Love is a type of eternal bond in which one tries to bring joy for other at the sacrifice of his own happiness. Love lights the heart of people and stops violence. Love can kill all the miseries of life like pain and sorrow. Love brings peace and happiness in life. Love brings desire to live life. Love is not only between husband and wife but it is the relationship between two individuals who have consideration for each other it can be between father and child, mother and her son, brother and sister, between friends or may be between a man and his pet dog. Example: Husband loves his wife, mother loves her child, businessman loves their business and saint loves god.
Love is the gift that you can give your dear ones. Love is like a precious pearl and the people who understand the meaning of love will never let it fell down. Love is sign for happiness and it can bring pleasure in life. Love is sweeter than sugar, higher than sky and brighter than sun. A person who has not loved anyone is incomplete in himself. If you have never loved anyone, if your life is full of sorrow only love is a weapon by which you can kill all your miseries and bring happiness for yourself and to others also. You can kill the enmity of your enemies just by saying few words of love.
You can kill the quarrel just by love. The life of love never comes to end. Love never dies. The beginning of love can not be traced in history. It is believed that the existence of love is longer than existence of human being. When a young man expresses his love towards his beloved he may do it by words like I love the way you think, the way you perceive things, the way you caress your dear ones, the way you present yourselves, the way you behave with strangers.
This means that if you love a person there may be various reasons for your love. These could be: You may love a person because of his or her qualities like everyone loves great personalities Example: Everyone loved Mahatma Abraham Lincoln because he was a great personality. You may love a person because of the relationship that he or she may have with you like father loves his child because of the relationship. You love others and caress for them because of your inherent qualities. Example: Abraham Lincoln loved everyone because of his qualities.
Lie No. 1: The opposite of love is hatred.
Nothing could be further from the truth. The opposite of love is judgment. This is like matter and anti-matter: love and judgment cannot co-exist at the same point in time, space, or any other dimension. Where there is judgment, there is diminished or no love at all. Whenever and however we judge someone or something, we are not loving unconditionally that person or something.
Think about this. More importantly, feel with it. Love feels great. Do we not crave love and bask in its glow? Yet the one thing most of us fear and loathe more than anything else is the mere possibility of being judged in some manner.
Judgment terrifies us so much that we will keep silent rather than be judged for speaking out. We refuse to take risks and pass up opportunities for fear of somehow failing (another judgment). Wallowing in our pits of ambivalence, we avoid intimacy out of our fear of being judged by another person.
We dare not even think about our fear of being judged by God.
Lie No. 2: Love hurts.
No, it does not. Review Lie No. 1. Love is a free-flowing torrent that yields and adapts at the blink of an eye. That is why it feels so wonderful.
If love hurts, then somehow and in some way, there is judgment attached or involved in such love, and it is no longer true, meaning unconditional.
Judgment is rigid, unmoving, and unbending. This characteristic of judgment is precisely how it places limits--meaning conditions, standards, or expectations--on love. And whenever there are limits on love, the unavoidable consequence is pain, hurt, and tragedy beyond comprehension.
Lie No. 3: Love is hard.
Wrong again. Love--the unconditional variety--is the easiest thing in the world. Judgment is hard. Judgment makes love unnecessarily hard by making it needlessly complex thanks to the conditions, standards, and expectations it places on love.
Judgment is also tough--and damn proud of it. The very phrase "tough love" means that there is judgment involved, but perhaps not in the manner expected.
Some examples will help clarify our understanding here. The parents who keep bailing their adult children out of trouble do so out of need. Their need stems from their judgment-based expectations about what constitutes "good" parenting.
A wife refuses to leave an abusive husband because she has judged herself unworthy of a kinder life partner. She does no know consciously that she has this judgment against herself. But it is reflected back to her in abuse from an unloving spouse.
Lie No. 4: There's a price to pay for love.
No, no, no! Unconditional love exacts no price, imposes no penalties, makes no demands. It just is.
If the love we experience imposes a price, then what we are encountering is conditional, limited love.
Lie No. 5: Love conquers all.
Sad to say, this isn't true, either. Love cannot conquer fear. In the short term, fear trumps love. Fear is what drives most people on this planet to do, say, and act in crazy, incomprehensible ways.
And so love waits, with infinite patience, for us to become tired of our fears, bored with our games, fed up with our isolation.
Love may not conquer all, but because it is unlimited and unending, love ultimately triumphs over fear.
Love waits for each of us, too. So what are we waiting for?
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