turn-on, whatever the color and length. Some are into pigtails and ponytails, probably because of the illusion that these hairstyles evoke: they have a fondness for younger women, and these hairstyles make them feel as if they are gratifying their desires. Voyeurism is more common in men'a lot of guys find it easier to achieve orgasm while watching porn or another couple in the act. Women are not as voyeuristic, but a few admitted that they like being watched when having sex.
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