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[W685]Where To Meet Women

by Ryan Street, Rya

A lot of people playing the dating game will ask me this question over and over again. "Where Do I Meet Women?" Many people's usual response is single's bars and clubs. The people who usually ask me this already know of those places and those places aren't really their scene. So, when a man is faced with this dilemma, I usually give him this piece of advice.

Just about anywhere! That's right, you don't have to limit yourself to singles bars and nightclubs to get your dose of dating. Location is not really that important. Sure, those singles bars and clubs will have more available women, but those places usually have much more fierce competition if your pick up skills are not up to par. It is these skills you must practice and master before you break out of the idea that bars and clubs are the only place to meet women. It is these skills that are your real assets.

How do I master these skills? Just like anything else. You have to practice at them before you master them. Sometimes that takes a lot of trial and error. Be prepared for this. Approach women and start a conversation. Don't be afraid to get rejected. It is these rejections that will improve your approach and finally break you out of the location restrictions that are holding you back.

Bars and clubs are good places to practice. When you start out, go to those places as a way of practicing or honing your pick up skills. Be sure to try new things. Never stop learning. It is these skills that are the key to picking up women, not the location you are in. You can see what responses you get from your pick up maneuvers in these places.

As far as other places, as I said, anywhere you find a woman that attracts you is a great opportunity to say something new. A few choice places are places that YOU have an interest in. Enjoy sports? How about your local Gym or YMCA? These places have women that share the same interest. Restaurants, parks, and other public places. I have even heard of men that pick up women at the grocery store!

Now, once you have found a good place to find and approach women, hang out there on a semi-frequent basis. Do not be a lurker! These men are the ones who give off the creepy vibe. Trust me, women can see these men a mile away. They are the men at the grocery store who have been there for two hours and don't have a single item in their basket. It is best to be natural. Actually enjoy yourself at these places and women will be more receptive to what you have to say instead of putting up their defensive gates.

The key is not where you approach women, it is how you approach women. Every time you approach a woman, study the responses you get. Then, after awhile, adjust your responses from past results. Eventually you will see that women can be met anywhere. They real golden ticket is attracting them once you find them.

It's tough being a guy. Traditionally speaking, it's still incumbent on the guy to make the first move and ask a girl out on a date. Thankfully, more and more, girls are taking the initiative. The trouble is, it's like getting picked for teams in grade school. You never know when your name will be called. Therefore, guys must take charge of their own love life. But where does a guy go to meet a girl beyond the standard nightclubs and bars? For the guy who isn't afraid to open himself up to new experiences, he'll have no trouble finding a potential partner.

Let's face it, most guys don't like to dance. It's embarrassing to them and they suffer from two left feet. Well get over yourselves. All the better to join dance classes. You'll never lack a dance partner as men are scarce in dance classes. Lots of women would be very willing to show you the proper dance steps.

Along the same lines, I'd also recommend that guys sign up for cooking classes. I'm sure this is nothing new. It's a high school ploy so if high school kids can think up of this, why not try it now that you're all grown up. The same numbers logic for the male to female ratio applies.

For another tip, I'd recommend going through a listing of cultural events that are happening in your city. The benefit is the fact that you're a foreigner in an ethnic party so you stand out. People are extremely hospitable during these parties. Be prepared to bring an appetite as lots of women will attempt to feed you. What a great conversation starter to talk about culture. Right away, it will let her know that you are interested in her background so bonus points from the beginning.

I have talked about stepping outside the comfort zone in order to meet women and to experience something new. But to be totally honest, single women are everywhere. They fill up for gas, they buy groceries, they wash their clothes at laundromats. It's up to you to pick up on the tell tail signs. The most obvious would be a wedding ring but other subtle clues involve looking at what she's buying and the quantity. After you have established the woman of interest, it's about getting into the right frame of mind and having the guts to strike up a conversation where it isn't the traditional dating meat market. Once again, it's about extending your boundaries of comfort. It might be hard at first but afterwards, these opportunities to meet women are endless.

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